2008.05.31 01:00 - Following Up

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    The Guardian for this session was Pema, whose comments are included.

    That night, just before 1 am, I entered SL at my own little house in Rieul, and saw Joseph there.

    Pema Pera: Hi Joseph!
    Pema Pera: I’m going to the tea house now
    Pema Pera: Would you like to come along?
    joseph Ruhig: yes
    joseph Ruhig: so. How are you, Pema?
    Pema Pera: I’m fine, thanks, and how about you?
    joseph Ruhig: so, I´m fine, but the last days were very busy
    joseph Ruhig: i´m studying very much
    joseph Ruhig: In medium stat virtus
    Pema Pera: what is “medium stat virtus”?
    joseph Ruhig: Die klugigkeit ist in der mittel
    joseph Ruhig: etwas so…
    joseph Ruhig: bleibt, besser
    Pema Pera: ah! virtue stands in the middle
    Pema Pera: okay, yes, a sense of balance
    joseph Ruhig: exactly
    Pema Pera: always most important and very difficult!
    Pema Pera: I learned Latin in school
    Pema Pera: I just did not expect you to switch to Latin suddenly, lol !
    joseph Ruhig: yes. Yesterday I had a hard lesson in my Iaido class
    joseph Ruhig: :-)
    Pema Pera: wha was the lesson about?
    joseph Ruhig: so… I was doing extra movements
    joseph Ruhig: and the teacher said me:
    joseph Ruhig: The way of Zen is simple. Because of this, it´s so complicated
    Pema Pera: yes.
    joseph Ruhig: but I had experimented! This is really true!
    joseph Ruhig: We have a tendence to do extra things, to think and create what doesn´t exist…
    Pema Pera: yes, indeed
    Pema Pera: wo do that all the time
    Pema Pera: very hard to stop

    We had arrived in the tea house.

    joseph Ruhig: yes. The things are changing here in Rieul, aren´t?
    Pema Pera: yes, have you noticed some changes?
    joseph Ruhig: Where is the house between yours and this garden?
    Pema Pera: gone
    Pema Pera: we bought the land
    joseph Ruhig: wow! This is cool!
    Pema Pera: it was never used
    Pema Pera: actually, we have bought quite a number of pieces of land which had not been used for a while
    Pema Pera: and we are now thinking about what to build on it.
    Pema Pera: You meant the building with the Turkish flag, right?
    joseph Ruhig: yes
    joseph Ruhig: This is very interesting, and you study this event (I mean SL), don´t you?
    Pema Pera: what do you mean with “study SL”?
    joseph Ruhig: How do you see the SL? I remember that I was with Vera, when you said soething about experiment…
    Pema Pera: oh, my whole life is an experiment
    Pema Pera: everything I do in RL and SL
    joseph Ruhig: :-)
    Pema Pera: waking and dreaming
    Pema Pera: In an experiment you always make mistakes, and then you learn from your mistakes
    joseph Ruhig: I will adopt this POW
    Pema Pera: scientific research is like that
    Pema Pera: sometimes when people ask me what I do for a living I answer: I make mistakes and get paid for that
    joseph Ruhig: cause and effect
    Pema Pera: more precisely: I get paid for the combination of making them and learning from them
    joseph Ruhig: Lotus´s sutra
    Pema Pera: In research, 99% of the time you’re making mistakes, 1% of the time you’re getting it somewhat right.

    We talked more about mistakes and follow-up

    joseph Ruhig: This is the Way… Do, in Japanese.
    joseph Ruhig: Very interesting what you said, about pay to the lesson
    joseph Ruhig: All the lessons have a price, the price that we pay with the mistakes
    joseph Ruhig: a singular view
    Pema Pera: yes, and no solution is final
    Pema Pera: Whatever we do, we have to follow up.
    Pema Pera: When you make a mistake, you follow up and try to correct
    Pema Pera: When you do something right, if you could ever draw that conclusion, then you still have to follow up and do the best next step
    Pema Pera: No difference between doing it right or wrong, as far as the next step goes
    Pema Pera: Next step best step — that is all you can do
    Pema Pera: one step at a time
    Pema Pera: and leaving the rest to the Universe

    Some technicalities about SL.

    joseph Ruhig: Butterfly Effect
    joseph Ruhig: Did you watch a film… oh… momento…
    Pema Pera: no, dont’ think so.
    joseph Ruhig: who we are, I think.
    joseph Ruhig: Did you speak something? I was out…
    Pema Pera: Do you know that you can read everything we say in the “local chat” window?
    joseph Ruhig: really?
    joseph Ruhig: haha
    Pema Pera: The balloons above our head disappear quickly, but the text remains in the window
    Pema Pera: You can click on “communicate”, the large button in the bottom left of your screen
    joseph Ruhig: I saw
    joseph Ruhig: hahaha
    joseph Ruhig: now I can read slowly
    Pema Pera: yes, much more relaxing that way :-)

    Joseph talked about his forms of meditation.

    joseph Ruhig: Do you like the sound of Shakuhachi?
    Pema Pera: sure
    joseph Ruhig: I have a meditation with live shakuhachi in the next montag
    Pema Pera: not very quiet mediation :-)
    joseph Ruhig: more or less…
    joseph Ruhig: 20 minutes in complete silence zazen
    joseph Ruhig: 15 minutes with meditation walking
    joseph Ruhig: more 20 minutes zazen, and more 15 minutes whith meditation walking
    joseph Ruhig: than comes the shakuhachi
    joseph Ruhig: :-)
    Pema Pera: nice combination!
    joseph Ruhig: yes!
    joseph Ruhig: My teacher of Iaido plays shakuhachi
    joseph Ruhig: he said me that, to play, is necessary the same spirit of Iaido
    joseph Ruhig: no mind
    Pema Pera: do you play shakuhachi?
    joseph Ruhig: not yet
    joseph Ruhig: :-)

    And for me it became time to go back to work.

    Pema Pera: well, I will have to leave soon
    Pema Pera: lots of work to do in RL . . . .
    joseph Ruhig: I´m going too!
    Pema Pera: thanks for stopping by!
    joseph Ruhig: I have to cook!
    joseph Ruhig: I thank you, friend!
    Pema Pera: enjoy!
    joseph Ruhig: tks!!!
    Pema Pera: see you next time!
    joseph Ruhig: ok!
    joseph Ruhig: Bis bald!
    Pema Pera: Tschuess!

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