2009.06.29 07:00 - A New Friend

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    What a lovely thing, to meet a new friend ... KallieCal


    Nymf Hathaway: Hello Kallie :)
    Kallie Kira: hi Nymf :)
    Kallie Kira: how are you ?
    Nymf Hathaway: Doing well thanks... I think we haven't met yet... how are you?
    Kallie Kira: I'm good! ... and yes, nice to meet you :)
    Nymf Hathaway: Same here :)
    Kallie Kira: are you new to the group? (sorry, I don't keep up very well with that stuff)
    Nymf Hathaway: yes I am and no problem :)
    Kallie Kira: ah, ok :)


    Kallie Kira: you are doing the 9sec boogaloo?
    Nymf Hathaway: well I seem to...but everytime someone asks me I wonder :) and you?
    Kallie Kira: lol
    Kallie Kira: if you think you are, ... you are ... in my estimation :)
    Nymf Hathaway: Smiles
    Nymf Hathaway: well my heart is in it :)
    Kallie Kira: that's what counts


    Kallie Kira: what do you find when you do it? what do you observe?
    Nymf Hathaway: finally I get a change to focus on me... so it started out as to relax more but since it presents me questions I didn't ask myself before
    Kallie Kira: interesting
    Nymf Hathaway: Hope you understand :( bad english
    Kallie Kira: no, it's perfect and yes, I understand :)
    Nymf Hathaway: :)
    Kallie Kira: English is my first language and when I type my thoughts I do it badly sometimes :)
    Nymf Hathaway: yes sometimes we shorten our sentences etc
    Kallie Kira: not that you are doing badly ... I didn't even guess that English was not your first language
    Nymf Hathaway: Smiles, thank you :)
    Kallie Kira: someone reading the log might think I was from some ancient culture, one of the undead unable to speak properly :)


    Nymf Hathaway: a sec Kallie, be right back
    Kallie Kira: sure
    Kallie Kira: take your time
    Nymf Hathaway: yes back again, reading
    Kallie Kira: :) ..... when you said "it presents me questions I didn't ask myself before" what did you mean?
    Nymf Hathaway: hahhaha
    Kallie Kira: lol, a virtual zombie :)
    Nymf Hathaway: well... I have always been a thinker, nothing new there but this group provides me with questions I didn't come up myself...as recently the question; Why do we become sad or have tears when seeing something beautiful....its a very interesting one
    Kallie Kira: yes, what beyond ourselves moves us, what is that part of reality that is a common touchstone that we can know as beauty or loss? like that?
    Nymf Hathaway: Yes :)
    Nymf Hathaway: during the rest of the day it brought peace to think on it time by time
    Kallie Kira: yes, I have had similar experiences
    Kallie Kira: those things that touch us all, that commonality, I think of as a common thread among us beings, part of how we "be" in a common space of love, or beauty and how we can see that occasionally
    Nymf Hathaway: Agrees
    Nymf Hathaway: Talking about ancient.... these feelings of being vulnerable when looking at something beautiful... that feel ancient
    Kallie Kira: yes, like a very compelling tie to what came before us
    Nymf Hathaway: Yes


    Kallie Kira: how do you think things that are more negative tie into the commonality .... I was discussing the nature of evil with my friend Zorn and what the motivation for that is .... wondering about how that fits in with the commonality of creatures
    Kallie Kira: that perhaps it is a learned set of responses?
    Nymf Hathaway: oooh interesting
    Kallie Kira: or perhaps internal to that being?
    Kallie Kira: or ... ???
    Nymf Hathaway: first I think you need to determine evil...because negative is something different
    Nymf Hathaway: someone can be negative without being evil
    Kallie Kira: yes ... from my own experience I know I have done things (that I see in retrospect) that were of conflicting motivations but do not think I have done true evil, something with malice and cruelty .... so it is hard to understand
    Nymf Hathaway: I agree...negative is something that overcomes us all once or twice...evil is a fully different thing
    Nymf Hathaway: but interesting question!!!!
    Nymf Hathaway: yes what is the purpose
    Kallie Kira: exactly ... I don't get it ... I guess that is good that most people don't :)
    Nymf Hathaway: Maybe there is none...and we humans just like to see a reason for everything that happens?
    Nymf Hathaway: I agree :)
    Kallie Kira: yes, for sure, a rational explanation is sought for everything


    Nymf Hathaway: a philosopher pointed me towards this...on another topic (he was saying; is life perfect...since everything around is us beautiful, nature animals etc
    Nymf Hathaway: but he said; no, we just forget a lot of animals is distinct...
    Nymf Hathaway: what rest is: good
    Nymf Hathaway: Its almost maths
    Kallie Kira: I can see that... a preponderance of good
    Kallie Kira: so, some outliers but maybe in the good range
    Kallie Kira: is where most of the group lies
    Nymf Hathaway: so why the negative on earth...because we have black and white, yin and yang, boys and girls...just a counter weight?
    Kallie Kira: lol
    Kallie Kira: picturing big balance scale
    Nymf Hathaway: :))
    Nymf Hathaway: well look at the environment we are pretty close to a flip over... glaciers are melting...less reflection of the sun on the ice....ensures more warming up extra
    Nymf Hathaway: its balance maybe
    Kallie Kira: yes, the situation is critical
    Kallie Kira: maybe so
    Nymf Hathaway: although she herself doesn't understand why it should do...do not see a good enough reason for negative so far
    Nymf Hathaway: maybe to experience positive :)
    Kallie Kira: :)


    Kallie Kira: I have the idea that things like 9sec and the way we share that and extend it and all the other things happening where people learn to share positive commonalities are small seeds for better days ahead .... a small hope anyway :)
    Nymf Hathaway: I like to share the thought
    Kallie Kira: lol, our contribution to "see the be" :)
    Nymf Hathaway: :))))


    Kallie Kira: I talk to my daughter about the nature of reality ... it seems she (and kids by extension) are closer to it than say someone older who has more time away from naturally seeing (be)
    Kallie Kira: maybe because they are still close to the ground ... ha ha
    Nymf Hathaway: yes and not forget...their eyes are on a lower level...so the are confronted by it up close...I see that with mine :)
    Nymf Hathaway: hahhahahha
    Kallie Kira: yes, fewer complexities piled onto them so better access maybe
    Nymf Hathaway: oh yes
    Nymf Hathaway: and what about the fact their brain is every 15 seconds thinking; wow from that I can make this...or heh a toy :)
    Nymf Hathaway: they are really open to anything new
    Kallie Kira: yes,!!! so engaged in play
    Kallie Kira: how all things are a form of play
    Nymf Hathaway: yes
    Kallie Kira: I was recently on vacation and could drop my schedule .... each day was open, open to whatever I wanted to play ... it seemed so extravagant
    Nymf Hathaway: luxury :)))) and I hope you enjoyed to the fullest!!!
    Kallie Kira: yes .... I swam in the sea, then the pool, then ate, then back to the sea, then walking, no plan .... just hey let's go "anything" !!
    Nymf Hathaway: Nice :)))
    Nymf Hathaway: Must have been great for your daughter as well :)
    Kallie Kira: yes, we all became very relaxed


    Nymf Hathaway: Sounds like a nice project; looking through the eyes of your own kid...how does the world come in?
    Kallie Kira: note to self; make fewer "suggestions" :)
    Nymf Hathaway: :)))
    Kallie Kira: lol, it's tough being a mom
    Nymf Hathaway: yes it is
    Nymf Hathaway: always wanting to do right
    Kallie Kira: gentle guidance and training for a nutso world
    Nymf Hathaway: yes
    Kallie Kira: seeing her room through my daughter's eyes it is probably like a comforting nest, through a mom's eyes a distressing mess .... relax big grasshopper, little grasshopper is happy :)
    Nymf Hathaway: yes the bedroom :) almost need a stick to jump for the window at times :)
    Kallie Kira: LOL
    Kallie Kira: yes, or one of those exterior fire ladders to climb up and peer in :)
    Nymf Hathaway: My mom always dumped it on my bed...so i couldn't go to sleep before cleaning up, that worked :)
    Nymf Hathaway: hahhaha
    Nymf Hathaway: Phone :(
    Kallie Kira: ok :)


    Kallie Kira: I think I will take your suggestion to see from her eyes for a bit, see what shows up
    Nymf Hathaway: Nice :) I will do the same
    Nymf Hathaway: pity to say I need to log off
    Kallie Kira: ! fun! an experiment
    Kallie Kira: ok, no worries ... really enjoyed speaking with you today :)
    Kallie Kira: think I will go as well
    Nymf Hathaway: Yes same here, glad you gave me friendship :)
    Nymf Hathaway: See you later :)
    Kallie Kira: lol, yes, thank you also ... I feel lucky to have met you
    Kallie Kira: bye :)
    Nymf Hathaway: Bye bye :))

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