would it be easy for you to chooce if you prefere were alone or within silence with other person ?
on some level, we can treat everything as TOY, Play. but then we are at the danger of loosing the meaning, the importance of things. how to loose the concepts and stay caring, involved, human while doing the phenomenology experiment and try to see everything as appearances?
why would you protect your home rather than mine after becoming one with the larger entity? when you are one with god, would you protect your child before mine?
After dropping all this will bring natural compassion and a deep touch to everything in contrast to that it might as well lead to detachment.
visiting detachment to truely see what attachments we had/need/want might be very good
just...BE and see what happens... just...love the child in front of you no matter WHO it is. with all you've got at the moment.. (maybe true for everything there is)
wonders of budduism: equinimity vs. indifference