2018.03.05 07:00 - Love, What Do We have to Lose?

    The Guardian for this meeting was Adams Rubble. The comments are by Adams Rubble.

     

    Peace to All Fellow Brings United by Love!

    We began by remembering last Tuesdays session when we were thrown out of Second Life.

    Adams Rubble: Hello Riddle :)
    Riddle Sideways: Hello, had to wait to see where you sat
    Riddle Sideways: like Eden
    Adams Rubble: :)
    Adams Rubble: I went for the nearest seat this morning
    Adams Rubble: Last time we met things went awry
    Adams Rubble: RL griefers
    Riddle Sideways: and there was a great topic
    Riddle Sideways: and DDOS struck
    Riddle Sideways: it struck lots of sites
    Riddle Sideways: ok, trying to find notes
    Adams Rubble: I hadn't checked to see if you posted the fragment
    Riddle Sideways: was an easy post last week
    Riddle Sideways: says almost nothing
    Riddle Sideways: not even sure there was a bell
    Adams Rubble: ohhh
    Riddle Sideways: came back to the topic
    Riddle Sideways: and did some research
    Riddle Sideways: Google was not as helpful as often
    Riddle Sideways: *usual
    Riddle Sideways: it was confused and kept offering it's own idea of what might be wanted
    Adams Rubble nods
    Adams Rubble: Googles does not understand that God is Love
    Adams Rubble: and vice versa
    Riddle Sideways: combinations of Love and Judism, hebrew bible, Jews, Moses, etc etc
    Riddle Sideways: made it think you want Christian answers
    Adams Rubble: I am going to quote from my blog this morning if that is OK
    Riddle Sideways: yes!

    I quote from my blog partly about a new word I have learned that egst confused with the word "love"

    Adams Rubble: I learned ABOUT a new word last night -- cathect or cathexis. It is a term used in psychoanalysis. When we cathect, we invest energy in another person. Through this that person becomes important to us. This energy can be expressed in a positive or negative way bell hooks, in her book, All About Love, notes that cathexis is often mistaken for love. According to bell hooks, M. Scott Peck in The Road less Traveled defines love as "the will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth". bell hooks notes that love is both an intention and an action. That reminds me of Shantideva. If I understand correctly, Shantideva thought the intention came first, then the action. Sometimes it takes skill to go from intention to action.
    Adams Rubble: Sorry for so many thoughts in one entry
    Adams Rubble: a little off topic about what Jewish thought on the matter
    Adams Rubble: subtract - what
    Adams Rubble: when confused, make it more confusing :)
    Riddle Sideways: good! start with muddy water
    Riddle Sideways: and let it settle
    Riddle Sideways: no, you are right... define Love first
    Riddle Sideways: both an intention and action
    Riddle Sideways: for self and other
    Adams Rubble: and we do confuse love with cathexis
    Adams Rubble: He killed her because he loved her too much
    Riddle Sideways: Stalkers

    Back to Last Week's introduction about God and Love. We kick around chronology of writings a bit.

    Adams Rubble: During the break, I read over last week's log and remember what I had typed when we crashed. That is that the commentaries you mention were written much the same time as the Gospels.
    Adams Rubble: or before
    Riddle Sideways: ah! yes
    --BELL--
    Riddle Sideways: the four comentaries vary in when they were added
    Adams Rubble nods
    Riddle Sideways: did not get back to searching time lines
    Riddle Sideways: basic trouble
    Riddle Sideways: is that Bible was orally passed and not written during the happenings
    Riddle Sideways: no scribe was taking dictation
    Adams Rubble: I don;t think we need worry about chronology for this discussion
    Riddle Sideways: so, a hundred years later somebody trys to write exactly what somebody said
    Adams Rubble: If the one of the Talmuds addressed the issue, it would be welcome
    Riddle Sideways: or hundreds of years later a bunch of people argue what was the new meaning for the old words
    Adams Rubble: yes, religious scholars love to argue :)
    Adams Rubble: theologians
    Riddle Sideways: the need to justify their worth
    Adams Rubble: we Christians have fought great wars about whether it is the actual body of Christ that is consumed during the Eucharist
    Riddle Sideways: yes, the silly reasons for War

    God and Love

    Adams Rubble: It is interesting that the idea that God is Love is so little discussed
    Adams Rubble: "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love." John 4: 7-8.
    Riddle Sideways: there is much about "Love God" in Judissm
    Adams Rubble nods
    Riddle Sideways: there is less about G-d Loves
    Adams Rubble: yes
    Adams Rubble: one last paste:
    Adams Rubble: "There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot[a] love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother." John 4: 18-21
    Riddle Sideways: much about the Covent with G-d
    Adams Rubble: yes
    Adams Rubble: Covenant :)
    Riddle Sideways: ty
    Adams Rubble: funny typo
    Adams Rubble: :)
    Riddle Sideways: the marriage contract sort of
    Adams Rubble: although some go to the convent with God
    Riddle Sideways: maybe like an arranged marriage
    Adams Rubble: yes
    Adams Rubble: :)
    Riddle Sideways: you two get married and love will come
    Riddle Sideways: or not
    Adams Rubble: or cathexis
    Riddle Sideways: yep
    Adams Rubble: there is no one more boring than someone who has learned a new word :)
    Riddle Sideways: hahahaha
    Riddle Sideways: did that 2 weeks ago
    Adams Rubble: daylight!!!
    Riddle Sideways: giggles
    Adams Rubble: The Covenant suggests that God is a being as opposed to Being. The idea that God is Love and Love id God is very abstract
    Riddle Sideways: (would butcher a quote here, so does not include)
    Adams Rubble: We are all connected in Love, in God in being
    Adams Rubble: Being
    Riddle Sideways: yes, enough new ideas to not introduce all of them at once
    Adams Rubble: WHO is impatient?
    Adams Rubble: :)
    Riddle Sideways: ㋡
    Riddle Sideways: "ok kids, we are going to get rid of the hundreds of your lesser gods with One Being"
    --BELL--
    Adams Rubble fastens her seatbelt
    Riddle Sideways: that is so scary
    Riddle Sideways: that no mention of the other changes
    Riddle Sideways: yet
    Adams Rubble: we often find it scary to love
    Adams Rubble: the intention is there but........
    Adams Rubble: we are afraid
    Adams Rubble: speak for yourself Adams Rubble
    Riddle Sideways: many thoughts there

    Leap of Faith. Quoting SophiaSharon from 2009 which inspires the Itle of the Session

    Riddle Sideways: one would be the remembering of PaB arguements over 'taking a leap of faith'
    Riddle Sideways: trusting
    Riddle Sideways: going into unknown territory
    Riddle Sideways: on a suggestion that it would be ok
    Riddle Sideways: the ground would hold you
    Adams Rubble: :)
    Riddle Sideways: can't remember who the characters were
    Riddle Sideways: but, 2 big sides to that session
    Adams Rubble: I sdon;t remember at all
    Riddle Sideways: the not taking a 'leap' when there is no science to back it up
    Adams Rubble: "leap of faith" brings up a number of logs on the Wiki
    Riddle Sideways: yes, common
    Adams Rubble: SophiaSharon Larnia: by saying you are taking a risk, implies you have something to lose
    Riddle Sideways: such a different level of 'Trust' amoung the members
    Adams Rubble: 2009.09.19
    Riddle Sideways: ah
    Adams Rubble: nice thought
    Adams Rubble: which brings us back to Love :)
    Riddle Sideways: yes, Love becomes the huge leap of faith
    Adams Rubble: maybe some of us think we have something to lose
    Riddle Sideways: putting 'Self' on one side of the balance scale
    Riddle Sideways: checking if the Love might balance the risk
    Adams Rubble: ohhhh! that selfie thing
    Riddle Sideways: ha, always gets weighed in there
    Adams Rubble: Love is the way away from self so self has something to lose
    Riddle Sideways: yep
    Adams Rubble: end of duality
    Riddle Sideways: and putting large amounts of Love on the unknown
    Riddle Sideways: is Huge
    Riddle Sideways: what if lose Self
    --BELL--
    Riddle Sideways: what if not returned
    Riddle Sideways: what if ...
    Riddle Sideways: mommy, I am scared
    Adams Rubble: we might turn into a Mother Theresa
    Adams Rubble: yikes!
    Riddle Sideways: so, maybe a lot of the John writings were to reassure
    Riddle Sideways: that the Love would come back
    Riddle Sideways: to ya
    Adams Rubble: let me think
    Riddle Sideways: takes 90 sec
    Adams Rubble: I left out the verses with Jesus Christ which is the reassuring part
    Riddle Sideways: who wrote those?
    Adams Rubble: John
    Riddle Sideways: that is good those reassuring parts were added
    Riddle Sideways: for those that couldn't just leap
    Adams Rubble: If we wanted to do Chronology, the letters of paul were written before any of the Gospels and that John was the last Gospel

    Common Thread of Religions: Is it not Love?

    Adams Rubble: I've always been interested in what is the common thread of relgions though
    Riddle Sideways: is it not faith?
    Adams Rubble: It seems to me that so many have seen Love as what gets us to the next level so to speak
    Riddle Sideways: and so many have experienced that Love has gotten them to another level
    Adams Rubble: Here's an impromptu Adams Rubble quote for what it is worth: Faith is the Self of any Religion"
    Adams Rubble: Burn her at the stake
    Riddle Sideways: will have to think on that
    Adams Rubble: just a thought I suddenly had
    Riddle Sideways: need to wait for that thought to travel
    Adams Rubble: so many wars fought because of faith
    Riddle Sideways: the sudden has not happened 'here' yet
    Riddle Sideways: yes, War!
    Adams Rubble: the core of Christianity is Love but you would not know it from the politics
    Riddle Sideways: yet, is there not that Faith is a going outside Self
    Adams Rubble: I am not sure I am not being silly but I was saying Faith is the Religion;s Self
    Riddle Sideways: ah!
    Adams Rubble: through faith Rligion becomes an extention of the duality to a larger level
    Riddle Sideways: this reader got twisted around
    Adams Rubble: whereas through Love, religions see they have much in common, moving away from duality
    Riddle Sideways: oooooh, good points
    Adams Rubble: our faith based programs that are helping the poor, the immigrants, and others is an act of Love
    --BELL--
    Adams Rubble: so why do we humans have so much trouble with this?
    Riddle Sideways: hmmm, you need to ask?
    Adams Rubble giggles
    Adams Rubble: that is a good ending place
    Riddle Sideways: many humans have trouble getting out of the bed covers in the morning
    Adams Rubble: thank you for the discussion this morning
    Riddle Sideways: the trust and faith that the day and cold floor would be worth it
    Riddle Sideways: YES!!!
    Riddle Sideways: thank you
    Riddle Sideways: stop here
    Riddle Sideways: continues tomorrow
    Riddle Sideways: maybe
    Riddle Sideways: or not
    Adams Rubble: getting up and forgetting that today is a gift and we can be grateful
    Riddle Sideways: but, the floor is cold on tootsies
    Adams Rubble: we should have an alarm clock that says that :)
    Adams Rubble: it would be murdered some morning
    Riddle Sideways: lol
    Adams Rubble: :)
    Adams Rubble: have a very good day :)
    Riddle Sideways: and with you
    Adams Rubble: same time, same place tomorrow :)
    Riddle Sideways: ok, god willin and the creeks don't
    Adams Rubble: bye for now :)
    Riddle Sideways: by

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