2016.07.05 13:00 - Mindful of the food bits

    The Guardian for this meeting was Riddle Sideways. The comments are by Riddle Sideways.

     

    Riddle Sideways: hi Ewan
    Riddle Sideways: almost forgot
    Riddle Sideways: hi Tura
    Ewan Bonham: Hi folks..
    Tura Brezoianu: hi all
    Ewan Bonham: Nice to see you both..
    Riddle Sideways: nice to be seen :)
    Riddle Sideways: a complete aside:
    Ewan Bonham: I would like to know from each of you if you have had a chance to practice your mindfulness exercises that we have done over the weeks..
    Riddle Sideways: personal trainer has us writting everything we did this week
    Ewan Bonham: nice, Riddle... were you able to figure in any of what we have done here?
    Riddle Sideways: and playing music and gardening are valid
    Riddle Sideways: meditation is not
    Ewan Bonham: Are you able to place mindfulness into your gardening?
    Riddle Sideways: ... did the candle thing Friday night
    Riddle Sideways: and breathing yesterday
    Ewan Bonham: How was that for you?
    Tura Brezoianu: I meditate from time to time, although I haven't used the candle.
    Ewan Bonham: Ah, that is good Tura. You might try using the candle on your own..
    Ewan Bonham: It is also helpful to have a daily discipline of some kind...
    Ewan Bonham: One that uses the principles of mindfulness in one form or another..
    Ewan Bonham: Riddle did the candle and breathing help you?
    Riddle Sideways: a little
    Ewan Bonham: In what ways?
    Riddle Sideways: it was too short this time
    Riddle Sideways: and other things were happening the house
    Ewan Bonham: Ah... that is a good start... and you are saying this time it was too short..
    Riddle Sideways: cats that think they are the focal point of all mindfulness
    Qt Core: Hi all
    Riddle Sideways: hi QT
    Ewan Bonham: nod... it sometimes takes creating circumstances to make sure you have quiet and privacy...:)
    Ewan Bonham: Hello QT...:)
    Ewan Bonham: Tura, do you have any more you would like to share about your experiences?
    --BELL--
    Tura Brezoianu: difficult to say
    Ewan Bonham: OK..
    Tura Brezoianu: difficult to describe

    Ewan Bonham: Then let us start the form of mindfulness for today..
    Ewan Bonham: Can you all find something to eat that you can chew for a bit before you swallow?
    Riddle Sideways: hmmmm, hold on
    Ewan Bonham: it can be anything from an apple to a few nuts, to a piece of celery...
    Tura Brezoianu: an excuse for chocolate :)
    Qt Core: i just finished having some ginger potato chips, i'll get some dry biscuits
    Ewan Bonham: Yes, please get enough for several bites..
    Ewan Bonham: OK... I will wait for a minute or so while you get these...
    Riddle Sideways: back, with an apple (decided against Girl Scout cookie)
    Ewan Bonham: OK... are we all ready?
    Tura Brezoianu: yes
    Qt Core: yes

    Ewan Bonham: OK... please pick up a bite sized piece in your non-dominant hand...
    Ewan Bonham: Lift it first to your eyes...
    Ewan Bonham: Notice all the details of it...actually 'see' the taste and anticipated consumption...
    Ewan Bonham: now place it at your nose and inhale deeply...
    Ewan Bonham: Allow yourself to identify the smell...
    Ewan Bonham: Now think what might be a strange thought..
    Ewan Bonham: Let your mind conjure how this food may affect your body..
    Ewan Bonham: Can you anticipate its feeling as you swallow it? Can you feel itsa nourishment coursing through your veins?
    Ewan Bonham: Now, in your mind... speak with gratitude to the food which will give you nourishment..
    Ewan Bonham: OK... now open your mouth and place the food on your tongue..
    Ewan Bonham: Please notice the initial interchange between you and the food..
    --BELL--
    Ewan Bonham: Now close your mouth... and let your entire mouth feel the texture and first tastes..
    Ewan Bonham: NOW... do not swallow it..
    Ewan Bonham: Instead chew perhaps thirty times. Do not swallow... but notice the change in texture and in taste over that period..
    Ewan Bonham: Relax.. and take your time..

    Ewan Bonham: Hello Korel
    Korel Laloix: Osiyo
    Ewan Bonham: We are doing Mindfulness while eating a morsel of food..
    Korel Laloix: At work, looking at things that kill ones appetite... lol

    Ewan Bonham: If you like, grab a small piece of food... see it, smell it, and place it in your mouth...
    Korel Laloix: Thanks, but not at the moment...
    Korel Laloix: Enjoy though.
    Korel Laloix: brb
    Ewan Bonham: OK...:)

    Ewan Bonham: For the rest of you... notice the moment when the food has given you all it can in your mouth..

    Ewan Bonham: Then... let it swallow... without any pushing..
    Ewan Bonham: Your body will meet with the food and they together will dance down your throat..
    Ewan Bonham: Notice your breath... as you welcome the food..
    Ewan Bonham: Does it change?
    Ewan Bonham: Can you feel what it has to offer you?
    Ewan Bonham: In this way... the food that we eat interacts with us.
    Ewan Bonham: The whole process of eating involves your total awareness.
    Ewan Bonham: And you may find that you have no need to eat more..
    Ewan Bonham: You may find that when you give the food a change to interact with you that you seek less.. and you will know just when you need no more in a meal..
    Ewan Bonham: And the meal can be more conscious for you...
    Ewan Bonham: At this point, you can try these steps with another bite... each time you do this, it becomes more conscious..

    Qt Core: But how to do it and not ignoring/offending your table companions ?
    Ewan Bonham: After this short break to breath... I would like to hear from each of you what this was like...:)
    --BELL--
    Ewan Bonham: Yes, it is true this is not convention when eating with others..
    Ewan Bonham: Chances are you will either do it alone or with like minded folks like us
    Ewan Bonham: Now, I would like to hear what this was like you both of you..
    Ewan Bonham: Any comments are welcome at this time...:)
    Qt Core: as i'm using the dry biscuits i eat for breakfast, continuing your dance metaphor it felt like looking at one person only dancing tango (it lacked milk)
    Ewan Bonham: Nice... a focused attention...
    Qt Core: i liked the smell, in itself not as an indication of the biscuit presence or its future eating
    Ewan Bonham: Hmmm... an experience unto itself...:)
    Ewan Bonham: Other comments?
    Riddle Sideways: Apple is such a varied and beautiful object
    Riddle Sideways: smells like childhodd climbing in the trees and walking into cold storage
    Ewan Bonham: Yes... this method helps you discover that anew..
    Riddle Sideways: also touched cool apple to third eye and was delighted with connection
    Riddle Sideways: salivating at approaching taste
    Riddle Sideways: tongue knew it would be good
    Ewan Bonham: Yes, a welcoming..
    Riddle Sideways: nice apple taste fades away
    Riddle Sideways: first bites are really good then becomes applesause
    Riddle Sideways: applesauce is not as good
    Ewan Bonham: Yes... attention to the fading..
    Riddle Sideways: applesauce with memory of a pill in there somewhere
    Ewan Bonham: Nice... associative thoughts
    Riddle Sideways: Ewan, is a bad person for making pill stay there lol
    Riddle Sideways: finally can swallow now
    Ewan Bonham: Lol
    Riddle Sideways: ok oh is good
    Riddle Sideways: no force
    Riddle Sideways: applesauce and body are together
    Ewan Bonham: Yes... just let the natural pace take over..
    Riddle Sideways: have done the same with bread ...
    Riddle Sideways: fresh bread is good. dough ball after 20+ chews is not so good
    Riddle Sideways: there are many comical foods
    Ewan Bonham: Ah... then you are familiar with this..
    Riddle Sideways: ummm, yes
    Ewan Bonham: Those that jump at you..
    Ewan Bonham: OK... thank you all so much for sharing this experience with me.
    Riddle Sideways: and thank you
    Ewan Bonham: Next week, please practice this.
    Ewan Bonham: And allow yourself to be with it...
    Ewan Bonham: Next week we will do a guided imagery..
    Riddle Sideways: Tura? did you have chocolate?
    --BELL--
    Tura Brezoianu: I did. It was...chocolate
    Ewan Bonham: Bye for now and Peace to you...
    Ewan Bonham: Good Tura
    Qt Core: bye Ewan
    Riddle Sideways: by all
    Tura Brezoianu: bye all
    Qt Core: and bye all

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