The Guardian for this meeting was Yakuzza Lethecus. The comments are by Yakuzza Lethecus.

Yakuzza Lethecus: 's current display-name is "Yaku".
Eliza Madrigal: 's current display-name is "Eliza".
Yakuzza Lethecus: welcome eliza
Eliza Madrigal: Hi Yaku :)
Eliza Madrigal: ltns
Yakuzza Lethecus: itns ?
Eliza Madrigal: long time no see
Yakuzza Lethecus: hey qt
Eliza Madrigal: Hi Qt :)
Qt Core: Hi Eliza, Yaku
Yakuzza Lethecus: gosh i get too old for chat acronyms :D
Eliza Madrigal laughs
Yakuzza Lethecus: :P
Eliza Madrigal: then what does that make me?
Yakuzza Lethecus: aren´t we as young as we feel ?
Eliza Madrigal: so, varying moment by moment?
Yakuzza Lethecus: i just felt very old
Eliza Madrigal smiles
Qt Core: mostly in reverse proportion of the sleep i had
Qt Core: brb
Eliza Madrigal: sleep is key
--BELL--
Yakuzza Lethecus: nah, unexprected moments
Yakuzza Lethecus: breaking from routines sometimes
Eliza Madrigal: spontaneous acts
Yakuzza Lethecus: feeling very young sometimes when playing on the floor with my son
Eliza Madrigal: lovely
Eliza Madrigal: love sort of makes one forget age altogether
Eliza Madrigal: too wrapped up in other
Eliza Madrigal: do you play with him on the floor a lot?
Yakuzza Lethecus: not every day, carry him to the bed and fight a bit there is more a routine
Eliza Madrigal: :) miss those days
Xirana Oximoxi: 's current display-name is "Xirana".
Eliza Madrigal: Hi Xiri :)
Yakuzza Lethecus: hey xirana
Qt Core: Hi Xirana
Xirana Oximoxi: hello Eliza, Yaky and Qt :)
Xirana Oximoxi: Yaku* :)
Eliza Madrigal: we were talking about feeling age, and spontaneity, play
Xirana Oximoxi: 'feeling age'... you mean getting older? :-)
Eliza Madrigal nods
Qt Core: i usually feel old when i think about colleagues of my own age or a couple years older having sons... in high school if not at uni
Eliza Madrigal: and they probably feel old thinking about having sons in high school :))
Eliza Madrigal: my best friend from jr high is about to become a grandmother and it it feels so strange
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Qt Core: but they thinkabout/see then everyday i only remember them rarely
Qt Core: it is like meeting an old friends and noticing how much older he/she got, we don't notice it in the face we daily see in the mirror
Eliza Madrigal: hah, true
Eliza Madrigal: for me it shows up in photos
Eliza Madrigal: "when did that happen?" lol
Xirana Oximoxi: I agree that friends with sons make one be more aware of age, when I don't have sons
Xirana Oximoxi: ooops..QT has desapeared :)
Yakuzza Lethecus: wb
Xirana Oximoxi: wb QT :)
Eliza Madrigal: :) flickering in and out
Qt Core: ty
--BELL--
Qt Core: as i was typing... i don't know what scares/weird me out more, the idea of having kids or the idea of finding/how would be someone with whom i would want to have kids
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Xirana Oximoxi: :)) Qt..I am sure that if you find someone to have kids with, you would not be scared at all :)
Qt Core: yes, but werded out surely!
Eliza Madrigal: probably best not to think about the children part until already happy with someone :)
Xirana Oximoxi: yes... exactyly Eliza....so it should come after finding the right person
Eliza Madrigal: I feel aged when I consider that that stage of my life has passed, although I suppose I could end up with someone who has children
Eliza Madrigal: good to have a resource base from which to draw
Eliza Madrigal: examples too
Eliza Madrigal: I didn't have many but now I study couples a little... thinking of the things that make for continuing to enjoy a relationship
Qt Core: remembering the (luckily few) times when i was asked by family why i wasn't married or in search of a wife
Eliza Madrigal: "in search of" :))
Xirana Oximoxi: I feel aged when I feel tired....sometimes no idea why, as I am not doing more activity than usual...I've had a bad 'spring asthenia'
Eliza Madrigal: oooh, yes
Eliza Madrigal: feel livelier in some seasons
Xirana Oximoxi: yes, me too
Eliza Madrigal: I really thought I was above all the 'tricks' like making sure to go on dates after having kids, etc. but... no :) Turns out a lot of cliche' advice got that way for a reason. (word to the young :P)
Eliza Madrigal feels older giving advice ;p
Xirana Oximoxi: hehe :))
Eliza Madrigal giggles
Qt Core: in past i'm just not in search, and i always say that if someone want me she woould be the one to search for me... then i almost never go to places i can be found ;-)
Eliza Madrigal: :))
Qt Core: (in past is a leftover of somethimg else i was typing)
Eliza Madrigal: something to be said for going places and being openly available
Xirana Oximoxi: on FB I've read an article related to this topic Eliza...what makes some couples be happy even with bad times, and last more...and kindness and paying attention to the partner were the main reasons
Qt Core: one of the very rare thing that make me be social in RL is astronomy... a 98% male hobby, at least around here
Eliza Madrigal: it really is the little things... but lots and lots of them, I think ...
Eliza Madrigal: what about something like wine tasting qt?
Eliza Madrigal: cooking classes
--BELL--
Eliza Madrigal: so true
Eliza Madrigal: I heard that from a friend who found love late in life... she said she never would have talked to the man she ended up marrying, just by looks, and because he was an accountant :)
Eliza Madrigal: they shared a love for a sport and for nature
Xirana Oximoxi: yes...I am sure we approach people with too much pre-conceived ideas ...and steroetypes
Eliza Madrigal: "What's your type?"
Qt Core: sometimes i go with this Groucho Marx quote I sent the club a wire stating, "PLEASE ACCEPT MY RESIGNATION. I DON'T WANT TO BELONG TO ANY CLUB THAT WILL ACCEPT PEOPLE LIKE ME AS A MEMBER".
Eliza Madrigal: haha
Xirana Oximoxi: hehe goof quote :))
Xirana Oximoxi: d
Eliza Madrigal: maybe have to find someone else who feels that way too, hehe
Qt Core: yes, i usually end this topic with something like: it isn't impossible, just highly improbable
Xirana Oximoxi: one never knows :)
Xirana Oximoxi: but difficult..I agree
Eliza Madrigal: if I were actively looking for someone I'd definitely try a reputable dating site.... even if I felt silly about it
Eliza Madrigal: at least those on the other end are actively looking
Eliza Madrigal nods... still not a straightforward thing
Qt Core: if ever i'd try one without pics ;-)
Eliza Madrigal smiles
Eliza Madrigal: then you have SL!
Xirana Oximoxi:(Yaku deleted it from chat log)
Eliza Madrigal: oh wow Xiri!
Eliza Madrigal: (Yaku deleted it from chat log)
Xirana Oximoxi: (Yaku deleted it from chat log)
Eliza Madrigal: wow, you probably learned so much
Eliza Madrigal: hahah
Eliza Madrigal: better communication?
Eliza Madrigal: yes for me too... unless I post this then I'll delte :))
Eliza Madrigal: wonder why... more listening and less taken for granted maybe?
--BELL--
Qt Core: i need to go RL is calling
Qt Core: bye all

[14:01] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): okay Qt :) take care
[14:01] Xirana (xirana.oximoxi): bye Qt! :)
[14:01] Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): good night qt
[14:01] Qt Core is offline.
[14:01] PaB Bell whispers: Will ring in 887 seconds, at 14:16:40.
[14:03] Eliza (eliza.madrigal) nods
[14:03] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): well for now that isn't an option so I'm somewhat thankful it has to go slow
[14:03] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): :))
[14:03] Xirana (xirana.oximoxi): I like the LAT..Living Apart Together way :)
[14:03] Eliza (eliza.madrigal) smiles
[14:03] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): sounds good to me!
[14:03] Xirana (xirana.oximoxi): :)
[14:04] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): guess there is no formula
[14:04] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): alas :)
[14:04] Xirana (xirana.oximoxi): no formula at all...:) we are all different
[14:05] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): well it was nice to see you both
[14:05] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): rare to be in on fridays lately :)
[14:05] Xirana (xirana.oximoxi): nice to see you too:) Eliza and yalu :)
[14:05] Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): thx for being here
[14:05] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): take care, hugs
[14:05] Xirana (xirana.oximoxi): I will also go now...happy weekend!
[14:05] Xirana (xirana.oximoxi): hugs :)
[14:06] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): happy weekend!
[14:06] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): smootches to your son yaku
[14:06] Eliza (eliza.madrigal): :)