2012.04.29 13:00 - Do as you would be done by

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    The Guardian for this meeting was Aphrodite Macbain. The comments are by Aphrodite Macbain.

    Aphrodite Macbain: Hiya stormy
    Storm Nordwind: Hi Aph!
    Aphrodite Macbain: Seems I haven't seen you in ages
    Storm Nordwind: One moment - there's a stray object on our land that needs disposing of...
    Aphrodite Macbain: kk
    Storm Nordwind: Done
    Aphrodite Macbain: Hello Bruce
    Bruce Mowbray: Was that an alien spaceship?
    Storm Nordwind: Hi Bruce.
    Bruce Mowbray: Howdy do!
    Storm Nordwind: If there were aliens on board, they're gone too now :)
    Aphrodite Macbain: Thank you for saving us Storm
    Bruce Mowbray: I watched "Paul" for the second time -- ooops... I think I already told you that.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Waves at Wol
    Storm Nordwind: I would hate for you to be abducted... yet :)
    Wol Euler: evening all
    Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Wol!
    Aphrodite Macbain: Paul?
    Storm Nordwind: Ah you didn't mention the second time - only that you might do so
    Aphrodite Macbain: which paul?
    Storm Nordwind: Worth a second play?
    Aphrodite Macbain: There are so many
    Wol Euler: movie named "Paul"
    Bruce Mowbray: Yes, watched it again Firday night -- saw MUCH that I'd missed the first time.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Oh It hasn't arrived here yet.
    Wol Euler: that's often the case, I find
    Storm Nordwind: Yes I thought that might happen
    Storm Nordwind: A movie Aph: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1092026/
    Aphrodite Macbain: Is it good?
    Storm Nordwind: Very funny
    Storm Nordwind: So good if you like funny
    Bruce Mowbray: Hilarious and irreverent as all ----.
    Aphrodite Macbain: About UFOs?
    Storm Nordwind: About one alien
    Aphrodite Macbain: tying to figure out the world?
    Bruce Mowbray: About a space alien that crashes his ship on a dog.
    Aphrodite Macbain: LOL
    Storm Nordwind: Oh no. About the world trying to figure out him!
    Aphrodite Macbain: scratch scratch
    Bruce Mowbray: No "probbing," though.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Probbing?
    Storm Nordwind: Only the threat of it!
    Bruce Mowbray: "probing," sry.
    Bruce Mowbray has mental image of two bagels....
    Storm Nordwind: "It's probing time!" Finger waggles. People faint!
    Storm Nordwind: Could easily become a cult movie.
     

    Aphrodite Macbain: How do people feel about discussing the topic "Using one's own traditions as a resource (for living and being)"?
    Bruce Mowbray: I'm up for it, Aph.

    Wol Euler: sure, go for it
    Storm Nordwind: You start ;-)
    Aphrodite Macbain: smiles. Maybe we can each talk about our own religious tradition(s)
    Aphrodite Macbain: Sure, OK

    Aph

    Bruce Mowbray: kk. . . brb . . .
    Aphrodite Macbain: I was raised an Anglican
    Aphrodite Macbain: what do you call it in the US?
    Wol Euler: I think "anglican" is known
    Bruce Mowbray: Episcopalian.
    Wol Euler: ah, ty
    Storm Nordwind: Not sure. I think it's close to Episcopalian
    Bruce Mowbray: Episcopalian.
    Aphrodite Macbain: and I had Presbyterian grandparents and great grandparents
    Bruce Mowbray: oh dear... HIT my typist!
    Aphrodite Macbain: all of whom were staunch Christians.
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Dont hit your typist Bruce!. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you!
    Storm Nordwind just did for him :)
    Bruce Mowbray scrapes typist off the floor.
    Aphrodite Macbain: That was the most basic lesson learned from all of them and it seems to be transferable to any religion

    Bruce Mowbray: (It's a tradition, you understand.)
    Aphrodite Macbain: sits patiently and waits,...
    Aphrodite Macbain: till it's their turn :-)
    Storm Nordwind: Not sure "any" religion, but certainly many
    Aphrodite Macbain: ??
    Bruce Mowbray: kk. My home demolishers are just now LEAVING for the day -- so no more interruptions!
    Wol Euler: :)

    Storm

    Aphrodite Macbain: Maybe I'll pass this along to Storm
    Storm Nordwind: k
    Aphrodite Macbain watches storm type on his knees
    --BELL--
    Storm Nordwind: Just because I grew up in a country that was slightly Christian, and attended Christian like services at school, doesn't mean I feel it's my tradition in any way
    Storm Nordwind: Before being Buddhist I was for many years a Heathen, which means a follower of reconstructed North European Germanic paganism - hence why it's easier just to say "Heathen"!
    Aphrodite Macbain: Nods
    Storm Nordwind: So that was my tradition by choice for a long time
    Aphrodite Macbain: Barbarians!
    Aphrodite Macbain smiles
    Bruce Mowbray: Druids?
    Storm Nordwind: Actually, quite different to Barbarians, but we're splitting hairs here!
    Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
    Storm Nordwind: No not Druidry
    Bruce Mowbray: Celtic?
    Storm Nordwind: Druidry is not Germanic in origin
    Storm Nordwind: Celts are not Germanic either
    Bruce Mowbray shuts up -- hits his typist again.
    Aphrodite Macbain: How was Heathenism a resource for you Storm?
    Wol Euler: I fear you will have to explain this, Storm :)
    Storm Nordwind: We're talking Anglo Saxon, Germanic, Norse - all the countries around the North Sea
    Bruce Mowbray: Ahhh! Odin!
    Aphrodite Macbain: North German
    Storm Nordwind: Odin - Woden - Wotan - yes he was one of the gods of Heathenry
    Aphrodite Macbain: Listens
    Storm Nordwind: Heathenry has been a resource in a couple of ways I can immediately think of
    Storm Nordwind: For one thing, it is a polytheist religion...
    Storm Nordwind: and all the gods are independent...
    Aphrodite Macbain: independent?
    Storm Nordwind: and none is a face for some kind of almighty supergod
    Storm Nordwind: They're as independent as you or me
    Storm Nordwind: Not facets of anything else
    Aphrodite Macbain: Independent from what?
    Aphrodite Macbain: Oh I see
    Storm Nordwind: nor archetypes personified
    Storm Nordwind: just real individual beings
    Storm Nordwind: and they're flawed
    Aphrodite Macbain: just not human
    Storm Nordwind: and finite
    Storm Nordwind: just not human yes
    Aphrodite Macbain: finite?!
    Storm Nordwind: Sure
    Storm Nordwind: They live and die
    Storm Nordwind: like all gods
    Aphrodite Macbain: Don’t they still exist?
    Storm Nordwind: Some do yes

    Wol Euler: hello korel
    Korel Laloix: Heya
    Aphrodite Macbain: Hi Korel
    Aphrodite Macbain: We're talking about our own religious traditions and how they help us

    Storm Nordwind: So that brings acceptance of other people's views ...
    Storm Nordwind: but also a nice big grain of salt
    Aphrodite Macbain: BC they are flawed?
    Storm Nordwind: when others claim absolute and almighty!
    Storm Nordwind: b/c = what Aph?
    Aphrodite Macbain: But they are also unreliable...
    Aphrodite Macbain: b/c they are flawed you can take them with a grain of salt?
    Storm Nordwind: What does b/c mean?
    Aphrodite Macbain: because
    Storm Nordwind: ah thank you
    Aphrodite Macbain: sorry
    Storm Nordwind: No...
    Storm Nordwind: they are flawed, but you see all gods as flawed
    Storm Nordwind: which is fine
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Storm Nordwind: There's another resource it brings too
    Storm Nordwind: off hand thinking
    Aphrodite Macbain: so they teach by law not by example?
    Storm Nordwind: who?
    Aphrodite Macbain: the gods
    Aphrodite Macbain: dont do what I do, do what I say
    Storm Nordwind: Well some do and some don't and many don't teach at all
    Aphrodite Macbain: kk
    Storm Nordwind: But the second resource that springs to mind is communication
    Storm Nordwind: It's really very natural in many polytheist religion to communicate with gods, any gods
    Storm Nordwind: In fact it's more unnatural not to do so, or to think that it's just up to priests to do it for you
    Storm Nordwind: So this is very freeing
    Storm Nordwind: It gives permission
    Storm Nordwind: to try it yourself
    Wol Euler: oh, I do :()
    Storm Nordwind: and in this way you establish a basis for finding stuff out first hand
    Aphrodite Macbain: what purpose do these Heathen gods serve?
    Storm Nordwind: Ask yourself what purpose you serve first Aph!
    Aphrodite Macbain: Myself and my survival I suppose
    Aphrodite Macbain: then others
    Storm Nordwind: They exist. They have being. So do you. What other purpose does anything need?
    Aphrodite Macbain: Why bother to pray to them then?
    Aphrodite Macbain: Why fear them?
    Aphrodite Macbain: What can they give us?
    Storm Nordwind:  No reason. In fact with Heathen gods they scorn prayer!
    Storm Nordwind: They prefer proper conversation, not prayer
    Storm Nordwind: And they will negotiate like any adult human
    Aphrodite Macbain: So they play a sort of collegial role?
    Storm Nordwind: Not sure what that means
    Aphrodite Macbain: friend and colleague
    Storm Nordwind: Sure. Friend with more power and more vision.

    --BELL--

    Aphrodite Macbain: a wise grandfatherly type to whom you can go to for help or advice?
    Storm Nordwind: No need to fear them, by the way, though - like some humans - I dare say many gods like to be feared or worshiped!
    Storm Nordwind: Some are grandfatherly, some not
    Storm Nordwind: They have their own agendas. All of them. Heathen or non-Heathen. Without exception.
    Wol Euler nods.
    Bruce Mowbray nods.
    Wol Euler: thank you, storm
    Bruce Mowbray: Thanks for sharing, Storm. I feel I know you better for this.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Thanks Storm. Bruce, how do use your own traditions as a resource (for living and being)

    Bruce

    Bruce Mowbray: Well. . .
    Bruce Mowbray: a thumbnail sketch of a LONG journey:
    Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
    Bruce Mowbray: I was brought up in the Baptist church....
    Bruce Mowbray: until age 14, when I fell in love,
    Bruce Mowbray: and rebelled against the Baptists -- and went across the street to my girlfriend's church:
    Bruce Mowbray: Methodist!
    Aphrodite Macbain: Tch tch
    Bruce Mowbray: Where I eventually became MYF (Methodist Youth FRellowship) president - sang in the choir, the full deal.
    Aphrodite Macbain: awww
    Bruce Mowbray: I even went to SMU (Southern Methodist University)...
    Bruce Mowbray: and got undergrad degree there.
    Bruce Mowbray: From there -- became a Unitarian Universalist----
    Bruce Mowbray: and that brought me to Berkeley.
    Bruce Mowbray: Starr King School for the Ministry...
    Bruce Mowbray: One year there.
    Bruce Mowbray: Dropped out and went to Cal's grad school.
    Bruce Mowbray: Through Ram Dass and others got into meditation in Berkeley....
    Aphrodite Macbain didn't know Calvino had a grad school
    Bruce Mowbray: explored Eastern mystical traditions.
    Bruce Mowbray: Calvino Graduate School of the Occult, actually.

    Aphrodite Macbain: smiles
    Bruce Mowbray: anyway....
    Bruce Mowbray: after teaching for fourteen years... moving to Ohio...
    Bruce Mowbray: I walked across the country alone,
    Aphrodite Macbain: 14 years!!?
    Bruce Mowbray: and during that hike,
    Bruce Mowbray: I had what I can only call -- and still call - Miraculous experiences.
    Bruce Mowbray: So, here I am - and raw hard core atheist-- experiencing miracles every day.
    Aphrodite Macbain: a year of magical living
    Bruce Mowbray: So....
    Bruce Mowbray: mid-way along the hike.
    Bruce Mowbray: I call the Methodist minister friend here . . .
    Bruce Mowbray: and he attends a Methodist seminary in Dayton -
    Bruce Mowbray: so , I ask him to send me application materials for that seminary.
    Bruce Mowbray: And, in the fall of 1977, I become a seminarian...
    Bruce Mowbray: BUT, I did not consider myself a Christian (and never have -- since I was a teenager)....
    Bruce Mowbray: Just wanting to explore the "tradition into which I was hatched."
    Bruce Mowbray: Trying to give it a fair shake.
    Aphrodite Macbain: How have theses religious traditions helped you?
    Bruce Mowbray: I'm going to get to that, Aph.
    Aphrodite Macbain: kk
    Bruce Mowbray: When I was at the seminary,
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Bruce Mowbray: I realized that I was a pantheist.
    Bruce Mowbray: The theology prof. argued with me -- saying I was really a panENtheist.
    Aphrodite Macbain: ??
    Bruce Mowbray: One who believes God is in all physical creation -- and is at the same time transcending it.
    Bruce Mowbray: I said NO.
    Bruce Mowbray: I am not that.
    Bruce Mowbray: Nature, to me, is the only god I know -- relate to...
    Bruce Mowbray: No transcendent divinities.
    Bruce Mowbray: Perhaps they exist...
    Bruce Mowbray: but that's not my business.
    Storm Nordwind chuckles
    Bruce Mowbray: So, to state it briefly....
    Aphrodite Macbain: !
    Bruce Mowbray: The natural order -- cosmos however it is known (and that changes, of course) -- is the ultimate context for my spirituality.
    Bruce Mowbray: OK. On to Aph's question about resources.
    Bruce Mowbray: Mostly, all of this path ---
    Bruce Mowbray: and I affirm that everyone's path is "perfect" -- regardless.
    Bruce Mowbray: My path has helped me become tolerant of differences.
    Bruce Mowbray: I feel I "understand" folks' "need" for spiritual grounding...
    Bruce Mowbray: and I have compassion for that -- HOWEVER it happens.
    Bruce Mowbray: even the extremes. even the radicals.
    Bruce Mowbray: no matter how crazy,
    Bruce Mowbray: there's part of me that resonates with their "need" --
    Bruce Mowbray: and whatever brought them there.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Thanks Bruce
    Bruce Mowbray: Want me to finish?
    Wol Euler: yes please :)
    Bruce Mowbray: kk.

    Wol Euler: hello been, have you been here before?

    Benjamin Greycloak: yip i have been here b4

    Aphrodite Macbain: We just have 15 mins for 2 more people- I'm feeling the pressure of time
    Wol Euler: no pressure, aph
    Bruce Mowbray: kk.
    Bruce Mowbray listens.
    Wol Euler: you are not being judged on how many points we tick off :)
    Storm Nordwind applauds Bruce

    Wol Euler: thank you, bruce

    Aphrodite Macbain smiles warmly at Bruce

    --BELL—

     

     

    Aphrodite Macbain: Kori - how have your religious traditions helped you?
    Korel Laloix: hmmmm
    Korel Laloix: Not sure how to answer this one.
    Wol Euler nods and listens.
    Korel Laloix: I grew up in a militant atheist house with selective inclusions of Tsalagi and Bode' culture and religious practice.
    Korel Laloix: I was really deliberately kept from anything religious... I was 19 when I first entered a religious building in fact.
    Korel Laloix: So I grew up with a very negative opinion of anything or anyone religious.
    Korel Laloix: I am thankful for being a rare person to grow up with an awareness of First American religious concepts though.
    Aphrodite Macbain: nods. Like what Kori?
    Korel Laloix: My aunts are medicine women, so I learned a lot from them.
    Korel Laloix: Ceremonies, traditions, some important concepts and stories.
    Korel Laloix: Hard to wrap in one idea.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Have they helped you?
    Wol Euler nods.
    Korel Laloix: Hard question to answer.
    Aphrodite Macbain: nods
    Aphrodite Macbain: Honest answer
    Aphrodite Macbain: Thanks Korel
    Korel Laloix: Religious atheism is a strange way to look at things... but I have to realize that my mom is an extremely poor way to judge anything.
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Aphrodite Macbain: We each have to decide for ourselves
    Korel Laloix: But my First American upbringing as fragmented as it was... gives me an outsider perspective sometimes.
    Wol Euler: "outside" can be a very useful place to be!
    Aphrodite Macbain: nods
    Korel Laloix: And so lacking certain normal US context is very freeing sometimes.
    Storm Nordwind: Do you see that as an advantage, or does it lead you to feel 'left out'?
    Korel Laloix: Both.
    Storm Nordwind nods
    Korel Laloix: I did not grow up really isolated some in NM or Arizona or Alaska.
    Korel Laloix: But I am pathologically overbearing so I make sure I am never left out... RL at least... smiles
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Storm Nordwind smiles too
    Korel Laloix: So I treasure that most of the time.
    Korel Laloix: I have an ex that very much tried to de-native me....
    Wol Euler raises an eyebrow.
    Storm Nordwind can imagine the scratch marks
    Korel Laloix: And when I figured out what was going on, it was a big revelation to me how important it was to me.
    Korel Laloix: Just odd really.
    Wol Euler: that is worth learning, though
    Wol Euler: must have shown you your history and ideas in a new light
    Aphrodite Macbain: Thanks Korel. We can come back to each of us but I'd like to ask Wol in the last 5 minutes to share anything from her religious tradition that has helped her..
    Wol Euler: no, I'd rather that Korel finished
    Storm Nordwind: Brilliant Korel, thank you!
    Aphrodite Macbain: kk
    Bruce Mowbray: np for me to go over an hour -- I'll send you the log, Aph, if you need to leave.
    Korel Laloix: Anyway... one of the other things that was probably an effect for me was being raised in a house where there were really no senses of morals..... I ended up really figuring out what was self destructive by practical experience.
    Korel Laloix: Very good and very bad memories for sure.
    Bruce Mowbray listens very carefully.

    Korel Laloix: I can stop...sorry for running so long.
    Korel Laloix: OK...
    Wol Euler: don't stop
    Wol Euler: until you are finished :)
    Bruce Mowbray: PLEASE don't stop.
    Aphrodite Macbain: No it is very valuable Korel. Thanks
    Korel Laloix: This could take a while.
    Wol Euler: we have a while
    Bruce Mowbray: Please -- take as long as you wish.
    Korel Laloix: Ok.Thanks.
    Bruce Mowbray: I will send Aph the log.
    Korel Laloix: Have to stir some food though occasionally.
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-)
    Wol Euler chuckles.
    Bruce Mowbray: Yummie wild turkey!
    Aphrodite Macbain: That's Ok Bruce- I was thinking about Bertram etc and concerned about other's schedules
    Wol Euler: oh, right, Sunday :/
    Bruce Mowbray continues to listen, regardless

    Korel Laloix: So then I got to college.. and started taking philosophy classes....
    Korel Laloix: And it struck me how predictable they were...
    Wol Euler nods and listens.
    Aphrodite Macbain: listens too
    Storm Nordwind will have to start the naan at some point but is happy to listen :)
    Korel Laloix: A couple of classes at different universities... all the same thing.
    Korel Laloix: And I was on SL really behaving badly especially toward religions sims... grieving them.
    Storm Nordwind wags his finger... but smiles
    Aphrodite Macbain: grins
    Korel Laloix: And I sort of realized that what I had been told about religion was mostly wrong.
    Bruce Mowbray nods.
    Korel Laloix: And I started thinking for myself.
    Wol Euler nods.
    Aphrodite Macbain: smiles
    Storm Nordwind: yay!
    Bruce Mowbray: [`·.] APPLAUSE!! [.·´]
    Korel Laloix: And the big thing I noticed was that my philosophy professors were group thinking.
    Korel Laloix: But when I went around to the various Christian sims... they could not agree on anything... lol
    --BELL--
    Korel Laloix: Stirring.... brb
    Bruce Mowbray: I shall interject -- while Kori is stirring -
    Bruce Mowbray: that she is making wild turkey. . .
    Storm Nordwind: Philosophy professors... They're supposed to teach you how to think, not what to think. But sadly that's rarely the case.

    Aphrodite Macbain: Yes- to encourage you to ask questions and look for your own answers
    Korel Laloix: Soooo.. then I started dating this Jainist woman 14 years older than me.
    Bruce Mowbray listens.
    Korel Laloix: And I realized first hand that religions people were not stupid, close minded and could be extremely sexy... grins
    Wol Euler grins.
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-)
    Korel Laloix: So I really started looking at all religions...
    Aphrodite Macbain: laughs
    Bruce Mowbray: It's that old PASSION thing!
    Aphrodite Macbain: gets you every time
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-)
    Bruce Mowbray listens.... shuts mouth.
    Korel Laloix: Jain, Islam, Jew, CNA, etc... but not at Christianity really.
    Korel Laloix: Still had my mom's hate in my mind...
    Wol Euler nods.
    Korel Laloix: But...... I got to a really low point.. things fell apart with Celeste for no reason I could find.
    Korel Laloix: I had a job, great grades, sex, cigs...life was great.
    Aphrodite Macbain: cigs!
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Korel Laloix: I smoked way too much.. why I was down around 73 lbs.
    Korel Laloix: And I was out running on the beach in Tampa one evening and there was this guy reading a very old bible on the beach.. so I was curious and started a conversation.
    Korel Laloix: After a while of talking about things he suggested I go to church....
    Korel Laloix: I laughed at him and said... predictably.. I cant do Christianity.. I am a lesbian....lol
    Wol Euler: :)
    Korel Laloix: Soo.. he laughed back at me and gave me a program for the local MCC.
    Korel Laloix: Metropolitan Community Church.
    Bruce Mowbray: I've attended that one!
    Korel Laloix: 97 percent not straight congregation.
    Bruce Mowbray: yeppers.
    Wol Euler: yay :)
    Aphrodite Macbain: things sure have changed since your mother was growing up
    Bruce Mowbray: to say the least!

    Korel Laloix: So.. I went and I can't describe it.. I melted.
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Bruce Mowbray really understands this.
    Korel Laloix: Without evening knowing what was really going on... I surrendered y heart and life to Christ before I left that day.
    Bruce Mowbray: yes.
    Korel Laloix: I can't describe what it did to me...
    Aphrodite Macbain: Nothing like finding a religion when you are an adult
    Korel Laloix: SO how has it helped......?
    Bruce Mowbray: wonderful -- I am so happy for you.
    Korel Laloix: Some of my additictions just melted mostly away.
    Aphrodite Macbain: smiles
    Wol Euler: wonderful.
    Korel Laloix: The hold alcohol and cigs and sex had on me were hit hard.
    Korel Laloix: My understanding of others exploded.
    Aphrodite Macbain: that is amazing. Why?
    Korel Laloix: My ability to forgive was uncovered.
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Bruce Mowbray: ahhhhhh!
    Storm Nordwind smiles
    Aphrodite Macbain: (((Korel))))
    Korel Laloix: Why?... well, this is strange.... one case in point.
    Korel Laloix: I have never been good at accepting thing when people tell me to believe something.
    Korel Laloix: So I always had issues with evolution.....
    Korel Laloix: But believing in God helped me accept things that are virtually impossible.. so I am more open to it now (even though my math mind still thinks it is only remotely scientific)
    Korel Laloix: And my understanding of all religious though is much wider now.
    Korel Laloix: I now respect people of any faith.
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-) ahh, yes, I've been there too!
    Korel Laloix: It is funny though...
    Korel Laloix: Just tell me to stop.
    Wol Euler: don't you dare
    Bruce Mowbray: no no!
    Storm Nordwind chuckles
    Aphrodite Macbain: listens
    Korel Laloix: I really did not understand Christianity... I understood there was the Faith and the Religion.
    Korel Laloix: But I did not realize that part of the religion in terms of morality was actually part of the Faith as well.. meant to help us live better lives.
    Korel Laloix: FOr ourselves and as a community.
    Aphrodite Macbain: nods
    Bruce Mowbray: powerful.
    Korel Laloix: And by the way, my born again date was April Fools day 2007... lol

    Storm Nordwind: Exactly 1 year before the birth of PaB
    Wol Euler: :)
    Bruce Mowbray: heh heh!
    Aphrodite Macbain: lol
    Aphrodite Macbain: It gave you a new morality or it gave you a reason to be moral?
    Korel Laloix: Both.
    Bruce Mowbray: ironies abound.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Nods
    Korel Laloix: So the next semester I went off to Germany for an exchange semester.
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-)
    Korel Laloix: And I still did not understand that Christian morality was both practical and part of the faith.
    Korel Laloix: So I went over there high on life and Him.. but still no real sense of morals....
    Korel Laloix: And wow did I have a good time.
    Bruce Mowbray: fascinating.
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Korel Laloix: I figured it out eventually though.

    Aphrodite Macbain: For me, that morality boils down to what I said at the beginning of the session - “do unto others as you would have them do unto you"
    Korel Laloix: Exactly.
    Bruce Mowbray: ahhh!
    --BELL--
    Aphrodite Macbain: it is common to almost every religion
    Korel Laloix: So now my Faith and my relationship with Him gives me a careful consideration of how I want to treat others.
    Korel Laloix: And how I want to be.
    Korel Laloix: And how I want to work to change this word.
    Korel Laloix: As I have said before, I do a bit of volunteering.
    Korel Laloix: Everything I own can fit in my car.
    Korel Laloix: I take care of my step grandma.
    Korel Laloix: I am trying to forgive my mother.
    Wol Euler nods.
    Korel Laloix: And I am doing a school program to hopefully make the world a better place for us all.
    Korel Laloix: Sorry for being preachy... smiles
    Bruce Mowbray: The "story" of your "path" is an inspiration to me, Kori.
    Korel Laloix: I think that is it.
    Wol Euler applauds!
    Korel Laloix: Sorry for the long wind.
    Wol Euler: thank you so much, korel
    Korel Laloix: Questions?
    Korel Laloix: let me stir.. brb
    Wol Euler: don't apologize, it was worth every second
    Wol Euler: I'm so glad you have told us this
    Bruce Mowbray: indeed.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Yahoo! (does a back flip)

    Korel Laloix: Thank you for listening.
    Wol Euler: my great pleasure :)
    Storm Nordwind is very appreciative
     

    Wol

    Bruce Mowbray now listens for Wol.
    Aphrodite Macbain: Wol what have your religious traditions done to help you in your life?
    Wol Euler: heh, there are so many sub-questions in that
    Wol Euler: I was raised in the spirit but not the practice or the declaration of Protestantism
    Aphrodite Macbain: nice way to put it
    Wol Euler: what's often called the protestant work ethic is strong in me
    Wol Euler: "get up, there's work to be done"
    Wol Euler: where work can mean something as complex and long term as helping in an election campaign
    Wol Euler: or as brief as noticing an old lady hesitating at the foot of an escalator and taking her hand to get her up it
    Wol Euler: (and then taking the parallel one back down again to continue my path)
    Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
    Wol Euler: I think what I get from the PWE is the obligation to help. If you are in a position to help somebody who needs help - and wants it, separate issue :)
    Wol Euler: then you have an absolute and non-debatable obligation to help them
    Aphrodite Macbain: PWE?
    Korel Laloix smiles
    Wol Euler: protestant work ethic
    Bruce Mowbray: Protestant Work Ethic.
    Aphrodite Macbain: right :-)
    Bruce Mowbray: :)
    Storm Nordwind: Pleasing Wol Euler :)
    Wol Euler: my mother was raised catholic and educated in a convent
    Wol Euler: heheheheh
    Wol Euler: I asked her once, fairly recently, why there was not more overt religion in our childhood, she gave to understand that my father didn't welcome it
    Wol Euler: but the spirit was definitely there
    Bruce Mowbray is finding this amazingly familiar.
    Wol Euler: and the words too
    Wol Euler: I realized when I started reading the bible, that I knew all the stories
    Wol Euler: all the psalms and proverbs
    Aphrodite Macbain: interesting - it imbued the culture of your family
    Wol Euler: most of the history
    Wol Euler: absolutely
    Wol Euler: as it imbues *our* western culture absolutely
    Aphrodite Macbain: nods
    Wol Euler: another wonderful thing it gives me is a background knowledge of our High Culture
    Aphrodite Macbain: could you explain?
    Wol Euler: my understanding of art in our tradition
    Wol Euler: the saints and the stories
    Aphrodite Macbain: ah! Familiar territory for me.
    Bruce Mowbray: :)
    Wol Euler: example: I saw a Lego kit, the tiny kits of a single figure with its accessories
    Wol Euler: a soldier in roman garb, on a horse, with a beggar in rags on foot beside him
    Wol Euler: the soldier had a cloak
    Aphrodite Macbain: hmmm
    Wol Euler grins and waits to see who gets it
    Wol Euler: Saint Martin :)
    Wol Euler: anyway
    Storm Nordwind: http://www.thebricktestament.com/ ?
    Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
    Wol Euler laughs.
    Bruce Mowbray recalls St. Martin of the Fields.
    Wol Euler: wonderful, storm, thank you
    Storm Nordwind: Hours of happy reading there :)
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Wol Euler: that tradition is the foundation of my life and my ideas
    Bruce Mowbray: ponders the vitality of narrative.
    Wol Euler: when I *did* start reading the bible, I found myself entranced by Ecclesiastes
    Bruce Mowbray: oh my.
    Wol Euler: that is to me the core of what I value in my tradition
    Bruce Mowbray: the wisdom literature.
    Wol Euler: and was so surprised and pleased to find how much of that resonates in the Tao and in Buddhism and and and and ... :)
    Aphrodite Macbain: Ecclesiastes is beautifully written. A work of great literature.
    Bruce Mowbray: a VERY short book - Ecclesiastes . . . and also sort of pessimistic.
    Wol Euler: oh I disagree absolutely :)
    Wol Euler: it's liberating
    Wol Euler: because if all that is vanity, you don't have to care about it!
    Storm Nordwind nods
    Bruce Mowbray: really? cool! please say more.
    Wol Euler: wow!
    Aphrodite Macbain: I fell in love with my future husband when he quoted Ecclesiastes to me!
    Wol Euler: Ecclesiastes has Buddha nature :)
    Bruce Mowbray: oh yes!
    Aphrodite Macbain: smiles
    Storm Nordwind smiles
    Wol Euler: it maps so well onto what he said about illusion and appearance
    Bruce Mowbray: Yes! I tried to explain this to the Quakers!
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-)
    Bruce Mowbray slaps his typist again.
    Wol Euler: awwww, poor typist
    Bruce Mowbray shuts up and listens.
    Wol Euler: anyway, that is about where I a    m
    --BELL--

    2PM
    Aphrodite Macbain whispers - that was awesome. Thank you. I must go now to another meeting! Hugs all round.

     

    Everybody

    Storm Nordwind: "I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live." - Ecc 3:12 (NIV)
    Bruce Mowbray REALLY REALLY wishes he could have heard Aph's story.
    Wol Euler: we will :)
    Wol Euler: just not tonight
    Bruce Mowbray slaps typist once again.
    Bruce Mowbray: kk.
    Bruce Mowbray: THANK YOU all for sharing these parts of yourselves.
    Wol Euler: I suppose this is by way of saying that the old testament resonates more thoroughly than the new with me
    Wol Euler: though Jesus is a great and significant figure
    Wol Euler: I find myself disagreeing with the evangelists - and don't get me started on Saint Augustine
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-) Oh yeah!
    Korel Laloix smiles
    Korel Laloix: How about Calvin?
    Korel Laloix grins
    Wol Euler: I like the idea of the God of Genesis, who walks in his garden in the cool of the evening and enjoys a good meal with his friends
    Wol Euler: that is a god I can - and do - relate to
    Bruce Mowbray: Indeed!
    Storm Nordwind smiles
    Wol Euler: we have a small-town neighbourly nodding relationship :)
    Storm Nordwind: very much a polytheist view too
    Korel Laloix grins
    Bruce Mowbray nods.
    Korel Laloix: One thing I find interesting is that I don't have issues telling this stuff here, but I don't really tell my "testimony" at church.
    Wol Euler: having been to japans and looked at Shinto in practice, I find a kind of feeling for that too
    Wol Euler: heh, interesting korel.
    Wol Euler: which echoes also in Rumi
    Storm Nordwind: Shinto - veneration of ancestors - also very heathen
    Wol Euler: the idea of everything being full of god
    Wol Euler: there is no "god" outside of it, over there, above
    Wol Euler: this is all god
    Wol Euler: you, me, the keyboard, my cup of tea, that spider
    Bruce Mowbray: yes, that's the basis of my pantheism, Wol.
    Storm Nordwind: nondual
    Storm Nordwind: (like the railway) ;)
    Wol Euler: mmhmm :)
    Bruce Mowbray: We're all here.
    Bruce Mowbray: We're all sharing this reality.
    Wol Euler: it deepens the delight I already and always had in nature, in the simple joy of being alive.
    Bruce Mowbray: We're all having different perceptions of what that means -- and that is wonderful!
    Wol Euler: the feeling of a cool breeze blowing past my face as I sit in the shade of a tree on a sunny day
    Wol Euler: that is god
    Wol Euler: eh, I better stop before I get totally silly
    Bruce Mowbray: AHHH! Thank you for sharing that breeze, Wol!
    Storm Nordwind: But this god, that is all for you Wol... does it have consciousness, intent, will, or is it just neutral?
    Wol Euler: I'm not sure
    Wol Euler: I don't know whether those are even the right kinds of questions to ask about him/it
    Wol Euler: I do NOT believe that he wants us to live in a specific way, other than that bit about helping and being sensible
    Wol Euler: and I certainly don't believe that he wants us to hate others who don't
    Bruce Mowbray: anthropomorphic questions. . . . Perhaps better to ask my dog?
    Korel Laloix: OK.. have to stuff the enchiladas now.. thanks for the chat all.
    Wol Euler: bye korel, bon appetit :)
    Bruce Mowbray: THANK you so much, Kori!!!
    Korel Laloix: Take care.. blessings.
    Storm Nordwind: Let me put it another way... would there be any benefit - or even sense - in praying to such a god?
    Korel Laloix: Donadagohvi
    Storm Nordwind waves
    Wol Euler: let me answer that by quoting Terry Pratchett :)
    Storm Nordwind chuckles
    Bruce Mowbray also chuckles.
    Wol Euler: in "Small Gods" a philosopher is talking about Great A'Tuin, the turtle on whose back stand the four elephants that hold up the world
    Wol Euler: somebody asks whether we should believe in Great A'Tuin
    Bruce Mowbray knows where this is going.
    Wol Euler: philosopher replies "it's true, it doesn't matter whether you believe in it or not"
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-)))))))))
    Bruce Mowbray remembers Wol saying exactly that in Halifax last July.
    Wol Euler: I'm talking myself into a corner here
    Wol Euler: heheheheheh
    Wol Euler: yes, I have a habit of repeating myself
    Storm Nordwind throws Wol a rope
    Bruce Mowbray: no rope needed for Wol./
    Bruce Mowbray: She's doing FINE!
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Bruce Mowbray: ;-)
    Wol Euler: I'm not sure how to answer your question, storm
    Wol Euler: I don't have an answer for that, because I don't know for myself what those terms really mean
    Storm Nordwind: That's OK! :)
    Storm Nordwind: That's the answer
    .
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Bruce Mowbray: Yes!
    Storm Nordwind: I don't use those terms myself, but wanted to know your frame of reference
    Wol Euler: I suppose I would say that god is/has/does equanimity :)
    --BELL--
    Wol Euler: neutral rather than judgmental
    Storm Nordwind: Right.
    Storm Nordwind recalls Heathenry had a very pragmatic viewpoint. Heathens didn't think it useful to talk to gods (or goddesses) that wouldn't answer back!
    Wol Euler: a couple of touchstones
    Bruce Mowbray loves touchstones.
    Wol Euler: the early gods were not omnipresent, they were bound to particular places
    Wol Euler: didn't know what happened behind their backs, as it were
    Wol Euler: I found that fascinating, compared to the abrahamic god who has no back
    Wol Euler: and the Shoah idea that the holocaust happened behind god's back, because Creation was too big for him to see all of it
    Wol Euler: another: the bell at the shinto temple
    Wol Euler: you ring the bell and clap your hands to wake god
    Wol Euler: because he/it should be awake to hear/feel/acknowledge/partake of you
    Wol Euler: well, the abrahamic god would surely burn to a cinder anyone who woke him!
    Storm Nordwind: Nah
    Wol Euler smiles.
    Bruce Mowbray is ready to burn.
    Bruce Mowbray: but not for the god of Abraham...
    Wol Euler: we whisper in church
    Wol Euler: just the opposite of drawing attention to ourselves
    Bruce Mowbray: for the fundamental basis of all of it.
    Bruce Mowbray: if there are turtles that reach that low!
    Wol Euler pauses for thought. Does this make sense?
    Storm Nordwind: yes of course
    Bruce Mowbray: is makes sense better than sense, Wol.
    Wol Euler: thank you :)
    Bruce Mowbray: This is your laboratory of experience . . .
    Bruce Mowbray: and as such, trumps all "sense."
    Bruce Mowbray: and all dogma.
    Bruce Mowbray: I am truly sorry to leave this session.
    Bruce Mowbray: Has been most valuable.
    Storm Nordwind: Dogma is obviated when you can have two-way communication with a god
    Wol Euler: indeed
    Bruce Mowbray: THANK you both!
    Wol Euler: thank you too, Bruce
    Wol Euler: _/!\_
    Bruce Mowbray: Thanks*
    Storm Nordwind: Bye then guys
    Wol Euler: bye bruce, bye storm
    Bruce Mowbray: I bow in respect to you both.
    Wol Euler: thank you, storm, and thank absent Korel and Aph too
    Storm Nordwind: /namaste dear friends
    Wol Euler: take care

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