2021.07.08 07:00 - Sharing Loss

    The Guardian for this meeting was Adams Rubble. The comments are by Adams Rubble.

     

    Adams Rubble: Good morning Riddle :)
    Adams Rubble: sorry to be late. i thought it was 10 minutes earlier
    Riddle Sideways: Good Morning Adams ㋡
    Adams Rubble: time got away from me
    Riddle Sideways: it do that
    Adams Rubble: my RLers brain has melted
    Riddle Sideways: of late have had many more of those time slip-ups
    Riddle Sideways: reading the clock vs planning schedules
    Adams Rubble: yes
    Adams Rubble: and zoom meetings
    Riddle Sideways: have been an hour or half hour early
    Adams Rubble: I have one in two hours
    Riddle Sideways: been an hour late
    Adams Rubble: will try to remember
    Adams Rubble: yes, I remember :)
    Riddle Sideways: often zoom meetings can/will/maybe have a bell to remind
    Riddle Sideways: errand running times and scheduling skills have slipped
    Adams Rubble: we could just say we are becoming less of slaves to time
    Riddle Sideways: nice positive spin
    Riddle Sideways: thanks
    Adams Rubble: It is so hot here
    Adams Rubble: having trouble adjusting to the hot house
    Adams Rubble: have gotten spoiled
    Riddle Sideways: read the blog about cats in fur laying about to get use to hot house
    Adams Rubble: we were worried about one of them
    Adams Rubble: very listless
    --BELL--
    Adams Rubble: hasn't bothered to climb the stairs to greet me when i get up
    Adams Rubble: just lies on its side and pants
    Adams Rubble: but this morning it showed a little energy
    Riddle Sideways: oh dear
    Riddle Sideways: hydrate, drink more water
    Adams Rubble: I'll tell them that
    Riddle Sideways: yes
    Riddle Sideways: face cat likes sink water dripping, so turn on the facet often
    Riddle Sideways: she is now having issues jumping all the way to the bathroom counter
    Adams Rubble: I was thinking that
    Adams Rubble: she is getting to be a fat cat
    Adams Rubble: that is our listless cat
    Riddle Sideways: there is a bothersome thing going on in mind
    Riddle Sideways: had a friend die a couple days ago
    Adams Rubble listens
    Riddle Sideways: and in many ways it was the best way to go
    Riddle Sideways: a sudden heart attack and poof gone
    Riddle Sideways: she had fought Parkinsons for 20+ years
    Riddle Sideways: had an overly large life and good for all who knew her
    Riddle Sideways: was at the end of a great planned RV trip across the US
    Riddle Sideways: was at her husband's sister's house (support for him and not in their house)
    Riddle Sideways: am trying (hard) to be thankful for the best of many was to go
    Riddle Sideways: but ... still sad
    Adams Rubble nods
    Adams Rubble: The sudden deaths are very hard on the people left behind
    Riddle Sideways: she did so much in her life
    Riddle Sideways: started foundations that help so many
    Adams Rubble: ohhh
    Riddle Sideways: got so many into gear to contribute or volunteer when we would not have
    Riddle Sideways: facebook pages of famous people, fabulious events and places she went
    Riddle Sideways: and did not know her much before parkinsons when she was really active
    Riddle Sideways: yet, still sad
    Adams Rubble: you have written a nice tribute to her
    Riddle Sideways: her son wrote a so much better tribute. and hundreds of people commented on it
    --BELL--
    Riddle Sideways: anyway. thanks for listening
    Adams Rubble: These things are tough to comprehend
    Riddle Sideways: your dreams blogging is very interesting
    Adams Rubble: thank you for sharing the story and your grieg
    Adams Rubble: grief
    Riddle Sideways: "oh good grief"
    Adams Rubble: so many empty spaces left behind
    Riddle Sideways: am in a meditation group that all knew her much longer/better
    Riddle Sideways: picked a sutra the opened that up
    Riddle Sideways: much couching up during discussion
    Riddle Sideways: sp?
    Adams Rubble: coaching?
    Adams Rubble: couching might mean packing together on a couch hugging
    Riddle Sideways: choking (get the speel checking involved)
    Riddle Sideways: "The Simpson's" intro couching scene
    Riddle Sideways: amazing that the Simpsons show has been going 10 or 20 years
    Riddle Sideways: and they redraw the intro couch scene every episode
    Adams Rubble: yes
    Adams Rubble: so it was couching?
    Riddle Sideways: yep. never know/got that before
    Riddle Sideways: the newest personal theory of sleep-dream cycles has to do with each cycle has only one memory space to store that cycles dream
    --BELL--
    Riddle Sideways: if not wake up or fully break into a new cycle, the memory slot is overwritten
    Riddle Sideways: and that dream image is near impossible to recall
    Riddle Sideways: you may be on to something about get up and write it down
    Adams Rubble: I was too lazy
    Riddle Sideways: very likely that act starts a new cycle
    Adams Rubble: :)
    Riddle Sideways: and a new memory space
    Adams Rubble: always good to have a hypothesis to explore
    Riddle Sideways: well, was thinking of personally being the lazy one
    Riddle Sideways: Yes!
    Adams Rubble: we always are except for fathers of sons :)
    Riddle Sideways: and experiments in the personal lab to explore ㋡
    Adams Rubble: at least in the old days
    Riddle Sideways: ?
    Adams Rubble smiales
    Adams Rubble: smiles
    Adams Rubble: Back in the days when fathers used to worry that their sons would grow up to be lazy
    Riddle Sideways: ah. had not followed that
    Adams Rubble: it took so much disapline for those fathers to get up every day and face mind numbing jobs
    Adams Rubble: where the bosses berated them
    Adams Rubble: hmmm, sounds like Amazon
    Riddle Sideways: must implant that work ethic
    Riddle Sideways: "get to work you lazy bum"
    Riddle Sideways: "do you want to grew up to be like your uncle Riddle?"
    Adams Rubble: don't ask that question unless you are prepared for the answer :)
    Riddle Sideways: right
    Riddle Sideways: "look at your uncle just sitting there, thinking through hypothesiseses"
    Adams Rubble giggles
    Riddle Sideways: 'yes Dad, I do want to be like that'
    Riddle Sideways: "Oh good Grief, I give up"
    Adams Rubble: why wouldn't you want to get every morning and go to a mind numbing job and nbe emasculated by an unfulfilled boss?
    Riddle Sideways: have your pay docked for the lost seconds you took to sneeze and not be loading the bot cart
    Adams Rubble: you didn;t comment about my giving up the change in the avatar
    --BELL--
    Adams Rubble: I couldn't do it anymore. I have been wandering around too much lost. Needed to go back and find some firmer ground
    Riddle Sideways: whoops, did not notice.
    Riddle Sideways: good
    Riddle Sideways: good reason
    Riddle Sideways: guilty of not paying more attention to appearances
    Riddle Sideways: need to appreciate the appearances
    Riddle Sideways: hmmm, more work needed
    Riddle Sideways: pay docked
    Adams Rubble: no worries. Maybe you weren't so comfortable with the change either?
    Riddle Sideways: doooh
    Riddle Sideways: ha, was actually working on those changes last year
    Riddle Sideways: got a new body that had 3 ages of avi
    Riddle Sideways: was not ready for prime time
    Adams Rubble: maybe I was not ready for prime time
    Riddle Sideways: ㋡
    Adams Rubble: It still amazes that that can feel so important
    Adams Rubble: so important to me and not noticeable to you :)
    Riddle Sideways: might be something to investigate
    Adams Rubble calls out to the hypothesis writers
    Adams Rubble: stop being lazy and get to work
    Riddle Sideways: crafting a draft
    Riddle Sideways: call for a working hypothesis
    Adams Rubble calls for a pipe and calls for a bowl
    Riddle Sideways: calls for the fiddlers three
    Riddle Sideways: or something like that. no time to look it up
    Adams Rubble: whew. Glad I did not call for the baker's three. Did not sound right
    Adams Rubble: fiddlers three is correct
    Riddle Sideways: call for the hypthesisers three
    Adams Rubble: there ya go
    Riddle Sideways: 'Hey AI, check the efficiency of having 3 hypothesisers on staff? should we fire one or hire another?"
    Adams Rubble: have some work on the hypothesis
    Riddle Sideways: already on it
    Adams Rubble: thank you for coming today and wating for me
    Riddle Sideways: thank you for spending the time
    Adams Rubble: I will keep your loss in my heart
    Adams Rubble: I hope you have a good weekend
    Riddle Sideways: should be a good weekend
    Riddle Sideways: go have your best
    Riddle Sideways: by All
    Adams Rubble: the repairman will be here in 24 hours hopefully
    --BELL--
    Adams Rubble: take good care
    Adams Rubble: bye

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