2014.11.18 07:00 - feeding son

The Guardian for this meeting was Riddle Sideways. The comments are by Riddle Sideways.

Riddle Sideways: the major reaction of most at the 'Being New' session Saturday was surprising
Yakuzza Lethecus: 's current display-name is "Yaku".
Riddle Sideways: it seemed uncomfortable or off-putting to many that in the same ol place
Riddle Sideways: Hi Yak
Yakuzza Lethecus: hi riddle
Yakuzza Lethecus: what seemed uncomfortable or off putting to many ?
Riddle Sideways: was rambling to the only one here :)
               --BELL--
Riddle Sideways: were you at the Saturday 'Being New' special experiment?
Riddle Sideways: don't say who you were dressed up as
Yakuzza Lethecus: well i could say i was which would increase the mystery but sadly i wasn´t
Yakuzza Lethecus: i haven´t created a new avatar yet
Riddle Sideways: All the friends and comrades we know were there, but not the same
Riddle Sideways: didn't know who was whom
Yakuzza Lethecus: it´s tricky to get a real fresh start, the mind might point and try to connect avatars and their behavior, which is quiet the opposite to having a real knew getting to know
Riddle Sideways: it seems it is ok and usual for us to change ourselves, but our friends should not change :)
Riddle Sideways: the experince a few years ago with having a new avi went ok
Riddle Sideways: a new different avi with a new/different personally was fun, enlightening and ok
Riddle Sideways: attending sessions here as a newbie was great
Yakuzza Lethecus: oh yes, just joining the circle and often discussions where going on while not having to write anything but learning something
Riddle Sideways: Coming here with 10 other friends that were also strangers was unsettlings
Riddle Sideways: At first Bruce was here and was a known friend and avi
Riddle Sideways: amongst a full circle of who knows who
Yakuzza Lethecus: you mean on saturday ?
Riddle Sideways: instead of beginner mind
Riddle Sideways: yes
               --BELL--
Riddle Sideways: the mind kept coming back to trying to remember who wrote sentences like the avi across the circle
Riddle Sideways: then San, Storm and Luci showed up
Riddle Sideways: and it got more comfortable
Riddle Sideways: if none of them had been there it was awkward for almost everybody
Riddle Sideways: it was funny
Riddle Sideways: and a sense and reaction that I wasn't ready for
Riddle Sideways: all the open-minded and friendly people were sort of strangers
Riddle Sideways: like a Holloween dressup party
Riddle Sideways: it was fun and funny

Riddle Sideways: enough of that ...
Riddle Sideways: what is going on with you now?
Yakuzza Lethecus: feeding son
Riddle Sideways: how old is son now?
Yakuzza Lethecus: one year
Riddle Sideways: ah the fun of trying to get food into a squirming mouth
Yakuzza Lethecus: got to undestand squirming
Yakuzza Lethecus: he eats fine till he hits the spoon
Yakuzza Lethecus: he gets our food with less salt, but he still prefers the bottle
Riddle Sideways: Cheerios were something they can pick up and eat themselves
Riddle Sideways: and rice
Riddle Sideways: rice can go flying all over the house
               --BELL--
Yakuzza Lethecus: actually i was just full with rice since he hit the spoon successfully
Riddle Sideways: hehehe
Yakuzza Lethecus: self eating is the next step, very nice the last 2 days he says the word "mat"
Yakuzza Lethecus: which means food
Yakuzza Lethecus: but he is not specific in its use
Riddle Sideways: the joys of watching developments
Yakuzza Lethecus: yes, that is really a joy, even getting up during the night is quiet a routine even tho not often the case
Yakuzza Lethecus: just during the day feelable
Riddle Sideways: after many years, those night routines are still treasured memories
Riddle Sideways: and there are still some resturants that we are scared to go into because they might remember the mess the son made of the entire resturant.
Riddle Sideways: rice for twenty feet area
Yakuzza Lethecus: well, we are still feeding him but that will be the next experience who he will eat self
Yakuzza Lethecus: how
Riddle Sideways: what a wonderful experience you are having :)
               --BELL--
Riddle Sideways: watching development
Yakuzza Lethecus: well that is basicly the only positive aspect right now
Riddle Sideways: :)
Riddle Sideways: keep smiling,
Riddle Sideways: know that these moments will turn into great pleasant memories
Yakuzza Lethecus: nice to see you are here on tuesdays, i got to go now
Yakuzza Lethecus: thx ridle
Yakuzza Lethecus: riddle
Riddle Sideways: and thanks for the chat

Riddle Sideways: bye