The Guardian for this meeting was Lucinda Lavender. The comments are by Lucinda Lavender. Attending were
Korel, Santoshima, Bleu.
Lucinda Lavender: good eve Korel
Korel Laloix: Heya
Lucinda Lavender: How is life?
Korel Laloix: sick lag today
Korel Laloix: Setteling down again.
Lucinda Lavender: common for me most days
Korel Laloix: Ne er figure out why it is so bad at some times and good at other terms.
Santoshima Resident: 's current display-name is "San".
Lucinda Lavender: glad you are having settling...
Lucinda Lavender: me either
Lucinda Lavender: do you have any topics that you would like to discuss?
Lucinda Lavender: hi Santoshima
Santoshima Resident: hi :)
Korel Laloix: Not really.
Lucinda Lavender: ok...
Korel Laloix: Just looking for company this evening.
Lucinda Lavender: i don't either...San?
Santoshima Resident: not at the moment
Lucinda Lavender: topic of interest/
Santoshima Resident: sorry, came here empty-handed topic-wise
Lucinda Lavender: me too
Korel Laloix: We were talking about clutter the other day.
Korel Laloix: Not sure if that was hit more or not.
Korel Laloix: But that was a good talk for me.
Lucinda Lavender: cool!
Korel Laloix: Let me part with some things.'
Lucinda Lavender: clutter is around me most of the time
Lucinda Lavender: great!
Lucinda Lavender: I like to part with stuff too:)
Korel Laloix: My questions was why I could not make myself get rid of my useless collection of bridesmaid dresses.
Lucinda Lavender: i find anything related to family and children hard to part with
Korel Laloix: I don't really own much...
Lucinda Lavender: wow yes!...bridesmaid dress would fit in the catagory for me as well
Lucinda Lavender: family and ceremony
Korel Laloix: Well.. I did manage to get rid of the dresses for the weddings the ended in divorce.
Korel Laloix: I let myself get rid of those.
Lucinda Lavender: :) sigh
Lucinda Lavender: I never was a bridesmaid
Korel Laloix: But the other ones, I still have no use for...never intend to wear... maybe for costumes... smiles
Korel Laloix: It is highly overrated.
Korel Laloix: But worth it.
Lucinda Lavender: nodding
Korel Laloix: More pain than fun if you do it right.
Santoshima Resident: {just wondering ... did one of you turn on the snow? }
Santoshima Resident: or how does it get turned on here?
Lucinda Lavender: I see no snow
Korel Laloix: no, I derzed it in my view so it does not lag me as much.
Korel Laloix: There are five sploders way up that put out the snow.
Santoshima Resident: right, what activates them?
Lucinda Lavender: i do not know
Santoshima Resident: the words "weddings\"?
Lucinda Lavender: haha
Santoshima Resident: or maybe "divorce"
Korel Laloix: Not sure... i dislike snow in Sl and Rl as well.
Lucinda Lavender: I see an orangeish light on your left arm San
Santoshima Resident: yes, i am doing something, i'm not sure what
Santoshima Resident: there gone
Lucinda Lavender: perhaps conducting snow
Lucinda Lavender: ah
Santoshima Resident: was trying to affect the snowfall
Santoshima Resident: but just turned off particles instead
Lucinda Lavender: nods
Santoshima Resident: back to the topic at hand
--BELL--
Korel Laloix: YOu can just click the balls and they stop.
Lucinda Lavender: letting go of things(clutter)...
Lucinda Lavender: breathes deep
Korel Laloix: Moving gave me some good push to parth with some things as well.
Korel Laloix: Got rid of some books and dead socks and running shoes as well.
Lucinda Lavender: books take up a lot of space
Lucinda Lavender: and since there are such things as libraries...for me there is less interest in owning
Korel Laloix: MIne or more text books...
Eliza Madrigal: 's current display-name is "Eliza".
Lucinda Lavender: I think I have filled my dwelling and need now to empty
Lucinda Lavender: HI Eliza:)
Korel Laloix: I really need a paper copy to study... but after the course though, the online version is perfectly good.
Eliza Madrigal: Hi :)
Lucinda Lavender: did not see you...
Santoshima Resident: hiho Eliza :)
Eliza Madrigal: just arrived
Lucinda Lavender: we were talking about letting go of things
Lucinda Lavender: and clutter
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Lucinda Lavender: I have a lot of books on dreams
Lucinda Lavender: that i could let go of
Lucinda Lavender: i never open them
Korel Laloix: You just dream about their content?
Lucinda Lavender: perhaps so...tho i do not remember as many as i used to
Korel Laloix: I am unfotunatly in a position to need to buy things now.
Korel Laloix: Getting dishes and the like.
Lucinda Lavender: ah!
Eliza Madrigal: let yourself have fun with that Korel
Lucinda Lavender: Luci thinks of the dishes called Corelle:)
Korel Laloix: Just hard to spend money.
Korel Laloix smiles
Eliza Madrigal nods
Lucinda Lavender: spending is tricky sometimes
Korel Laloix: Especiallyh with having to pay rent now and getting less money from work.
Eliza Madrigal: ah, didn't realize with your work move you would make less
Lucinda Lavender: Luci feels the urge to send dishes to Korel
Eliza Madrigal smiles
Lucinda Lavender: challenging
Korel Laloix: TGhanks... smiles
Eliza Madrigal: Ohhhh each PaBer could send a dish!
Eliza Madrigal: homewarming :))
Korel Laloix: MOving to a job along the lines of my degrees.
Lucinda Lavender: yes...that was my thought actually eliza
Korel Laloix: Reeba actually picked some things up for me.
Eliza Madrigal: scared you with that idea did we? :))
Lucinda Lavender: hi to Ruby:)
Korel Laloix: SHe is decorating for me as well...
Korel Laloix: If its free... its for me... grins
Eliza Madrigal: Oh, hello Ruby :)
Korel Laloix: Just a new phase to life... and a good chance to get rid of a few things.
Lucinda Lavender: nice...
Lucinda Lavender: fresh start
--BELL--
Eliza Madrigal: have never lived in an apartment before and am now learning of ridiculous fees for animals.... wanted to get a dog
Korel Laloix: Depends on where...
Korel Laloix: And what
Korel Laloix: This pplace is not bad really.
Korel Laloix: But also I dont' want much barking around.
Santoshima Resident: cat
Eliza Madrigal: my cat barks, but not too loudly hah
Korel Laloix: I would love to have a cat again.
Bleu Oleander: 's current display-name is "Bleu".
Lucinda Lavender: it is challengin to keep animals sometimes...thinking of the roosters down the street
Eliza Madrigal: Hi Bleu :)
Bleu Oleander: evening everyone :)
Lucinda Lavender: cat barks!
Korel Laloix: Heya
Lucinda Lavender: interesting! Hi Bleu
Santoshima Resident: hiya bleu
Lucinda Lavender: I have to admit I have very little pab time these days
Korel Laloix: I wil have very little starting next week.
Korel Laloix: No more SL at work.
Korel Laloix: Starting next week.
Eliza Madrigal: have noticed Luci... missed you so thought to sign in... also sorry to miss dream circle last time
Eliza Madrigal: will miss you too Kori
Eliza Madrigal: I guess sometimes we don't realize how spoiled and lucky we are
Bleu Oleander: rl gets in the way sometimes :)
Lucinda Lavender: yes!
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Lucinda Lavender: fullness
Lucinda Lavender: i do not always have access to the laptop
Korel Laloix: Darn reality.
Bleu Oleander: :)
Lucinda Lavender: kori will have a new job and that is exciting i imagine
Eliza Madrigal: here we can have a lot of clutter that takes very little space
Lucinda Lavender: in sl?
Eliza Madrigal: yes... though when it gets disorganized I guess it feels much the same
Lucinda Lavender: folds down to tiny:)
Korel Laloix: That is very true,
Korel Laloix: No down side to 40000 inventory
Santoshima Resident: lag when crossing into different sims
Santoshima Resident: crashing computer when opening invnetory more than once
Santoshima Resident: etc. for example
Korel Laloix: Oh OK.. i keep mine well under 400
Korel Laloix: So.. no issue for me.. at least for that.
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Santoshima Resident: you are a model of good housekeeping, korel
Korel Laloix: Very true... smiles
Santoshima Resident: :))
Lucinda Lavender: where does one see what one has...
Lucinda Lavender: ?
Eliza Madrigal: oops
Santoshima Resident: oops ... maybe luci opened inventory
Eliza Madrigal: likely so
Santoshima Resident: wb luci
Santoshima Resident: when you open inventory, there should be a number indicating the total items in it.
Lucinda Lavender: I thought so...but will have to look further
--BELL--
Korel Laloix: brb relog
Lucinda Lavender: 3,166 items
Eliza Madrigal: not bad... even less than Kori
Santoshima Resident: 14, 919
Eliza Madrigal: 8639
Lucinda Lavender: the numbers come and go
Bleu Oleander: 35K for me
Eliza Madrigal: I don't keep a home... so mostly it is har
Eliza Madrigal: hair*
Eliza Madrigal laughs
Lucinda Lavender: inspirational:)
Bleu Oleander: mostly art stuff though and yes hair :)
Lucinda Lavender: interesting that hair accumulates
Lucinda Lavender: grows
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Bleu Oleander: saw an art show once that put all the hair on a landscape
Bleu Oleander: pretty fun
Lucinda Lavender: :))
Eliza Madrigal: RL?
Bleu Oleander: in sl
Bleu Oleander: covered a whole sim
Eliza Madrigal: ah, still wild idea
Eliza Madrigal: ! hah
Lucinda Lavender: wow
Bleu Oleander: cool
Eliza Madrigal: luci did you say you aren't dreaming much?
Lucinda Lavender: a wild hair
Lucinda Lavender: well yes...not remembering
Lucinda Lavender: dreams
Lucinda Lavender: are you?
Eliza Madrigal: due to busyness?
Lucinda Lavender: or is anyone else?
Lucinda Lavender: not sure..i think i just forget as i wake
Eliza Madrigal: I am dreaming... and remembering... but differently than 'usual'
Bleu Oleander: have to remember right away
Eliza Madrigal nods.... hard not to be tricked by the false confidence of
Eliza Madrigal: "of course I'll remember this"
Bleu Oleander: done that:)
Lucinda Lavender: been a while since i had that thought
Lucinda Lavender: I was wondering if my change in dreaming has to do with not having children in my house...
Lucinda Lavender: the emptiness
Eliza Madrigal: interesting idea
Lucinda Lavender: and the trust that they are well even tho at a distance
Eliza Madrigal: so you feel secure about them Luci?
Lucinda Lavender: yes
Lucinda Lavender: generally yes
Lucinda Lavender: they are learning new jobs and more responsibility
Lucinda Lavender: they are busy and working
Lucinda Lavender: so i do not feel as responsible for them
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Lucinda Lavender: and they have partners
Lucinda Lavender: and lives
Lucinda Lavender: and cats
Eliza Madrigal: so a bit of permission for you... to dream differently maybe
Lucinda Lavender: yes that sounds good:)
Lucinda Lavender: maybe this weekend
Lucinda Lavender: a dream
Lucinda Lavender: a sleep in
Lucinda Lavender: how about you all?
Eliza Madrigal: I have been setting my alarm for 4:15am the last few weeks, to catch dreams
Lucinda Lavender: dream catcher!
Lucinda Lavender: sounds interesting!
Eliza Madrigal: something I've done from time to time... got the idea from hearing about dream retreats, though have never been on one
Bleu Oleander: can't imagine awakening that early on purpose :)
Eliza Madrigal: well I don't get up, normally
Eliza Madrigal: it is like a cue that brings me out of dreaming long enough to record then go back
Bleu Oleander: my dogs get me up early as it is
Eliza Madrigal grins
Lucinda Lavender: even if you do not have an image you can lie there and watch how thoughts come and go as you fall back to sleep
Eliza Madrigal: yes, when it isn't about dreaming it is about meditation
Lucinda Lavender: watching to see if there is a notable image
Eliza Madrigal: making a threshold
Bleu Oleander: funny, the snow is making me chilly hehe
Lucinda Lavender: on the threshold of a dream
--BELL--
Eliza Madrigal: snow?
Bleu Oleander: here
Eliza Madrigal: is it?
Bleu Oleander: I see it
Lucinda Lavender: maybe if you have a certain setting
Bleu Oleander: no one sees the snow?
Lucinda Lavender: i do not have the snow engaged myself
Bleu Oleander: it's not a view function
Eliza Madrigal: I don't see any.... but wouldn't mind doing so :)
Bleu Oleander: hehe
Eliza Madrigal: it is snowing in bleu's universe
Santoshima Resident: they are particles, and so can be made to be not seen
Bleu Oleander: really, you guys don't see it?
Lucinda Lavender: San spoke of it earlier
Santoshima Resident: have turned off particles
Eliza Madrigal: hm, I just increased particles... still no snow....
Santoshima Resident: the snow make my viewer lock
Lucinda Lavender: i think it is true for me too San
Santoshima Resident: it take a minute or so to show, eliza
Santoshima Resident: if you make that cahnge
Santoshima Resident: of a few breathes anyway
Santoshima Resident: of = or
Bleu Oleander: just turned it off lol
Eliza Madrigal: the snow melted around here so never occurred to me it would still be snowing...probably still snowing where Storm is though :)
Bleu Oleander: :)
Lucinda Lavender: :)
Eliza Madrigal: I wonder how much time in SL is spend merely comparing views... "do you see what I see...."
Bleu Oleander: lol
Lucinda Lavender: true!
Eliza Madrigal: was nice to see you all... will sleep now, perchance dream :)
Santoshima Resident: bye eliza
Lucinda Lavender: have a lovely sleep:)
Santoshima Resident: me too
Santoshima Resident: g'night
Eliza Madrigal: night
Bleu Oleander: saying nite too
Lucinda Lavender: thanks for being
Lucinda Lavender: all
Eliza Madrigal: thanks for being, too :))
Bleu Oleander: take care and sweet dreams
Eliza Madrigal: bfn
Bleu Oleander: byee
Lucinda Lavender: will do