2013.06.10 19:00 - Night dreams

The Guardian for this meeting was Aphrodite Macbain. The comments are by Aphrodite Macbain.

Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Mari :)
Beautifulmarira Resident: Hello Catrina
Catrinamonblue Resident: Have you been here before ?
Beautifulmarira Resident: yes a few times now thanks :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
--BELL--
Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Aph :)
Aphrodite Macbain: Hi Cat, Hi Mari!
Beautifulmarira Resident: Hello Aph
Aphrodite Macbain: How are you both?
Catrinamonblue Resident: doing well :)
Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
Beautifulmarira Resident: alright mostly
Aphrodite Macbain: good!
Aphrodite Macbain: mostly? which part isn't all right?
Beautifulmarira Resident: just the usual shitty stuff that life throws at ya :) it'll pass and I'll be having fun again
Aphrodite Macbain: good attitude! Change is the only constant
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Aphrodite Macbain: have you been here before Mari?
Beautifulmarira Resident: well nothing lasts forever or as they say :)
Beautifulmarira Resident: yes I have thanks :)
Aphrodite Macbain: is it sunny and warm where you both are?
Aphrodite Macbain: I hope that lasts for a while
Catrinamonblue Resident: Was nice and warm today
Beautifulmarira Resident: cooler here :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: I hung 2 loads of laundry outside today, lovely to smell clean cloths dried in the sun
Beautifulmarira Resident: nice :)
Aphrodite Macbain: nice!
Aphrodite Macbain: I haven't done that for ever
Aphrodite Macbain: Have to make do with a dryer in the basement
Catrinamonblue Resident: I don't have a dryer, haven't had one in over 5 years :)
Beautifulmarira Resident: really?
Aphrodite Macbain: Good for you - better for the environment and the electric bill!
Catrinamonblue Resident: the only thing I miss is warm fluffy towels :)
Aphrodite Macbain: smiles
Aphrodite Macbain: you dream of warm fluffy towels?

Catrinamonblue Resident: laughs yes :) so nice to wrap up in
 

Aphrodite Macbain: the theme for this week is night dreaming - what we dream about

Aphrodite Macbain: Do you have dreams you remember?
Beautifulmarira Resident: dreams....... none that I want to remember
Catrinamonblue Resident: I have some vivid dreams from time to time but not often :)
Aphrodite Macbain: can u remember any?
Catrinamonblue Resident: usually they are about houses :) large rambling old houses that have stranger corners and nooks
Aphrodite Macbain: I had one where I was taken up into the milky way
Beautifulmarira Resident: cool
Catrinamonblue Resident: neat :)
Aphrodite Macbain: they say houses represent our lives- the basement os the past, the top floor being the future
Catrinamonblue Resident: really? That is neat I'm almost always in the attic :)
Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
Aphrodite Macbain: do you find stuff there?
Catrinamonblue Resident: not really stuff just rooms upon rooms and strange twists and turns
Aphrodite Macbain: stuff you have been looking for?
Catrinamonblue Resident: like a maze
Aphrodite Macbain: interesting
Beautifulmarira Resident: maybe you are looking for something?
Aphrodite Macbain: the most frequent "plot" of my dreams is getting lost
Aphrodite Macbain: and looking for "home"
Aphrodite Macbain: missing planes and busses
Catrinamonblue Resident: feeling like you have lost yourself maybe?
Aphrodite Macbain: do you believe that dreams have meaning?
Aphrodite Macbain: or are they just an assemblage of memories?
Catrinamonblue Resident: I don't know, it's not something I have considered very deeply before

--BELL--
Aphrodite Macbain: We have been asked to make a sculpture about our dream(s) Are you making one Cat?
Catrinamonblue Resident: I think that dreams can sometimes be a way for our subconscious to work out problems, but for me my dreams never really seem to be about those kinds of things.
Catrinamonblue Resident: umm I haven't had time to work on it though I do have an egg to work with :)
Aphrodite Macbain: an egg?
Beautifulmarira Resident: egg?
Catrinamonblue Resident: sec
Aphrodite Macbain: a UFO!
Beautifulmarira Resident: umm wow
Aphrodite Macbain: Is that what you are putting your dream in?
Catrinamonblue Resident: anyway that was what Sun handed out on the first day they talked about it :)
Aphrodite Macbain: and will wait for it to hatch?
Catrinamonblue Resident: there is an opening on one side of it :)
Aphrodite Macbain: try and make it transparent and put stuff in it
Catrinamonblue Resident: You'll have to talk to Sun about it more I haven't really gotten into it :)
Aphrodite Macbain: neither have I
Aphrodite Macbain: I was thinking of making something that relates to my space dream
Beautifulmarira Resident: gotta run guys RL calls :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: Bye Mari :)
Aphrodite Macbain: floating in the milky way
Aphrodite Macbain: Byye Mari!
Aphrodite Macbain: Bye
Aphrodite Macbain: connected to mother earth by a silver thread
Catrinamonblue Resident: I like that image Aph :)
Aphrodite Macbain: It was a wonderful dream - influenced, I think, by Shirley MacLean's book, dont fall off the mountain
Aphrodite Macbain: She describes space travel!
Catrinamonblue Resident: have never read that book, will look into it :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Aphrodite Macbain: was written ages ago
Aphrodite Macbain: How are you feeling these days Cat? Putting on some more weight?
Catrinamonblue Resident: no, having a hard time with that
Aphrodite Macbain: why? you dont feel like eating?
Catrinamonblue Resident: I'm eating I am really eating but the stress I'm under is burning calories up at a fantastic rate
Aphrodite Macbain: I wish stress would do that to me!
Aphrodite Macbain: I'm at the pavilion
Catrinamonblue Resident: Dr said I need to eat more calories :) she suggested boost or ensure on top of what I'm eating
Aphrodite Macbain: Hiya Stevenaia
stevenaia Michinaga: waves
Aphrodite Macbain: Boost is supposed to be good
Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Stevenaia :)
stevenaia Michinaga: how is everyone?
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes well she doesn't care which so long as I start to gain weight
Aphrodite Macbain: fair to middlin
stevenaia Michinaga: :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: Doing alright
Aphrodite Macbain: It doesn't sounds like it :-(
stevenaia Michinaga: what is Boost?

Catrinamonblue Resident: other than the weight and the stress I am doing alright and I'm handling both more or less ok
Catrinamonblue Resident: meal replacement
Aphrodite Macbain: in a can
Catrinamonblue Resident: dr is not happy with my underweight condition
Aphrodite Macbain: is it dangerous?

Aphrodite Macbain: the theme for this week is night dreams Stevenaia, as opposed to day dreams
stevenaia Michinaga: grrr, I just remembered I had a dream last night and didn't write it down again
Aphrodite Macbain: do you remember a bit of it?
stevenaia Michinaga: bearly a theme
--BELL--
stevenaia Michinaga: a ghost of an impression
Aphrodite Macbain: barely or bearly?
Aphrodite Macbain: oops
stevenaia Michinaga: it didn't involve bears
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Aphrodite Macbain: I have a friend who had nightmares that involved bears
stevenaia Michinaga: I can't remember the last time I had a nightmare, or if I ever did
stevenaia Michinaga: other than one of those falling dreams that you wake up before you hit the bottom
Aphrodite Macbain: really?you haven't woken up with a start or were lost or were afraid?
stevenaia Michinaga: no
Aphrodite Macbain: yes
Aphrodite Macbain: I dream those on a regular basis. Running and getting lost and meeting people and having long conversations.
Catrinamonblue Resident: the only bad dreams I ever had were ones were I was trying to run away and was moving as slow as molasseses
Aphrodite Macbain: I am told I talk constantly in my sleep
Aphrodite Macbain: I know that dream Cat!
Catrinamonblue Resident: haven't had one of those in many years :)
stevenaia Michinaga: time slows down?
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes, usually it was about my mother
Aphrodite Macbain: you cant reach your goal
Catrinamonblue Resident: trying to get away from her
Aphrodite Macbain: oh! was she chasing you?
Catrinamonblue Resident: not really just I couldn't get away :)
Aphrodite Macbain: trapped..
Aphrodite Macbain: awful
Catrinamonblue Resident: like I said I haven't had those in years now, I have dealt with my feelings toward my mother and let it go
Catrinamonblue Resident: it's past gone, dust in the wind :)
Aphrodite Macbain: Good for you. How did you do that?
Aphrodite Macbain: I use rituals
Catrinamonblue Resident: years of therapy and learning to just let go :) she is as she is and nothing can change that
Catrinamonblue Resident: I can only change me
Aphrodite Macbain: like burning letters
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes that too
Aphrodite Macbain: yes
Aphrodite Macbain: oops. I think Stevenaia crashed
Catrinamonblue Resident: oops Steve poofed hope she didn't crash
Catrinamonblue Resident: snap
Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
Aphrodite Macbain: wb stevenaia
Catrinamonblue Resident: wb :)
stevenaia Michinaga: I clicked the wrong button
Catrinamonblue Resident: lol
Aphrodite Macbain: that red X!
Aphrodite Macbain: we think we are all alike but when we compare things like dreams and temperments, I realized we are all very different from eachother
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes
Aphrodite Macbain: *temperaments
Aphrodite Macbain: I was telling Zen that I can shift from emotion to emotion very quickly - sad, happy, sad, happy
stevenaia Michinaga: shift, like by choice?
Aphrodite Macbain: he said he never does that and stays even all the time. Never very happy or very sad
Aphrodite Macbain: not by choice, no
stevenaia Michinaga: like waves
Aphrodite Macbain: but something can trigger me and poof, I've changed again
stevenaia Michinaga: wow, I can't imagine
Aphrodite Macbain: emotionally volatile
Aphrodite Macbain: really?
Aphrodite Macbain: you have never suddenly been made very sad?
stevenaia Michinaga: I've been sad and happy. but only depressed once
Catrinamonblue Resident: I'm generally very even tempered and only under extreme stress find myself volatile to my emotions
Aphrodite Macbain: depressed being an extreme and lasting version of sad?
Catrinamonblue Resident: depression and I have walked side by side many times over the years
stevenaia Michinaga: depression was as creepie as my depressed friends said it was
Catrinamonblue Resident: depression is a deep dark hole where you feel there is nothing left but death
Aphrodite Macbain: horrible
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes
Catrinamonblue Resident: it is
Catrinamonblue Resident: but
Catrinamonblue Resident: you can come out of it
Aphrodite Macbain: like a gray wet cloud that settles in your heart
Catrinamonblue Resident: you can find the light and happiness agian
--BELL--
Catrinamonblue Resident: You should read the session from earlier today with Eliza, we talked about light. There was some very deep conversation there
Aphrodite Macbain: light?
Aphrodite Macbain: as a metaphor?
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes
Aphrodite Macbain: for?
Catrinamonblue Resident: as in our own inner light :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: finding our happiness
Aphrodite Macbain: interesting
Aphrodite Macbain: during the OF session today we talked about our "base',  our foundation
Aphrodite Macbain: sounds very similar
Catrinamonblue Resident: the soul of who we are
Catrinamonblue Resident: in the core of our being
Aphrodite Macbain: something we can rely on, build from, touch
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes
Aphrodite Macbain: go back to
stevenaia Michinaga: hi Lorel
Aphrodite Macbain: we also discussed how important it is to be able to embody it in some way- through meditation
Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Korel :)
Aphrodite Macbain: Korey!
Aphrodite Macbain: New outfit?

Korel Laloix: Just sorting inventory.
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Aphrodite Macbain: A constant and boring job
Korel Laloix: Not sure where I go this stuff... but probably going to go to the trash.
Catrinamonblue Resident: lol
Aphrodite Macbain: funny how we hold on to things - even when they are digital
Catrinamonblue Resident: I have been cleaning and purging my house :) I'm not one to hold on to much really
Korel Laloix: I don't... smiles.. that is why I curious about how it got in my inventory.
Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
stevenaia Michinaga: harder to trash them than to let them sit there unused
Aphrodite Macbain: it means making a decision
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes
Aphrodite Macbain: letting go of memories and the past
Korel Laloix: From the last session I have been thinking about that point.
Korel Laloix: Are content and emotional memories different?
Aphrodite Macbain: what do you think?
Catrinamonblue Resident: they can be I think but sometimes they are together so hard to differentiate from each other
Korel Laloix: And since I was chemically labotomized with the drugs, is the emotional content of my memories from that time less?
Korel Laloix: Something I am thinking about.
Korel Laloix: Interesting how our brains work or don't.
Aphrodite Macbain: you felt no emotions then?
Korel Laloix: The dose they had me on made me emotionally flat.
Aphrodite Macbain: which was worse?
Catrinamonblue Resident: it may not have been the drugs but just the way in which your mind decided to deal with the stuff going on
Korel Laloix: That is a good point.. maybe.
Aphrodite Macbain: drugs can do that too
Aphrodite Macbain: so do lobotomies
Korel Laloix: Which was worse of what?
Catrinamonblue Resident: the mind is a strange thing where abuse is concerned and each person handles it differently
Aphrodite Macbain: and shock treatment
Aphrodite Macbain: which was worse- feeling nothing or feeling too much?
Korel Laloix: I don't know.
Korel Laloix: Interesting question.
Korel Laloix: I think if I had real emotional memories of my teen years I would be much worse off than I am now.
Aphrodite Macbain: I suppose you always want the other thing
Aphrodite Macbain: I see you have become a doctor Korel...(dressed in doctor's clothes)
Korel Laloix: lol.. right.
Aphrodite Macbain: is this a clue to where you are heading?
Korel Laloix: Actually, vet school is one the list of possible what-next options.
Korel Laloix: on
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Aphrodite Macbain: working with horses by chance?
Korel Laloix: Go figure... smiles.
Korel Laloix: And cows and llamas and alpacas.
Aphrodite Macbain: I wonder what training you would need to be a vet
Korel Laloix: So something I am looking at.
Korel Laloix: There are full vet schools.
--BELL--
Aphrodite Macbain: sounds like something that might fit you well though
Catrinamonblue Resident: must get off to bed :) it's getting late here
Catrinamonblue Resident: night all :)
Aphrodite Macbain: nite Cat.
Aphrodite Macbain: Take good care
Korel Laloix: Take cake
Aphrodite Macbain: Time for me to go too
Korel Laloix: OK.. take care.
stevenaia Michinaga: night Korel
Aphrodite Macbain:wow- look at those roses! (in Stevenaia's dress)
Aphrodite Macbain: fantastic
stevenaia Michinaga: it's spring
Korel Laloix: ciao all.
Aphrodite Macbain: It is!
Aphrodite Macbain: lovely
Aphrodite Macbain: night
Aphrodite Macbain: bye Korel
Korel Laloix: do na da go hv i