2009.02.10 01:00 - Being Silent Together

Wester Kiranov was the guardian, and the comments are hers.

I sat on my own for a few minutes, then Susi came in. We introduced ourselves.

Susi Alcott: hi Wester
Wester Kiranov: hi susi
Wester Kiranov: have you been here before? I haven't met you yet but I haven't been around a lot lately
Susi Alcott: yes I have
Wester Kiranov: good
Susi Alcott: sry forgot to change the group tag
Wester Kiranov: ok
Wester Kiranov: I haven't put mine up either
Susi Alcott: np

 We sat together in silence for 15 minutes or so, then Tarmel came along for a moment.

Wester Kiranov: hi tarmel
Tarmel Udimo: hi wester and susi
Susi Alcott: hi Tarmel
Tarmel Udimo: just passing through on my way to a
Tarmel Udimo: building tutorial
Susi Alcott: nice from you to drop by :)
Tarmel Udimo: ta
Tarmel Udimo: okay will be back later
Susi Alcott: have nice time
Wester Kiranov: have a good time. cu

 We sat for quite while longer, and then Susi decided to say a bit about this.

Susi Alcott: it's quite a while that it's been this silent at the meeting time
Wester Kiranov: yep
Wester Kiranov: this used to be pema's slot, so that might have made it busier before
Wester Kiranov: but i actually think it's nice to have some moments of quietness
Susi Alcott: _/!\_
Susi Alcott: would it be easy for you to chooce if you prefere were alone or within silence with other person ?
Susi Alcott: or does it make any difference to you ?
Wester Kiranov: it does make a difference, but i'm not quite sure which i prefer ...
Wester Kiranov: i think with another person around, you have to stay more focused
Susi Alcott: ah; focused to that other person ?
Wester Kiranov: no, to the whole situation actually
Wester Kiranov: you can't slack off too much with another person around
Wester Kiranov: but the possibility of other people coming here has the same effect
Wester Kiranov: how is this for you?
Susi Alcott: I also prefere an other person to be present

Time for goodbyes.

Wester Kiranov: I have to go now. It was very nice to meet you.
Wester Kiranov: bye
Susi Alcott: nice to met you too