The Guardian for this meeting was Lucinda Lavender. The comments are by Lucinda Lavender,Paradise and Lila. 

Lucinda Lavender: Friday evening. Sky is clear and blue.
Lucinda Lavender: Hi Lila!
Lila Darkmatter: (((((Luci)))))))
--BELL--

Lila Darkmatter: Hi Birthday Girl (edit if you like :)
Lucinda Lavender: The pause:)
Lucinda Lavender: welcome!
Lila Darkmatter: thank you :) How are you doing, Luci?
Lucinda Lavender: sitting and I am good...
Lucinda Lavender: sun is out here and sky is blue
Lucinda Lavender: dinner is eaten
Lila Darkmatter: late in the day sunshine
Lucinda Lavender: yes...golden
Lila Darkmatter: what time were you born?
Lucinda Lavender: 10:29 pm
Lila Darkmatter: I'm not sure if it is true, that our birth time affects the our peak time in life
Lucinda Lavender: :)...perhaps:)
Lucinda Lavender: HI Paradise:)
Lila Darkmatter: Hi Para :) ltns
Lucinda Lavender: my birthday is tomorrow actually
Paradise Tennant: hiya luci lila :))
Paradise Tennant: oooooo happy birthday !
Lucinda Lavender: but it has been talked about today
Lucinda Lavender: I am turning 60!
Lila Darkmatter: well, nice to say happy birthday f2f
Lila Darkmatter: :)
Lila Darkmatter: any reflections?
Lucinda Lavender: still a kid at heart
Lucinda Lavender: feels like a new realm tho...the 60's
Lila Darkmatter: well you have been wise a long time, many probably wait until 60s :)
Lucinda Lavender: so...I am curious about dreams...heard there might be some:)
Lucinda Lavender: nice of you to say that...tho I definitely feel slower in my recall
Lila Darkmatter: so, rumors of dreams?
Paradise Tennant: lol
Paradise Tennant: yes I have had a couple
Lila Darkmatter: :)
Paradise Tennant: been strange ones .. in them I have senses that we don't have ..
Lucinda Lavender: i am curious since I have not remembered any in a while
Lucinda Lavender: new skills
Lila Darkmatter: interesting
Lucinda Lavender: go ahead and describe them if you want
Paradise Tennant: in one I was having my hair braided into tiny long braids by two women and were weaving things into the braid .. silk .. shells .. ribbons ..
Lila Darkmatter: beautiful image
Paradise Tennant: each time they added something i felt it almost join me in a way and the sense was one of recognition of that elements shared molecular history with me .. sort of like a cellular sense or awareness
Lucinda Lavender: lovely
Paradise Tennant: remember thinking it was going to take a long time to brush out my hair and there was an answering thought . .that this is how I should be
Lila Darkmatter: "answering thought" hmm
Lucinda Lavender: sort of more layered and complex...
Lila Darkmatter: wondering if you have sense of the women, what they were like
Lila Darkmatter: makes me think of ritual, lineage
Lucinda Lavender: yes...
Lucinda Lavender: ritual...interesting
Paradise Tennant: hmmmm they were dressed in white and their fingers were very long and quick
Paradise Tennant: their hair was really elablorately and beautifully braided ..with all manner of embellishment
Lucinda Lavender: since my mother in law passed on last night I feel attuned to the image...
Paradise Tennant: connections
Lila Darkmatter: :)
Lucinda Lavender: to pe prepared..
Lucinda Lavender: for a transition etc
--BELL--

Lucinda Lavender: the last 90 seconds...how was that?
Lila Darkmatter: at first, super quieting, just considering your last line... then wandering toward an article earlier this evening...
Paradise Tennant: hmmm I was thinking thoughts of awe ..
Lucinda Lavender: I what was the article about?
Lila Darkmatter: it was about grieving and comfort through social media, reaching out, however awkwardly
Lucinda Lavender: was it connected to awe?
Lucinda Lavender: ah..
Lila Darkmatter: (lagging, not typing so long)
Lucinda Lavender: I have been thinking about that...
Lucinda Lavender: social media andand grieving
Lila Darkmatter: yes... that sometimes it is easier for people to reach out through a kind of distant closeness :) but please say more about awe
Lucinda Lavender: yes...curious about the awe
Paradise Tennant: hmm I was praying .. doing a visualization for lucinda's mother in law .. at the exact moment she died .. was picturing at peace .. seems ..
Paradise Tennant: *her
Lila Darkmatter: ((( ))) moving
Lucinda Lavender: one thing I heard about the sense of awe is that it often accompanies truth! ah/awe
Lucinda Lavender: yes we connected here last night just before she passed
Lila Darkmatter: so touching
Paradise Tennant: and I promised to do a ton glen for her .. so I did ..
Lucinda Lavender: it was much appreciated
Paradise Tennant: you know pray meditation .. visualization .. when we harness the energy of our minds .. to a proper motivation
Lila Darkmatter nods
Paradise Tennant: it seems to connect .. to a bigger .. platform some how
Lila Darkmatter: another kind of distant closeness perhaps... like the intimacy we have with stars
Paradise Tennant: like you hit a resonance
Lucinda Lavender: nodding...
Paradise Tennant: I am happy I did .....
Lila Darkmatter: I believe it matters
Lucinda Lavender: we have learned it would seem to connect through a different medium...but connect regardless
Paradise Tennant: yes the connections here are just as real ..
Lucinda Lavender: i read a book on death back around the time my mother died...
Lucinda Lavender: it was a shamanic sort of book...and I for get the name but by a famous person on that topic
Paradise Tennant: hmm I think the actual process of dying once you are past the pain is nice .. for the person who is doing it . not so easy on those who are left behind
Lucinda Lavender: it gave me some support in believing that one could silently encourage a dying person to let go
Lucinda Lavender: the autho comes back to me Sandra Ingerman
Lila Darkmatter: think the things in the way of intuition thin out, at those sacred transition times
Paradise Tennant: yes the buddist believe you are not suppose to show strong emotion .. just love around them .. as they pass .. grief distracts them from focusing on their transition ..
Lucinda Lavender: i felt myself become quietduring that time
Paradise Tennant: yes ..
Lucinda Lavender: ah...i remember saying...well mom i need to go take care of the children...you can rest now
--BELL--

Paradise Tennant: shall we do a mediation for your mother in law luci say 5 minutes ?
Lucinda Lavender: sure!
Paradise Tennant: ok shall I gong :))
Lucinda Lavender: ok!
Lila Darkmatter: :) nice, okay
Paradise Tennant: best to send them love :)) I always envision them wrapped in love a kind a happy pink hue :))
Paradise Tennant: like a blanket :)
Paradise Tennant: ok
Lucinda Lavender: lovely
Paradise Tennant: gong :)
Paradise Tennant: smiles gong :)
Lucinda Lavender: :)) thank you again
Lila Darkmatter: *
Paradise Tennant: thank you :)
Lucinda Lavender: tell us more about the senses of your dream...
Paradise Tennant: hmm ....
Paradise Tennant: ok
Paradise Tennant: the second one I was in a room .. that was full of shining round tube things ...
Paradise Tennant: tall ceilings .. stone walls
Paradise Tennant: and the floor was very warm ..I was in bare feet
Paradise Tennant: after a f ew minutes one of the tube lit up .. sort a soft mauve glow
Paradise Tennant: and as it intensified .. I felt a kind of lift off .. this a strange dream
Paradise Tennant: sorry .. normally I dream about things I like shoes and blueberry scones ..
Lila Darkmatter giggles
Paradise Tennant: by lift off I mean part of me ..
Paradise Tennant: left
Lucinda Lavender: !
Paradise Tennant: shot out .. to follow the energy that .. was being emitted .. by that tubey thing
Paradise Tennant: it felt like a rush .. like being just a wave of energy that was aware and moving through space v ery fast ..
Paradise Tennant: yet still connected to the rest of me ..
Lila Darkmatter: exhilarating
--BELL--

Paradise Tennant: hard to put into words .. the sense of being a wave .. what that feels like .. but in the dream it seemed quite normal but I remember thinking it was taxing .. tiring .. not sure how long I wanted to stay in that room
Lucinda Lavender: perhaps a teaching/learning /exploring moment
Lila Darkmatter: being drawn from in some way, nods
Lucinda Lavender: reminds me of something from a movie of some sort
Paradise Tennant: sort of exciting dreams tonight I probably will dream about doing my taxes .. sometimes I dream about the things I should be doing :))
Lucinda Lavender: :))
Lila Darkmatter: such colorful dreams, Para. the image of the women in white and the objects in your hair... quite striking. Hair is said to be the "crown" after all
Lila Darkmatter: thanks to you both
Lucinda Lavender: well...I will need to go but thank you both for sharing your time and dreams and meditation
Lila Darkmatter: treasure this time
Paradise Tennant: yes use to love having my hair braided :)))
Lila Darkmatter: :)
Paradise Tennant: night night luci :))
Lila Darkmatter: much comfort Luci, thank you for being here
Lucinda Lavender: happy to:)
Lila Darkmatter: will sleep too zzzz
Paradise Tennant: yes getting laid sweet dreams all
Lucinda Lavender: sweet dreams
Lila Darkmatter: hopefully not about taxes as I've finished those! hah
Lucinda Lavender: haha!
Lila Darkmatter: Namaste'
Paradise Tennant: Namaste :))
Lucinda Lavender: namaste