Attending were Agatha Macbeth : Eliza Madrigal : Eos Amaterasu : Lucinda Lavender : Santoshima Resident : Xirana Oximoxi : Yakuzza Lethecus & Zen Arado
Agatha Macbeth: Lizzie ♥
San (Santoshima): hi eliza
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Hi Aggers, San :))
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): have to adjust the lights in here... hardly see
Agatha Macbeth: Yes why is it so bright?
Agatha Macbeth: Always think that
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Oh...for me it was dark!
San (Santoshima): things are set to full brightness in here?
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): so many lighting options too.... so few that come across clearly for me
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): so how are you both?
San (Santoshima): well thank you
San (Santoshima): you?
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :) well as well
San (Santoshima): we are a small group today
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): yes... hope others trickle in
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): although there isn't too much on the agenda
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): just would like to clarify best times for SL retreat if possible
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): at least put forward some ideas
San (Santoshima): brb
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ok
San (Santoshima): tea kettle
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): best reason
Agatha Macbeth nods
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): is that where you were? ^.^
Agatha Macbeth: Think sunny has a thing going on I want to shoot off to as well
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): going on now?
Agatha Macbeth: 7.30 I think it starts
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): then started half an hr ago?
Agatha Macbeth: Mm
Agatha Macbeth: But goes on for a couple of hours
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): oh, okay ~ brain fair?
Agatha Macbeth: Yeh
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Hi Luci :)
Agatha Macbeth: Hello Luci
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): nice to see you
Agatha Macbeth: Happy brithday
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Hi Zen :)
Agatha Macbeth: Hello Zenny
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): hope you had a lovely birthday Luci
Zen (Zen Arado): Hi all
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): good to see you all - we may have just a short meeting today
Lucinda Lavender: Hi Eliza, San, Agatha and Zen:) yes great birthday:)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): yay
Agatha Macbeth: Yay
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Hi Eos :)
Zen (Zen Arado): Hi Eos
Eos Amaterasu: hi guardians
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ...so to begin I'll share some first thoughts about SL retreat toward the end of May?
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): I exchanged a few emails with Aphrodite before she went on her adventure... let me paste a little of that exchange...
Agatha Macbeth: Hello E
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): whispers: (incoming)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal):
My first thoughts on the matter would be to have (as has been before) one
45 minute session Friday evening at 2pm, just to allow those
participating to check in and set intentions. This time would allow Europeans
and Americans to attend, although it would overlap Zen's music session at
Perfect Paradise.
Saturday, would have two sessions, of 90 minutes each:
-a morning session at 7am (yes overlaps a session time, but one that no
one attends), in which we would have two meditation periods and one round of
contemplative sharing on our theme (TBD - ideas?)
-and 2pm (again for purposes of Europe/US), which would be a check in of how
personal retreat is so far going for each person attending.
[everyone would be encouraged to find some time to get outdoors for a bit
in between the two times]
Sunday would again have just one session, for about an hour,
to close/dedicate the session.
Agatha Macbeth: I wouldn't be able to make the Saturday ones
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): this wouldn't be exclusive I think... would like to try to include as many as possible over the 3 days, yet keep continuity
Agatha Macbeth: Yes, nice
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): so even if not able to make it a day, just fine
Agatha Macbeth: Fri and Sun should be good
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): openings and closings are rather important... and Aph mentioned a bit of an idea of "labyrinths"... whether making a labyrinth outside of retreat house...
Eos Amaterasu: Hi Yaku
Yaku (Yakuzza Lethecus): hey everyone
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Hi yaku :))
Agatha Macbeth: Mandela?
Zen (Zen Arado): just thinking that in a RL retreat the purpose is to get away from everyday life for that period of time but in SL people try to fit in their usual things
Zen (Zen Arado): pity
Zen (Zen Arado): Hi Yaku
Agatha Macbeth: Hello Yak
Lucinda Lavender: Hi Yaku
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): what happens with us is that we start with this group of people we want to spend the time with
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): and then build from there
Agatha Macbeth: Oh, Indian circle thing, right
Zen (Zen Arado): it really takes you to get away somewhere for a real retreat I guess
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): our basis for (this) mandala is ourselves and RLs such as they happen to be happening
Agatha Macbeth: A round world thing
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal) nods
Zen (Zen Arado): yeh ..in SL retreats there are so many tempting things to do in RL
Eos Amaterasu: SL retreat is maybe misnomer
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): always tempting things :)
Zen (Zen Arado): seems to take away from the commitment
Eos Amaterasu: I think of it as both RL and SL, with SL being where we quasi-physically meet together
Zen (Zen Arado): just my thoughts on it
Yaku (Yakuzza Lethecus): also for external ppl, if ur not there ur not there, if ur there but not answering ur rude
Eos Amaterasu:the whole time period is "within" the retreat container
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): yes
Agatha Macbeth: Hence AFK ;)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): I think that's why the opening and "set intentions" session is crucial
Agatha Macbeth: Hehe
Zen (Zen Arado): yeh easy to pretend you are there..but that has always been a problem for me with SL meditation
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ultimately the accountability is to ourselves
Zen (Zen Arado): perhaps that's why they are kept so short?
Agatha Macbeth: Where are we anyway? :p
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): someone could be sitting in a RL retreat plotting murder... how would one know? :))
Zen (Zen Arado): I'm away making a cup of tea really :)
Agatha Macbeth: probably are...of LL :p
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal) grins
Agatha Macbeth: Aww
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): I've found SL retreats quite profound
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): but I don't depend on them to be
Agatha Macbeth admires Liz's profundity
Lucinda Lavender: I guess I have never done one...i can imagine them to be profound and somewhat challenging to hold to...when RL gets intense...but I like the idea and for those who can it seems great...
Agatha Macbeth: You seem to be typing Liz, but I see no words :(
Agatha Macbeth: Hope i'm not crashing
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): I even think it is OK not to verbally participate - when your turn in the circle comes around and you respond with "pass" and that's perfectly fine
Zen (Zen Arado): just thinking how itty bitty my life has become
Eos Amaterasu: attention without words
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): but I'm not sure why attend if not there at all :)
Zen (Zen Arado): wonder if that is from Facebook and SL?
San (Santoshima): *
Agatha Macbeth: It all depends what each person gets out of it I guess
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): (excuse me one moment... daughter just in from grad night and must hug before she goes back to bed)
Zen (Zen Arado): I mean I never seem to read whole books any more - just articles
Agatha Macbeth: That was a long night
Eos Amaterasu looks at watch
Zen (Zen Arado): always remember Boxy's maxim - tl;wr
Agatha Macbeth: Ha
Zen (Zen Arado): :)
Agatha Macbeth: Me too
Agatha Macbeth: But i never remember what it means
Zen (Zen Arado): too long won't read
Lucinda Lavender: ;) understand...what was the maxim?
Agatha Macbeth: Yes!
Agatha Macbeth: TY
Lucinda Lavender: ah
Agatha Macbeth: War & Peace rocks
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :) back
Agatha Macbeth: Hello back
Zen (Zen Arado): wb Eliza
Agatha Macbeth: And hello Xira :)
San (Santoshima): hi Xir
Eos Amaterasu: hi Xira
Yaku (Yakuzza Lethecus): hey xirana
Zen (Zen Arado): Hi Xiri :)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): that's the tendency now agreed, Zen.. so conscious counteraction is somewhat what a retreat is about?
Agatha Macbeth: Ai caramba
Lucinda Lavender: Hi xirana:)
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): hello everyone! :)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Hi Xiri :)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): slicing against the grain
Zen (Zen Arado): yes...dedicating a period of time to just being
Agatha Macbeth: Rory Gallagher
Zen (Zen Arado): and not doing anything
Zen (Zen Arado): and yes I find that hard
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): 99 Days is a similar idea, support for unique intentions
Agatha Macbeth: I really *must* put something on there today
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :))
Lucinda Lavender: sometimes I have had the feeling of entering a pool together..but it is a psychic pool...sort of anyway.
Zen (Zen Arado): yeh it felt like a writing exercise to me a bit...but maybe I did it wrong
Agatha Macbeth: Getting psychically wet
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): nice image Luci
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Practically, are the times OK for most?
Zen (Zen Arado): think so
San (Santoshima): yes
Lucinda Lavender: they do seem reasonable
Zen (Zen Arado): when is it?
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): 2pm Friday, 7 and 2 Saturday, and one session Sunday, maybe at this time (8am) - May 23 -25 (rechecking that now)
Zen (Zen Arado): oh have RL meditation on that Sat
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): yes...23rd to 25
San (Santoshima): hmm
Agatha Macbeth: Hmm
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ah, that might actually be perfect Zen.. retreat mode :) helped by RL
San (Santoshima): maybe need to change the weekend to be the next one
Lucinda Lavender: I might be able to do it ...
Zen (Zen Arado): oh no thought it was Sat 7th
San (Santoshima): ok
Zen (Zen Arado): so ok
Zen (Zen Arado): next Sat?
Zen (Zen Arado): ah no
Zen (Zen Arado): I'm bad with dates
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): we don't all have to be at every session, but opening and closing are important...
Lucinda Lavender: I have an upcoming memorial but it is not pinned down. right around 17 or 24
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): thoughts, Eos?
Lucinda Lavender: I do want to attend at least partially
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :) glad
Eos Amaterasu: setting up the shared intentions which help create the boundary for the experience: beginning and ending times shared
Eos Amaterasu: within that everything is permitted, inevitable chattering monkeys et al, but not fed bananas or pushed away
Eos Amaterasu: in SL, in RL, doesn't matter
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :)
Zen (Zen Arado): could do extended meditation in RL
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): yes
Eos Amaterasu: great idea
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): or walking practice
Zen (Zen Arado): use SL one just to focus
Zen (Zen Arado): to build upon or around
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): yes
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): I have to admit that I do feel a difference even in an SL meditation if others are also attentive - or think I do - but can't rely on others to discipline 'me' :)
Zen (Zen Arado): it's easier in a group though
Zen (Zen Arado): that's why people go to retreats
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal) nods
Agatha Macbeth: So they say :p
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): support
Zen (Zen Arado): yes
Zen (Zen Arado): we are social animals
Zen (Zen Arado): easier to go with a group
Agatha Macbeth growls firecely
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): heheh
Agatha Macbeth: And fiercely too
Zen (Zen Arado) bleats
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal) giggles
Agatha Macbeth pokes Liz in the ear
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Ok... so retreat is coming together - unless anyone has other questions or something to add
Lucinda Lavender: great
Zen (Zen Arado): super
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): 99 Days (33) is also quite warm this round... am enjoying company there
Agatha Macbeth: Will this be up in the retreat centre?
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): yes!
Agatha Macbeth: Yay
Lucinda Lavender: may I have a lm please?
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Oh, Sure Luci
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): it is also nice to go up there to relax... anyone else need a LM?
Agatha Macbeth: It is indeed
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Other topics?
Lucinda Lavender: thanks:)
Agatha Macbeth: Hm
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): most welcome :)
Zen (Zen Arado): AOB?
Agatha Macbeth: Can't think of anything personally
Zen (Zen Arado): me neither
Agatha Macbeth: AOB?
Yaku (Yakuzza Lethecus): thinks of ssl, wasn´t it her construction of the retreat place ?
Zen (Zen Arado): any other business
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): me neither
Agatha Macbeth: Ah
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ah, I thought you meant art of being , hah
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Yaku, yes...
Agatha Macbeth: Originally Yak, but she took it away :p
Zen (Zen Arado): they always say that at meetings where I live
Agatha Macbeth: Yeh, me too
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): and then Sunshine added to it a bit... the landscape is still SSL but Sunshine added the house
Zen (Zen Arado): love the waterfall
Agatha Macbeth: Yes, house is Sunny's
Lucinda Lavender: :)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal) nods
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): what is ssl?
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): it IS a really nice environment
Agatha Macbeth: Sharon
Zen (Zen Arado): Sharon
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): Sophia Sharon Larna
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :)
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): ahhhh ok, thank you :)
Zen (Zen Arado): Sophia Sharon
Agatha Macbeth: Hope she's alright
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :)
Zen (Zen Arado): she escaped from SL
Zen (Zen Arado): :)
Agatha Macbeth: Probably didn't have time
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): :)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): life has its turns
Lucinda Lavender: :)
Zen (Zen Arado): watched 'Transcendence' movie last night
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): you did? how was it??
Zen (Zen Arado): a bit far fetched
Zen (Zen Arado): but entertaining I thought
Zen (Zen Arado): reminded me of Transhumanism discussions we had here
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): wondered... good premise but not as compelling as "Her"
Zen (Zen Arado): cos a man gets his mind uploaded onto the web
Zen (Zen Arado): still haven't seen that
Lucinda Lavender: wow interesting idea...must go for now ...
Agatha Macbeth: Mind over matter
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): okay Luci, take care
Zen (Zen Arado): bye Luci
Yaku (Yakuzza Lethecus): bye luci
San (Santoshima): so long luci
Agatha Macbeth: Bye Luci, have fun
Lucinda Lavender: you all take care too:)
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): bye Luci, have a nice Sunday
Eos Amaterasu: ciao luci
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): many are saying it isn't far fetched actually... sort of inevitable
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): various articles popping up
Zen (Zen Arado): yeh but the way they did it was a bit far fetched
Lucinda Lavender: ciao;)
Zen (Zen Arado): I thought anyway
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ah :)
Zen (Zen Arado): raises questins of identity too
Zen (Zen Arado): and morality
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): mmm
Zen (Zen Arado): and what it is to be human
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): maybe we don't know until challenged
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): interesting...I will have to watch it
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): the view of time as not arrow is interesting too... from Eos's link. I read quickly but something like it has to with situatedness?
Zen (Zen Arado): Johhny Depp
Agatha Macbeth: Not arrow?
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal) looks...
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ty!
Eos Amaterasu: math/physics guys show that quantum entanglement is why time has a direction
Eos Amaterasu: we are ever more deeply entangled
Zen (Zen Arado): entangled in our human perspective
Agatha Macbeth: Thought that was entropy
Zen (Zen Arado): terrifying thought to be just a mind on the web
Eos Amaterasu: this seems deeper than entropy
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): think it is neat that so many scientists and others have ideas that are laughed off, but decades later there comes a little turn and shift and "tada" back in fashion :)
Agatha Macbeth: I often wonder who wirites these things
San (Santoshima): see film: Only Lovers Left Alive
Zen (Zen Arado): sounds apocalyptic San
Agatha Macbeth: Apocalypse now
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :)
San (Santoshima): entanglement theory figures
San (Santoshima): vampire flick
San (Santoshima): excellent
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): good cast
San (Santoshima): yep
San (Santoshima): stellar
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): I like this title :)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): daughter is grumbling at me that she's hungry and would like to go to breakfast after too exciting night
San (Santoshima): aw
Agatha Macbeth: Give her a sandwich
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): :))
Eos Amaterasu: breakfast after all-nighter has special quality
Zen (Zen Arado): too late for breakfast
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :) I'd like to take her
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): yes
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): so.. lovely to see you all
Zen (Zen Arado): brunch maybe
Eos Amaterasu: have a great bkfast!
San (Santoshima): ok, then then this meeting is a wrap?
Zen (Zen Arado): enjot brekkie
Yaku (Yakuzza Lethecus): good week everyone
Zen (Zen Arado): byee all
Agatha Macbeth: Right, I'm off to Sun
Eos Amaterasu: I have to segue to another get together also
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): have a nice day all :)
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): thanks everyone... if you go on, just send me the text
San (Santoshima): ok, bye
Eos Amaterasu: thanks and bye all!
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ah, thanks :))
Agatha Macbeth: Byee
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ♥ ♥ ♥
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): ♥ ♥ ♥
Xirana (Xirana Oximoxi): bye bye :)
San (Santoshima): byebye
San (Santoshima): birdies
Eliza (Eliza Madrigal): :)