The guardian for this session was Bruce Mowbray. The editing and comments are by Bruce Mowbray.
Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Bertram.
Bertram Jacobus: hey folks :-)
Bertram Jacobus: hi santo
Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Santo.
Bertram Jacobus: hey korel
Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Korel.
Santoshima: hello riddle, bruce, bertram, corvi, dari (away), korel
Santoshima: how is everyone?
Bertram Jacobus: here it´s okay. ty santo - and you ? :-)
Santoshima: very well ... enjoying the day ... glad to be here with you
Dash Earthboy: hey y'all
Bruce Mowbray: Enjoying a beautiful Tuesday afternoon, thanks, Santo.
Santoshima: her dash
Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Dash.
Bertram Jacobus: hii dash :-)
Santoshima: hey
Bertram Jacobus: we didn't meet before, right santo ? :-)
Santoshima: you know ... i think that's right, bertram
Santoshima: good to meet you!
Bertram Jacobus: ty. same same :-)
Bertram Jacobus: pab is a big group, luckily ... :-)
Dash Earthboy: Riddle, how was the interview?
Bruce Mowbray: yes, sometimes more than I can keep track of, Bert.
Bertram Jacobus: what kind of interview was that ?
Daryl Taov: hello all :)
Daryl Taov: sorry, was afk ;)
Dash Earthboy: hey Daryl
Bertram Jacobus: hi dari ;-)
Santoshima: hi dari ~
Bruce Mowbray: Hey again, Daryl.
Daryl Taov: hey bruce :)
Bruce Mowbray: Do you prefer Dari or Daryl?
Dash Earthboy: hey Aph
Bruce Mowbray: Hey Aph.
Daryl Taov: dari is fine :)
Bruce Mowbray: OK Thanks! ;-)
Bertram Jacobus: hi aph ! ;-)
Daryl Taov: hey dash, santo :)
Santoshima: hi aph
Aphrodite Macbain: Yey Dash and Bruce and Santo
Aphrodite Macbain: Hi Korel, Riddle, Daryl, Corvu
Aphrodite Macbain: and Bertram
Daryl Taov: hey aph :)
Bertram Jacobus: :-)
Bertram Jacobus: how did you find sl santo ?
Bertram Jacobus: hi zon ... :-)
Santoshima: through a friend who attends PaB
Dash Earthboy: hey Zon
Zon Kwan: helloo
Santoshima: that person invited me
Bertram Jacobus: ah. really good santo - nice ... :-)
Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Zon.
Bertram Jacobus: a hidden person santo ? ;-)
Santoshima: i had not experienced anything of virtual ... worlds
Santoshima: the concept was weird
Bertram Jacobus: wow - and now ... how are your impressions ?
Santoshima: but it's getting to be something a little more familiar
Santoshima: as much as say, email
Bertram Jacobus: many people think about all this without knowing much ... hm
Bertram Jacobus: yeah - i see ... :-)
Santoshima: it's more than that though
Bertram Jacobus: i find it fascinating
Santoshima: multi-dimensional
Bertram Jacobus: oh yes. much mire i find
Dash Earthboy: hey Susan
iwandertoo: waves 2 every 1
Bertram Jacobus: hi iwander :-)
Bruce Mowbray: Hi, Susan.
Santoshima: hi susan
Daryl Taov: hi !=
Dash Earthboy: hey Sam
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain waves at Susan
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain waves at Sam
Bruce Mowbray looks around for Sam.
Bertram Jacobus: hi sam ! :-)
oO0Oo: oO0Oo waves
Bruce Mowbray: OH! Hey, Sam!
Santoshima: waves back at Sam
Corvuscorva Nightfire arrives in spirit as well as body
Corvuscorva Nightfire: virtual body anyway
Santoshima: welcome Corvi!
Corvuscorva Nightfire: hey ya'll!
Bertram Jacobus: hi corvi :-)
Bruce Mowbray: The whole existence of virtual worlds (if they exist at all) brings into question my own "existence."
oO0Oo: :)))
Aphrodite Macbain: I avi therefore I am
Bertram Jacobus: which questions are that bruce ?
Daryl Taov: "too bad world of warcraft ruined my second life"
Bruce Mowbray: [13:08] Santoshima: i had not experienced anything of virtual ... worlds
[13:09] Santoshima: the concept was weir
Santoshima: "weird"
Bruce Mowbray: ;-)
Bruce Mowbray didn't think that "weir" was weird.
Santoshima: :)
Bertram Jacobus: hm - i knew that i wanted to be in sl before i knew it ;-)
Bruce Mowbray ponders virtual spellings.
Bruce Mowbray: Please say more, Bert.
BELL
Bertram Jacobus: i saw that computer techniques would give the possibilities of virtual wnces for us and i hoped to be in it before i die - it r then i had thought - really nice came much fasteorlds and experie
Bertram Jacobus: sry
Bruce Mowbray: np. Bert.
Santoshima: it's good!
Aphrodite Macbain: that was prescient of you Bert
Bertram Jacobus: it developed faster then i had expected it - and my laptop mixes letters up ...
Bertram Jacobus: i find it very clear - because that's what we want : to make nice experiences
Bertram Jacobus: "all people want to be happy and avoid suffering"
Bertram Jacobus: and the computer techniques can give us a lot of that
Bertram Jacobus: the movie AVATAR shows how it will go on
Aphrodite Macbain: and SL has the potential to alleviate suffering do you think, Bert?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: one possibility anyway
Bruce Mowbray: I wish that the "solutions" in the movie AVATAR had not been so violent --- but I needed to suspend my bias about that.
Aphrodite Macbain: Do you think we behave differently in SL ? (apart from flying and TPing)
Santoshima: different from what?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: yes
Aphrodite Macbain: RL
Bruce Mowbray: Good question, Aph -- I don't behave differently in Sl, or at least I don't think that I do.
Bertram Jacobus: oh yes aph i thinks so very much : old people for example or some with disabilities and many more can benefit from it
Corvuscorva Nightfire: being incorporeal has it's advantages
Aphrodite Macbain: but do our personalities change?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: and one may find typing words allows us to speak different thoughts
Bruce Mowbray: I am the same in all worlds.
Bertram Jacobus: but one will be more and more be incorporated in the virtual world in future as well, I'm convinced
Bertram Jacobus: our personalities change always ...
Bruce Mowbray: More embodied?
Zon Kwan: our personality changes every moment
Aphrodite Macbain: I find I speak more (maybe that's not a good thing)
Bertram Jacobus: yes bruce
iwandertoo: nods w/bruce
Santoshima: personality is fluid, and relational
Bertram Jacobus: 5 zon :-)
Aphrodite Macbain: 5?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: I like what Santo said about personality
Bertram Jacobus: ("gimme 5") ;o)
Aphrodite Macbain: :-)
Bruce Mowbray ponders a more embodied avi
Bertram Jacobus: ( alias bingo) :o)
Dash Earthboy: hey Arch
Aphrodite Macbain: here comes one now
Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Arch.
Dash Earthboy: nice of you to drop in :)
Santoshima: howdy arch, brought your angel?
Aphrodite Macbain: nice dropping Arch
Corvuscorva Nightfire: waves
Bruce Mowbray: We'll all be dropping in 3 minutes.
oO0Oo: Heya arch
Dash Earthboy: ?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: so to say "I am the same in sl"
Bruce Mowbray: Sorry, Dash, for the "we" reference.
Dash Earthboy: ty
Corvuscorva Nightfire: I mean...I am the same..but in a new context
Bertram Jacobus: to me sl is rl as well ;-)
Corvuscorva Nightfire: and behave differently
Corvuscorva Nightfire: as I would behave differently
Aphrodite Macbain: yes, so if you behave differently, something has changed
Corvuscorva Nightfire: if you stuck me in spain
Zon Kwan: same but different, yes
Bertram Jacobus: as always : things have similarities and differences ...
Bertram Jacobus: hii wol :-)
Archmage Atlantis: Yes Aph, to behave differently is to change things
iwandertoo: consistent with who you are?
Bertram Jacobus: miss euler ...
Corvuscorva Nightfire: Corvuscorva Nightfire grins at Wol
Wol Euler: hello my invisible dears
Aphrodite Macbain: Hi Wol
Archmage Atlantis: Full circle
Dash Earthboy: hey Wol
oO0Oo: Hiya Wol
Wol Euler: Wol Euler cheers!
Santoshima: hello Wol
Archmage Atlantis: Yet not
Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Wol!
Dash Earthboy: full circle yes
Archmage Atlantis: As the circle extends outside the middle
Archmage Atlantis: there are cushions beyond this fountain
Bertram Jacobus: archie archie ... ;o)
Daryl Taov: being different from what you are in RL can be really interesting too
Archmage Atlantis: oomg, the 12
Corvuscorva Nightfire: smiles at Dari...
Wol Euler listens.
Daryl Taov: exploring how people perceive you
Aphrodite Macbain: There are lots of cushions. Lots of room
Bertram Jacobus: so many possibilities here ! ... :-)
Aphrodite Macbain: Lots of time
Daryl Taov: you are also what people perceive and get back at you
Daryl Taov: like a reflecting skin of pixels
Wol Euler nods to Dari
oO0Oo: *
Daryl Taov: not only, but part
Bertram Jacobus: endlessnesses ... :-)
Daryl Taov: +1 bert :)
Bertram Jacobus: :-)
Archmage Atlantis: infinity, Bert, all is infinite
Aphrodite Macbain: likes the concept of pixel-like skin
Corvuscorva Nightfire: that's a good point, Dari
Corvuscorva Nightfire: that being in sl means we can be ourselves in different forms
Zon Kwan: life is a search of our true self.....
Corvuscorva Nightfire: and see how that changes us in the world
Bertram Jacobus: that's my impression as well arch
Archmage Atlantis: Yes Zon
Wol Euler: Wol Euler nods to Corvi
Bertram Jacobus: life may simply be movement
Aphrodite Macbain: and energy translated into shape
Archmage Atlantis: Brownian motion.....simple, created .....complex
Daryl Taov: well, matter is energy, right ? :)
Bertram Jacobus: matter can be everything, no ?
Archmage Atlantis: A direct answer, Dari....matter is a subset of energy
BELL
oO0Oo: endless possibilities into the drop
Zon Kwan: what's the matter
Archmage Atlantis: Indeed Zon (he says violating the silence)
Daryl Taov: bachelard has an awesome vision of what he calls the difference between formal (figurative) imagination and material (concrete) imagination
Daryl Taov: meaning that to imagine things as textures is more powerful than imagination in forms and patterns
oO0Oo: ;) Arch..
Daryl Taov: Aphrodite Macbain: Bachelard? Please say more Daryl
Daryl Taov: bachelard was a french scientist, poet and semioticist
Daryl Taov: he had a huge impact
Daryl Taov: on everything from dreams to poetry to actual semiotics
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain takes notes
Daryl Taov: he is often found in the psychoanalysis section, like bettelheim, but he s actually much more of a pioneer in the science of the invisible
Archmage Atlantis: 2 days ago, I received an email....the person said my Y genomone had been misread
Aphrodite Macbain: the science of the invisible = quantum theory?
Archmage Atlantis: A question was raised, and the gene lab was asked to respond
Daryl Taov: not really aph
Zon Kwan: o imagine things as textures..what does that mean?
Daryl Taov: more like dreams and the space in between
Daryl Taov: well
Daryl Taov: actually
Daryl Taov: you dream in textures
Zon Kwan: ? in text ?
Aphrodite Macbain: ah. this is interesting. I have never noticed that. I'm not sure if I even dream in colour
Daryl Taov: no, texture, meaning literally, matter
susan & bruce have departed quietly
That is healthy to me
Dash Earthboy: and Bruce is back!
Daryl Taov: yay
Aphrodite Macbain: bruce never really left...
(Bruce's whole computer crashed and needed rebooting.)
Wol Euler: I see the inside of my eyelids with increasing frequency. Goodnight all, I'm just too tired for this.
Archmage Atlantis: That one departs for quiet.....it may not mean one has disengaged
Wol Euler: take care, be pixelly
Santoshima: 'night Wol, sleep tight
Corvuscorva Nightfire: night wol
Dash Earthboy: g'nite Wol
oO0Oo: Night Wol..
Aphrodite Macbain: what do they look like Wol?
Bruce Mowbray apologizes -- The whole computer crashed. . . not just SL.
Aphrodite Macbain: but you're still with us. Yay
Dash Earthboy: *wonders if Riddle is still with us :\
Bertram Jacobus: ara ! ... :-)
Archmage Atlantis: Hello Arabella
Dash Earthboy: hey Arabella
arabella Ella: Hiya!
Corvuscorva Nightfire: waves
Santoshima: hello arabella
Archmage Atlantis: To what do we owe this magical appearance?
Bruce Mowbray: Hey, Ara.
arabella Ella: Hey Bert haven't seen u in years :)
oO0Oo: Hi Arabella. Nice to see you!
Aphrodite Macbain wonders whether anyone is really with us
Dash Earthboy: SL years?
Aphrodite Macbain: GTSY Ara
Bertram Jacobus: to the universe arch
Archmage Atlantis: TL Years, QL years.....infinity at work
Zon Kwan: wonders if we are or just play as being
Bertram Jacobus: same same - looong time ara ! :-)
Corvuscorva Nightfire: Bruce, earlier you said you were the same in sl and rl
Corvuscorva Nightfire: what is the same in the two?
Aphrodite Macbain thanks the universe
Bruce Mowbray: I do not alter my personality in either world.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: but what is it that doesn't alter?
Bruce Mowbray: or at least I am not aware that I do.
Archmage Atlantis: Bruce.......is that truth?
Zon Kwan: i change it everyday
Corvuscorva Nightfire: smiles at Zon
arabella Ella: hallo again :)
Bruce Mowbray: yes, it is the truth, as far as I am able to discern it.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: I know that for me, some things do stay the same
BELL
Aphrodite Macbain: context is everything
Zon Kwan: nods
Archmage Atlantis: Koya says hello to Blub.......She is not an easy tiger to live with.......thinks she is fated
Corvuscorva Nightfire: I totally believe it is truth..but I am very curious about what it means
Bruce Mowbray: Blub waves an affectionate and respectful fin at Koya.
Santoshima: re: personality
Zon Kwan: only thing that remains same is change
Archmage Atlantis: Arethra Franklin R E S P E C T
Santoshima: Sotigui Kouyate The wise man of the stage - African storyteller - Interview
"I come from a culture where nature is very important in a person's life. Your soul is first incarnated in a tree, then in an animal and then in a living human being. Some people are even named after trees. All this means everything in the world is alive. Unfortunately, humans increasingly think they're the only living beings on earth.
In French, you can point to someone and say "there's a person." In several African languages, when you say ''person,'' the word is followed by something that means roughly "the person of the person." That is, each human being comprises many identities, which are in fact other people. Daily life is about discovering all these beings within. This can only happen through meeting other people.
"When you meet another, instead of losing yourself in his eyes, recognize yourself-and perhaps you'll see yourself," the saying goes. Our wise men tell us that ignorance is the worst thing that can happen to anyone, worse than illness or death. And the most ignorant person of all, they say, is someone who has never stepped outside his or her house."
source:
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1310/is_2001_Oct/ai_79560863/
oO0Oo adjusts spectacles
Corvuscorva Nightfire: smiles at Sam
Bruce Mowbray: Kinship with all life, Santo?
Santoshima: ... sorry ... had a rush of online reading ...
Bruce Mowbray: Thanks for sharing it.
Aphrodite Macbain: Yesterday Eos talked about simply being his "schleppy constantly failing self." I wonder where that fits here
Archmage Atlantis: It is our planet, our beginning
Archmage Atlantis: Our is human, ape
Aphrodite Macbain: perhaps we should talk about ever-failing selves
Archmage Atlantis: Our is cat, dog
Zon Kwan: person means originally mask
Archmage Atlantis: our is oyster, lobster
Zon Kwan: through which actors spoke
Bertram Jacobus: sry dear pabers - I'll leave, am tired - may all beings be happy please
Archmage Atlantis: our is all that is created from this dust
oO0Oo: 8!
Dash Earthboy: bye Bert
Corvuscorva Nightfire: sleep well Bertram
oO0Oo: yes Bertram yes
Aphrodite Macbain: I am interested in the concept of seeing myself in another's eyes. I'm not sure what that really means though
arabella Ella: g night Bert lovely to see you!
oO0Oo: Joy be with you
Aphrodite Macbain: Sleep well Bert
Bertram Jacobus: ty all ! :-))
Corvuscorva Nightfire: what is it that interests you in the idea, Aph?
Daryl Taov: bye :)
oO0Oo: Some say losing surety is a good sign
Archmage Atlantis: A song minstrel.......that's u Dash, if you can't see it
Dash Earthboy: :)
Dash Earthboy: lullaby?
Archmage Atlantis: open to a vote
arabella Ella: yes please Dash
Aphrodite Macbain: Seeing myself in someone else. What does that mean? Does that mean that I recognize some of my personality? Or does it just mean my ego is searching for other sympathetic egos?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: or perhaps that you are searching to understand that person better?
Aphrodite Macbain: Just thinking about Santo's quote
Corvuscorva Nightfire: and looking for ways that are easiest?
Aphrodite Macbain: and also still interested in the texture of dreams
arabella Ella: Aph I think if we were to see ourselves from another person's eyes we would end up not even recognising ourselves it would seem to be a totally different person
Zon Kwan: we all are searching ourselves from all things and persons
Aphrodite Macbain: Perhaps Corvu.
Archmage Atlantis: I heard there was a secret chord
Aphrodite Macbain: arabella- that would be very frightening - myself as an alien being
Bruce Mowbray: 'Seeing ourselves as others see us. . . ' is a sort of koan.
Daryl Taov: the way i see it is, to see someone for what (s)he is, one has first to know how to see inside him/her first
Dash Earthboy: :)@Aph
Daryl Taov: you cant project what you don't know
Zon Kwan: but others are ourselves
Daryl Taov: that is the way to work with autistics
Corvuscorva Nightfire: what is, Dari?
Bruce Mowbray loves the notion of no self/other dichotomy.
Daryl Taov: to see their world, and not shape them to yours, you have to understand how to see a world first
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nods.
Archmage Atlantis: Autistics, or artists....Dash?
Aphrodite Macbain: "one has first to know how to see inside him/her first" see inside?
Daryl Taov: yeah, both are close enough ahah
Daryl Taov: or very small children
Aphrodite Macbain: how does one "see inside"?
Daryl Taov: with their own strange psyche
Daryl Taov: like newborn
arabella Ella: I like what you said Dari about not shaping others into what we want them to be
arabella Ella: or to our expectations
Zon Kwan: when i see inside me and don't find any i anywhere
Daryl Taov: there are people who want you to be exactly as you are
Aphrodite Macbain: exactly Zon
Archmage Atlantis: Dari, you stay......not something I expected
Daryl Taov: stay, sorry ?
arabella Ella: would that not be the best attitude Dari?
arabella Ella: people who want us to be just as we are
Daryl Taov: yes
arabella Ella: it would mean so much less conflict in relationships and in life in general
Bruce Mowbray: I experience my "I" as a log that's being passed along from one person to another -- (in the case of self-concept "I", from one moment-memory to another.)
Archmage Atlantis: Conflict is not the enemy
Zon Kwan: nods
Aphrodite Macbain: first they have to know what we are before they want us to stay that way
BELL
Zon Kwan: we want to be same and change others
oO0Oo: This is interesting. It relates to some ideas about experimenting here. i wonder if we asked ourself a question... then let each person in the circle, in turn, give a spontaneous insight answer... what we might find out.
Daryl Taov: i m not sure, aph, maybe it is a tolerance, non judgmental thing first
Dash Earthboy: pax et bonum y'all
Archmage Atlantis: I support Samuo's method
Aphrodite Macbain: I have found people see things in me that are not really there and are disappointed when they find out they aren't
Santoshima: bye dash
arabella Ella: nite Dash!
Daryl Taov: that s what i meant : judgment
Aphrodite Macbain: Bye
Aphrodite Macbain: Bye! dash
Daryl Taov: trying to force a perception on you
Aphrodite Macbain: OK Sam, let's try it
Daryl Taov: but i can try to let you be
Daryl Taov: as you are
arabella Ella: ok Sam ... what's the question?
Daryl Taov: without assuming anything
Corvuscorva Nightfire: I hate when that happens Aph
Zon Kwan: waves
Corvuscorva Nightfire: when people project their own hopes or fears on you...and you can't live up to them
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain smiles at Corvu
Aphrodite Macbain: It happens a lot
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nods.
Archmage Atlantis: Feel uncomfortable and hate are not the same in SE US English
Corvuscorva Nightfire: I bet
oO0Oo: sorry was reading back
Corvuscorva Nightfire: Arch..what are you talking about? I'm confused?
Daryl Taov: not to say it is not happening, just saying some people understand these things and want to move forward
Aphrodite Macbain: no rush
Aphrodite Macbain: 0
oO0Oo: yes.. well we (sorry dash) are awash in projections.. our own and that of others.. It seems to me that none of us holds the full truth in any given moment, but that we all have some meaningful facet of it.
oO0Oo: let's see... question.
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain nods at Daryl
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nicely said, Sam
oO0Oo: I wonder why I judge others?
Daryl Taov: interestingly, SL has this thing with non judgment. since avs are tough to "read" we suspend all judgment until later, sometimes postponed forever
Daryl Taov: the problem with that is friendship
Corvuscorva Nightfire: ah nice
Aphrodite Macbain: Is that the Question Sam?
Archmage Atlantis: I wonder why the women are on the other side than the men
oO0Oo: I wonder if others see sadness or pain behind some attempts at humor I make?
oO0Oo: <__
Archmage Atlantis: In this circle
arabella Ella: interesting Dari about SL and judgments wow
Aphrodite Macbain: <_ =?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: what do you mean the problem is with friendship?
Santoshima: and .... is that the question? ... pain and sadness suffuses the light here
Daryl Taov: well, because you can't judge, sometimes it is tough to make friends, because there is no body communication, or crude one
Daryl Taov: and sometimes you just "see" someone, fleetingly, then this concept evaporates and the avs is someone else
Daryl Taov: who am i trying to make friends with? you, or your avs as a proxy between our souls ?
arabella Ella: or the opposite Dar, there are less RL inhibitions like shyness to keep us back from speaking to random strangers
Daryl Taov: am i loving the messenger or the message ? :)
Daryl Taov: true, ara
Aphrodite Macbain: is this about friendship or snap judgments?
arabella Ella: sometimes i find we even tend to ask more direct questions to our friends here than we may do in RL
Aphrodite Macbain: we?
arabella Ella: but what you say brings to mind the Johari window ... anyone familiar with that?
oO0Oo: (sorry Dash)
Daryl Taov: nope, what is, ara ?
arabella Ella: it is a grid with four spaces
arabella Ella: like a matrix
arabella Ella: my perception about myself
arabella Ella: my perception about what others think of me
arabella Ella: others actual perception of me
oO0Oo: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Johari_window
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain remembers now
arabella Ella: and what others think that I think is their perception of me
arabella Ella: (more or less from memory so maybe some errors)
Aphrodite Macbain: thanks o
Bruce Mowbray: thanks, Sam.
Daryl Taov: amazing
arabella Ella: and i think as Dari said in SL it is all somehow yet once more removed
Daryl Taov: thanks ara
Daryl Taov: here is the window diagram
Daryl Taov: https://secure.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/wiki/File:Johari_Window.PNG
arabella Ella: the avi as intermediary
Aphrodite Macbain: as interpreter
Corvuscorva Nightfire: I feel sometimes like it's clearer
Daryl Taov: yeah, so, then we are in a conceptual place, where we all have facades
Corvuscorva Nightfire: when everyone is beautiful
Bruce Mowbray: so, the avi is but an instrument, like the cell phone or the TV? Somehow, I feel Bruce is more than that.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: so that no one is particularly so
Daryl Taov: totally corvu
Archmage Atlantis: Yes, Bruce is more
Archmage Atlantis: And really obstinate
Daryl Taov: that's where the material imagination of Bachelard comes in, bruce
Bruce Mowbray: thanks, Arch! ;-)
arabella Ella: the avi is an image, a projection, an interface ... and more too
Bruce Mowbray: ha ha!
Bruce Mowbray dies from laughing....
Daryl Taov: the thing is, we have a formal tool, the av
Daryl Taov: and now, to get deeper
Daryl Taov: we need to feel the texture of it
Daryl Taov: what is it made of
Corvuscorva Nightfire dies with Bruce
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nods to Dari
Archmage Atlantis: death is not the end
Aphrodite Macbain tries to figure out the joke again
Bruce Mowbray: Nope, I'm still here.
oO0Oo: open the windows.. to allow more than concepts to speak.. so to speak
Daryl Taov: so, basically
Bruce Mowbray is not sure about his typist, though.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: it's because you are so stubborn, Bruce
Daryl Taov: we are all becoming empaths
Daryl Taov: we can deduce thoughts from pixels
Aphrodite Macbain: Bruce is stubborn?
arabella Ella: arabella Ella nods
Bruce Mowbray: please define "empaths" -- Is that someone who can feel another's feelings through his/her avi?
arabella Ella: (nods to Dari not about Bruce!)
Aphrodite Macbain: Samuo
Archmage Atlantis: Ok, I have a 17 yo cat who thinks my belly is paradise.......really......paradise?......more inconvenient
Bruce Mowbray: No -- Arch is right -- I AM stubborn!
BELL
Daryl Taov: empath towards pixels as carrier of thoughts
Daryl Taov: if an av is the psycho of the player behind
Daryl Taov: the person of the person
Daryl Taov: not psycho, psyche, sorry
Daryl Taov: if the av is the psyche of the player behind
Daryl Taov: then can we touch the person of the person of the person ahahah
Daryl Taov: reflecting pixel skin
arabella Ella: i think there are sometimes moments when we can do so
Archmage Atlantis: I like psycho..more accurate in the "real' world
Daryl Taov: i think so too, ara
Daryl Taov: the more we are inworld the more we develop this new sensibility
arabella Ella: arabella Ella nods
Bruce Mowbray wants to check more deeply into "material imagination of bachelard"
arabella Ella: it takes time and friendship needs to be developed over time too for that sensitivity to develop
Santoshima: yes
Daryl Taov: yes
Archmage Atlantis: Trust is meant to be broken....that is the true test
Corvuscorva Nightfire: what?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: Arch
Corvuscorva Nightfire: that makes no sense to me
Archmage Atlantis: None of us are truly worthy of trust
Corvuscorva Nightfire: okay
arabella Ella: the true test of non-friendship?
Aphrodite Macbain: really it's the words only that we connect with, not the avi his/herself
Corvuscorva Nightfire: that makes sense to me
Bruce Mowbray: agrees with Arch on unworthiness....
arabella Ella: Aph i think we can connect to the person behind the avi
Bruce Mowbray: but willing to take the immersive leap.
Daryl Taov: ah, here is a nice quote
Daryl Taov: "I draw the phrase "material imagination" from Gaston Bachelard, who uses it to describe two intersecting things: firstly, the ways in which the material world is imagined, not just by scientists and engineers, but by everyone, all the time: poets, children, footballers, cultural analysts, cabdrivers, medics and mad Hatters: the "material imagination", then, as the way in which matter is imagined. In an age of conventional skepticism, in which the mind is always, as a Beckett character says, "Be on the alert against itself", the prescribed move to make at this point is to doubt whether one can ever look steadily at anything other than one's own conceptions or categories. But where do these conceptions and categories come from? For there is no way of imagining the nature of the material world which does not draw on and operate in terms of that material world, its spaces, substances, stresses, processes. Imagination is itself always prepossessed by the world that it attempts to imagine,"
Archmage Atlantis: I hesitate to use the word , yet we are all worthy of love, made up, like the gingerbread-man inquiring into the question of his dough, of what it makes out. So the phrase "material imagination" must signify the materiality of imagining as well as the imagination of the material."
Aphrodite Macbain: yes i agree ara, but it's thru their words more than their visual presence
Archmage Atlantis: Even the damn mosquitos
Corvuscorva Nightfire: but I think we infer more than from words in sl
Bruce Mowbray: So, Daryl, the material world (like the SL world) is self-referential.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: we look at people's choices..in a larger context of their other choices
oO0Oo takes off spectacles and rubs red indentations on sides of nose..
oO0Oo: so... how might we find a way to open to these Johari windows.. all orientated around this fountain together as we are?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: just as we do in rl
Bruce Mowbray likes "Be on the alert against itself" -- from the Bachelard quote.
Archmage Atlantis: Sam!
Aphrodite Macbain: perhaps we stop talking and listen
Archmage Atlantis: we are doing it
Bruce Mowbray: wonderful question and challenge, oO0Oo.
Daryl Taov: it's more about how can we feel the imagination without judging it
Bruce Mowbray: another wonderful point, Dari.
Bruce Mowbray: Kiss the joy as it flies without asking too many questions.
oO0Oo nods
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nods
Archmage Atlantis: Good time to say
Aphrodite Macbain nods
Santoshima: some don't think in words, ... words, pictures, sounds, thoughts ... it's all mind stuff, all material / Johari window is a simple tool to begin to understand relationship/relational existence ... er ...
Santoshima: uhm
Corvuscorva Nightfire listens
Santoshima: imo
Archmage Atlantis: Blessings, Namaste....and peace to my friends.
Santoshima: bye arch
Corvuscorva Nightfire: bye Arch
arabella Ella: bye Arch
Aphrodite Macbain: but we are all sitting here reading words
Bruce Mowbray: G'night, Arch. really glad to see you here.
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain waves at Arch
oO0Oo: Bye Arch
Corvuscorva Nightfire: and watching the timing of them, too
Bruce Mowbray realizes that he's immersively waving to an empty space.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: and how we choose to place them against other's words
Aphrodite Macbain smiles at Corvu
Corvuscorva Nightfire: smiles.
Aphrodite Macbain: concrete poetry
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nods.
arabella Ella: well to begin with we definitely have words and language to base our understanding of others on here in SL but there is more too
Corvuscorva Nightfire: more than connotation and denotation
arabella Ella: and trust gets to be built on more than mere words
Corvuscorva Nightfire: say more Ara!
Aphrodite Macbain: But it is the words, the language that we write, record and remember
Bruce Mowbray: Words often are an obstacle to trust, actually.
arabella Ella: there is also action
arabella Ella: and consistency
Daryl Taov: Aph, poetry IS concrete
arabella Ella: and the image counts to a greater or lesser extent depending on individual
Corvuscorva Nightfire: action...like showing up
arabella Ella: yes Corvi
Santoshima: consistency counts for a lot
Corvuscorva Nightfire: or making a recorder for the space
Corvuscorva Nightfire: or making the space
Bruce Mowbray: showing up and being present when you're there.
Aphrodite Macbain: Words don't say it all, I agree, but our means of communicating IS thru words
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nods.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: thinks
Corvuscorva Nightfire: but there is more that we are getting information from, than the words themselves
arabella Ella: moreover we don't only speak, we listen and wait for others to say what they wish with full respect
Aphrodite Macbain: yes? what then Corvu?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: That Riddle has chosen to enter sl with no belongings is information
Bruce Mowbray: agrees with Aph and also with Corvi -- MUCH more than mere words is happening here.
arabella Ella: and we can express compassion for example also with silence
Corvuscorva Nightfire: me points to his Avatar rendering cost as "1"
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nods to Arabella
Corvuscorva Nightfire: good point
Aphrodite Macbain: then, how is this other stuff communicated?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: well, I see Riddle's avatar and the choices he's made
Aphrodite Macbain: Are we discussing some form of mysticism?
Corvuscorva Nightfire: and my own
Corvuscorva Nightfire: not at all!
oO0Oo: point about listening Ara* yes
arabella Ella: no mysticism here
Corvuscorva Nightfire: just that there is more than words to pick information from
Bruce Mowbray: I regard empathetic relationships as mystical, yes, Aph.
arabella Ella: maybe some intuition but not mystic stuff
Aphrodite Macbain: mystic stuff...
Bruce Mowbray probably defines "mystical" differently from others.
Aphrodite Macbain: yes. I think of mystical something that is not defined, something almost uncanny
Aphrodite Macbain: that goes beyond the rational perhaps
Corvuscorva Nightfire: that storm chose to build this pavilion is information
Corvuscorva Nightfire: and I got it not from words
oO0Oo: *"how can we feel the imagination without judging it?"*
Aphrodite Macbain: from images
BELL
Bruce Mowbray: I'm much broader in my definition of it -- Anything that I don't understand is mystical to me - - beginning with my own existence.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: nods.
Daryl Taov: ah, samud, good question
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain smiles at Bruce. Yes.
Daryl Taov: now is the time to talk about practice
Daryl Taov: usually the first path is to work with dreams
Daryl Taov: it is the best place to start
Bruce Mowbray: How can we experience ANYTHING without making judgments of it?
Daryl Taov: by not being aware, bruce
Aphrodite Macbain: can we not enjoy something without judging it?
arabella Ella: we can learn to suspend judgment Bruce. it is a skill that can be learned
Daryl Taov: by releasing meta-cognition
Bruce Mowbray: you mean, "without-thinking"?
Daryl Taov: no, without knowing that we think
Daryl Taov: that is the dream state
Aphrodite Macbain: @arabella agrees
Bruce Mowbray: Hmmmm.
Daryl Taov: experiencing things as they come, not as we perceive them
Bruce Mowbray: Bruce Mowbray likes the phrase "meta-cognition."
Daryl Taov: it is actually a scientific term
Aphrodite Macbain: half knowing
Daryl Taov: how one reacts to his own emotions
Daryl Taov: i m angry, i know i m angry
Bruce Mowbray: Hmmm. Like proprioception....
Daryl Taov: you're just angry
Daryl Taov: in dreams, you don't know
arabella Ella: not judging also comes into the practice of appreciating being
Aphrodite Macbain: by knowing I'm angry, I diffuse my anger and don't judge my anger
Daryl Taov: yes ara, that's what i was saying about suspending any judgment on someone
Daryl Taov: just acknowledging the fact that he is a being
oO0Oo: no strategy.. just experience
Santoshima: ... into the mystery ~ thank you for this generous conversation
Bruce Mowbray: Bye, Santo. Thanks for being here today!
Corvuscorva Nightfire: bye Santo!
Aphrodite Macbain: thank you Santa for your contributions
oO0Oo: Bye Santo
arabella Ella: bye Santo
Santoshima: The Mystery
Van Morrison
Let go into the mystery
Let yourself go
You've got to open up your heart
That's all I know
Trust what I say and do what you're told
Baby, and all your dirt will turn
Into gold
oO0Oo: and your elves
Corvuscorva Nightfire: giggles
Bruce Mowbray: i should probably be going, too. Bear Dog is wondering about our walk.
Corvuscorva Nightfire: bye Bruce!
Daryl Taov: ah, thank you santo, that was the missing word
Daryl Taov: myster
Bruce Mowbray: Thanks to you all. This has been great.
Daryl Taov: y
Daryl Taov: my favorite word :)
Bruce Mowbray: bye for now.
Daryl Taov: bye bruce :) see you soon :)
arabella Ella: I've enjoyed this and would love to stay on but it is nearly midnight here so good night everyone!
Aphrodite Macbain: which word? elves?
arabella Ella: and thanks!
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): bye Ara!
Dari (daryl.taov): Mystery !
Dari (daryl.taov): bye ara :)
Aphrodite Macbain: bye, Arabella. Great to have you with us again
Samúð (oo0oo): Samúð smiles and pretends to not be able to make out which avies are leaving without spectacles on
Samúð (oo0oo): Samúð waves
Second Life: Bruce is Offline
Aphrodite Macbain: Aphrodite Macbain mysteriously tip toes out
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): laughs
Aphrodite Macbain: thru the tupips
Aphrodite Macbain: tulips
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): hehehee
Aphrodite Macbain: !
Samúð (oo0oo): lol
Samúð (oo0oo): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nlaoR5m4L80
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): nice
Dari (daryl.taov): oooh nice
Samúð (oo0oo): Samúð smiles
Second Life: Aphrodite Macbain is Offline
Dari (daryl.taov): i love this girl now
Dari (daryl.taov): lol
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): heehee
BELL
Dari (daryl.taov): i will take my leave now, time for bed :)
Dari (daryl.taov): thank you all :)
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): g'night Dari
Dari (daryl.taov): be safe
Samúð (oo0oo): Samúð smiles .. Joy with you Dari.. Good to see you again
Samúð (oo0oo): rest well
Dari (daryl.taov): :) thank you for the mysteries :)
Dari (daryl.taov): bye now
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): heehee
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): G'night Sam
Corvi (corvuscorva.nightfire): bye Riddle
Samúð (oo0oo): G'night :))
Samúð (oo0oo): Thinking of what Arch said about trust.. and how in a sense.. we are all orphans in the mystery. This one's for you Arch: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7wTLQdT5NU
Aggers (agatha.macbeth): Still here?
Samúð (oo0oo): :)
Aggers (agatha.macbeth): Good, that's sorted that out then
Aggers (agatha.macbeth): Take care
Samúð (oo0oo): :)))
Samúð (oo0oo): Just on my way.. not sure which window to fly through without my spectacles.. nevermind... :))) Cheerio.. and thanks
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