2013.06.08 07:00 - daydreaming weddings

The Guardian for this meeting was Xirana Oximoxi. The comments are by Xirana Oximoxi.

Catrinamonblue Resident: 's current display-name is "Catrinamonblue".
Catrinamonblue Resident: no
Korel Laloix: one sec.
Catrinamonblue Resident: k :)
Korel Laloix: It has some rude parts.. but here is the link.
Korel Laloix: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QK8mJJJvaes
Korel Laloix: Such an annoying song... smiles
Catrinamonblue Resident: listening
Korel Laloix: There is a "clean" version that is just bleeped.
Catrinamonblue Resident: funny :)
Korel Laloix: It is well made I think.
Korel Laloix: I pretty much only jeans from Good Will.
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes it is :) it's pretty cool
Catrinamonblue Resident: my son just came over and is watching it :)
Korel Laloix: It is interesting that I can see your hair.. I have the world undrezed, so I can't even see my own hair.
Korel Laloix: Getting psyched up for GoodWill then?
Catrinamonblue Resident: he grunted and walked off to the kitchen to get food :-)
Korel Laloix: Probably smart... smiles
Catrinamonblue Resident: lol
Korel Laloix: I do need to pick up a couple of things though.. so maybe we will do a shop crawl today.
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
--BELL--
Xirana Oximoxi: 's current display-name is "Xirana".
Catrinamonblue Resident: I like pink but can't wear it
Xirana Oximoxi: hello Kori and Cat
Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Xiri :)
Xirana Oximoxi: hello!! :-)
Xirana Oximoxi: how is the weekend going?
Catrinamonblue Resident: we were just talking about thrift store shopping, which I'll be doing this afternoon with the kids
Catrinamonblue Resident: :-)
Xirana Oximoxi: ah! is this a film?
Xirana Oximoxi: thrift ..means going shopping and saving money?
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes - second hand stores where people have donated old cloths they don't want
Xirana Oximoxi: ok:-) now I understand :-)
Catrinamonblue Resident: sometimes they still have tags attached because people bought them and never wore them :)
Xirana Oximoxi: yes... you can find anything, also here
Korel Laloix: The depressing thing is seeing wedding dresses in there.
Xirana Oximoxi: :-)...why depressing Kori?
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes well marriages take hard work and sometimes not even love is enough to hold them together
Xirana Oximoxi: kori...are you still here?? I see a strange message from the recorder : [07:06] Korel Laloix's PaB Listener: Sorry, an unexpected Internet error occurred: 502
Korel Laloix: Two sides to sad... why someone feels they have to get rid of one.
Korel Laloix: And I guess the other part is that someone would be in such a condition to need to buy one from a thrift shop.
Korel Laloix: I think I am still here.
Korel Laloix: I am just so lagged today.
Catrinamonblue Resident: If I ever needed a wedding gown I'de get it from a thrift shop, so much cheaper than brand new and really you only wear it once so why not?
Xirana Oximoxi: I see what you mean ...but that's not the most important for me ... I mean, where you get the dress
Xirana Oximoxi: I have a lot of lag too... and delay seeing what I type in the chat
Korel Laloix: Just seems to me to be something you would want to control for vibes of... something very personal.
Catrinamonblue Resident: I'm fine today, no lag here at all :)
Xirana Oximoxi: good!! at least one of use is 100% :-)
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: do you think the vibes of a dress can really have that much of an affect Kori?
Korel Laloix: Something like that I think so.
Korel Laloix: My Buckskin has a vibe to it for sure.
Hana Furlough: 's current display-name is "Hana".
Xirana Oximoxi: it can be like a 'daydream' for some women, maybe
Xirana Oximoxi: hello Hana :-)
Hana Furlough: Hello, ladies
Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Hana
Korel Laloix: Heya
Xirana Oximoxi: we are talking about going to buy second hand clothes and wedding dresses ... :)
Hana Furlough: oh nice
Korel Laloix: Had a bit of an eye raiser the other day... noticed Reeba has a copy of Brides Magazine in her truck.... hmmm
Hana Furlough: i bought a second hand sweater earlier this week
Eliza Madrigal: 's current display-name is "Eliza".
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Xirana Oximoxi: how important can be a wedding dress to feel the best on the wedding day..
Korel Laloix: I do need to get a shop or two this weekend.
Xirana Oximoxi: hello Eliza :-)
Eliza Madrigal: Hello :)
Hana Furlough: hello Eliza!
Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Eliza
Korel Laloix: Heya
Eliza Madrigal: someone is getting married?
Korel Laloix: Well, i am not one for dresses... but whenever I do get "married" I do want to have something very memorable and special.
Catrinamonblue Resident: no, Kori thought wedding dresses in thrift stores were a bit sad
Korel Laloix: We were talking about wedding dresses in thrift shops.
--BELL--
szavanna Resident: 's current display-name is "Sunshine".
Eliza Madrigal: I never wore a wedding dress... but I used to have my Meme's and was going to make it into something lovely... work with someone to adapt it
Xirana Oximoxi: hello Sunji :)
szavanna Resident: ty Lizji
Korel Laloix: Heya
Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Sun :)
szavanna Resident: Osiyoooo
Hana Furlough: good morning sunshine
Eliza Madrigal: my daughter (younger) likes to freak me out by sending me pics of her in wedding dresses in Goodwill
szavanna Resident: hi Cat °͜° hi Hana ;)
szavanna Resident: Xiri ❤
Korel Laloix: lol
Hana Furlough: hehe
Korel Laloix: wow.. thanks for that idea.
Eliza Madrigal: haha
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Eliza Madrigal: ah, you mean the adaptation?
Korel Laloix: i am sooo taking my phone shopping today.
Eliza Madrigal: oh..hah
Catrinamonblue Resident: lol
Eliza Madrigal: I didn't think ceremony was very important when I got married but if I could choose again I'd do it
Hana Furlough: i've always thought i really want to go and try on wedding dresses
Korel Laloix: How many heart attacks can I cause with one picture... lmbo
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
szavanna Resident: I got married to Bob Marley's music
Eliza Madrigal smiles
Korel Laloix: Oh cool.
szavanna Resident: °͜°
szavanna Resident: Redemption song
Bleu Oleander: 's current display-name is "Bleu".
szavanna Resident: hehe
Eliza Madrigal: I went to a guns and roses concert after :P
Hana Furlough: lol! really?
Xirana Oximoxi: hello Bleu!
szavanna Resident: really ;p
Bleu Oleander: hi all :)
szavanna Resident:
szavanna Resident: Bleuji ♥
Catrinamonblue Resident: Hi Bleu
Eliza Madrigal: :::rolls eyes:::
szavanna Resident: girl time ;p
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Hana Furlough: hi bleu!
Eliza Madrigal: Hi Bleu :))
Korel Laloix: I am still not sure if I would like a "traditional" church wedding or a traditional tribal wedding.
Korel Laloix: Heya
Catrinamonblue Resident: I never actually had a wedding
Catrinamonblue Resident: we just moved in together
szavanna Resident: tribal tribal!
Catrinamonblue Resident: agree :)
Korel Laloix: Or both.
szavanna Resident: ;))
Eliza Madrigal nods
Eliza Madrigal: tribal with LOTS of hoopla
szavanna Resident: it depends on so many things
Eliza Madrigal: and avatars
Korel Laloix: I don't know, way ahead of the plot at the moment.
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Eliza Madrigal: daydreaming
Hana Furlough: yes
Bleu Oleander: :)
Korel Laloix: But something I have thought of.
szavanna Resident: good music for day dreaming
szavanna Resident: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIs2Xvp9swY
szavanna Resident: °͜°
Korel Laloix: And I do ahve to admit, there is a part of me that loves the idea getting married in a wedding dress....
Eliza Madrigal: me too :) you could do both you know
Korel Laloix: But not a big part.. I think more a tux if I go with a church weding.
Korel Laloix: Oh I know.
Hana Furlough: i really want to get married
Hana Furlough: sigh
Korel Laloix: This whole not being straight things really complicated things you know.
Korel Laloix: I do as well someday.
Xirana Oximoxi: :-)
Eliza Madrigal: :) well I guess the married part is easier to plan once compatible dream guy appears
Eliza Madrigal: or gal, as case may be
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Korel Laloix: We will have to see what the Good Lord has in mind for me... so I am patient.
Hana Furlough: right! that is the key
Korel Laloix: or girl.. smile
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Xirana Oximoxi: hello Uns
Hana Furlough: hi uns
Eliza Madrigal: Hi Uns
Korel Laloix: Heya
Bleu Oleander: hi Uns
Eliza Madrigal: I have a wedding dress in SL... it is red
Eliza Madrigal: :)
szavanna Resident: welcome Uns °͜°
Hana Furlough: nice!
Korel Laloix: ooo.. nice.
Xirana Oximoxi: Uns, have you been here before?...we record our chat and publish it on the website of the group
Uns Mistwalker: thank you all.
Korel Laloix: My ghost AV is in a wedding dress.
Eliza Madrigal: that's a neat avie
Xirana Oximoxi: you must tell me if you agree to it :-)
Korel Laloix: have you seen that one?
szavanna Resident: yes I think Uns have been here before
Uns Mistwalker: Yes, I have been here before.....it is a worthy project, and a lovelysim.
Eliza Madrigal: mhm... sometime last year you wore it
szavanna Resident: °͜°
Eliza Madrigal: high praise Uns, thank you
Korel Laloix: For All Saints Eve.
Xirana Oximoxi: ah, ok:-) thank you, you know about it then :)
szavanna Resident: I got my wedding dress at an african market
szavanna Resident: °͜°
Eliza Madrigal: did you have help Sun?
Korel Laloix: That sounds fun.. what is it like?
Xirana Oximoxi: we are talking about wedding dresses :-)
Uns Mistwalker nods.....let us see how I shall cope!
Hana Furlough: hehe
Xirana Oximoxi: :))
Eliza Madrigal smiles
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Bleu Oleander: lol
Korel Laloix: If I end in a tribal wedding, I think I would love to wear one of my regalias.
Korel Laloix: But the idea of having one specially made for the occation has great appeal as well.
Hana Furlough: yes, that sounds very nice
Korel Laloix: Something else to pass down.
Eliza Madrigal: nice
Korel Laloix: My buckskin, is nice but not wedding nice.
Xirana Oximoxi: in Spain actually getting married is the 'ruin' of the couple :-)
Korel Laloix: But I really do want someone to pass that down to.
Eliza Madrigal: say more Xiri?
Korel Laloix: Why is that?
Xirana Oximoxi: ruin = bankrupcy
Hana Furlough: ahh yes
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes a wedding can cost a lot
Korel Laloix: Sad that is the case.
Eliza Madrigal nods
Xirana Oximoxi: If you want to follow all the rules of the marked about weddings you spend 10 years to pay it....and then maybe you are divorced :-)
Catrinamonblue Resident: it doesn't have to be at all people just have way to high expectations for the day
Korel Laloix: I do not want and expensive event, but I have a feeling I will not have much control of the subject.
Eliza Madrigal: I attended 13 fancy weddings the first few years after getting married myself... only two of those couples were together more than 5 years...
Uns Mistwalker: oh yes. Unfortunately these days. I met a young woman, who married.....had a full-on wedding with 400 guests, divorced within two years. Dad, was NOT happy.
Hana Furlough: yeah, it happens
Eliza Madrigal nods... so for some it just may seem the "next thing to do"
Korel Laloix: That is sad for sure.
Eliza Madrigal: next event
Xirana Oximoxi: yes... not happy end
Eliza Madrigal: so.. lots of hoopla but not buried in it :)
Hana Furlough: right
--BELL--
Korel Laloix: I have been a bridesmaid more times than I want to admit, and I have seen a lot of different sized weddings, and I will say, the best ones were the cheapest. The people make the event for sure.
Catrinamonblue Resident: nods
Korel Laloix: And I have also been in some wedding planning and that is a very painful process for sure.
Hana Furlough: yeah, i really don't want a wedding
Xirana Oximoxi: I am sure you don't need a lot of ' wedding stuff' to have a nice day with family and friends
Korel Laloix: I want some sort of official, public, family and friends cerimony.
Uns Mistwalker: I think....pre-marital counseling is pretty important.....don't know about wedding planning.
Eliza Madrigal: isn't it for the families... so they get to sort of "be bonded" to the other family?
Eliza Madrigal: or is this old fashioned thinking?
Korel Laloix: Some nice pictures on the wall and a nice garment to remember the day with.
Hana Furlough: it is still very much like that here in japan
Xirana Oximoxi: ok Kori... we can also organise your wedding in SL and make a big party :-)
szavanna Resident: my friend from India is getting married
szavanna Resident: its a loooooooong process
Uns Mistwalker: yes, and very formalized.
Korel Laloix: Oh good lord.... lol
Eliza Madrigal: ah Hana... a Japan wedding :) I saw one family taking pictures when I was there... it was amazingly formal and huge
Korel Laloix: I want to be a bit traditional with it as well.. again way ahead of things.
Catrinamonblue Resident: my day dream wedding is at sunrise on a beach just me and my love and a few, very few, close friends
Korel Laloix: But if I did want to "marry" Reeba, I would ask her family first.
Hana Furlough: yes!
Korel Laloix: Not sure how that would go though.. lol..
Korel Laloix: But the beach sounds lovely.
Eliza Madrigal: :) Kori
Xirana Oximoxi: I am in your 'line' Cat :-)
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
szavanna Resident: :)
Korel Laloix: I would like that, but the beaches in Oklahoma are a bit lame.. smiles
szavanna Resident: I think Gandhi did a little ceremony - in the film
Eliza Madrigal: hah
Bleu Oleander: :)
szavanna Resident: with his wife
Catrinamonblue Resident: Prince Edward Island has some amazing beaches :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: red sand
Eliza Madrigal: Kori.... Reba has a ranch... so one idea might be to make things for the wedding that you end up keeping... gazebo or pathways, etc
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Korel Laloix: But it's cold up there...
Korel Laloix: Maybe a baech on the equator somewhre.
Hana Furlough: ooh nice idea, eliza
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Korel Laloix: wo wo wo.. slow down.
Eliza Madrigal signs up to plan event
Korel Laloix: lol
Eliza Madrigal: lol
Hana Furlough: hehe
Korel Laloix: Let's not rush this.. smiles
Xirana Oximoxi: :-)
Korel Laloix: But that does sound like a good idea really.
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Eliza Madrigal: would be sweet to walk out to the structures that were part of the ceremony.. swing near the lake...
Eliza Madrigal sits on hands
Korel Laloix: Those thoughts are lovely to put through you imagination though.. back to day dreaming.
Eliza Madrigal giggles
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Korel Laloix: Taking notes... smiles
Eliza Madrigal: ^^

Uns Mistwalker feels privileged to witness the process of the women present.

Hana Furlough: ha!
Korel Laloix: But it is also interesting, the minute you start talking about a wedding, everyone instantly wants to help.. me included.
Xirana Oximoxi: :)))

Catrinamonblue Resident: wishes all potentail weddings all the happiness there is to find, all the sadness there is to feel and all the strength there is to hold to the centre of life

Korel Laloix: Thank you.. smiles.
Hana Furlough: : )
Xirana Oximoxi: nice wishes Cat :-)
Eliza Madrigal: *
szavanna Resident: °͜°
Korel Laloix: And as I mentioned earlier, I did notice a copy of Brides Magazine in Reeba's truck....
Korel Laloix: So.... ... interesting
Xirana Oximoxi: more realistic somehow
Korel Laloix: Those are good words.
Catrinamonblue Resident: smiles
Eliza Madrigal: what was the Ghandi ritual Sun?
Xirana Oximoxi: what did the magazines mean for you Kori ?
Korel Laloix: I think if more people went in with more realistic expectations, it would be better for all..
Hana Furlough: it's been a real pleasure daydreaming with you ladies and uns
Hana Furlough: i should go to bed
Eliza Madrigal: night Hana :)
Hana Furlough: thank you all and good night!
Bleu Oleander: nite Hana :)
Xirana Oximoxi: thank you Hana...nice nightdreams for you :-)
Catrinamonblue Resident: bye Hana
Uns Mistwalker: may your dreams carry you through the archetypes.
Korel Laloix: Take care... smiles
Hana Furlough: : )
Bleu Oleander: must go also
Bleu Oleander: take care all
Eliza Madrigal: bye Bleu, tc
Bleu Oleander: happy wedding daydreams
Xirana Oximoxi: bye bye Bleu! have a nice weekend! :-)
Catrinamonblue Resident: Bye Bleu
--BELL--
Catrinamonblue Resident: I have been enjoying Sun's daydream music this whole time, lovely music to dream by :)
Korel Laloix: Not sure how many PaB chats have gone down this topic beofre.
Xirana Oximoxi: nice youtube music Sun! ...I mean the one you sent...really relaxing :)
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Eliza Madrigal: don't think many if at all Kori
Xirana Oximoxi: ahhh me too Cat :-)
Eliza Madrigal: :)
Korel Laloix: Reeba used to play the cello, so I am learning to like that a bit.
Eliza Madrigal: oooo
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Korel Laloix: learning to
Korel Laloix: Some of it is interesting, some if really snoozy though.
Eliza Madrigal: there is this film... "truly madly deeply" where the male lead plays a cello playing ghost ...
Korel Laloix: Just not my sort of thing I guess.
Korel Laloix: Interesting, I will check out.. thanks.
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Xirana Oximoxi: I think the topic of wedding dresses was not in the list of PaB topics :-)
Korel Laloix: Might be sometthing Reeba woudl like.
Eliza Madrigal: :) you have to not be distracted by alan rickman's mustache
Korel Laloix: No, not really a regular topic.
Korel Laloix: But a very fun one for sure.
Catrinamonblue Resident: nods
Xirana Oximoxi: yes :-)
Eliza Madrigal: it is... it taps a deep place I think
Catrinamonblue Resident: yes
Eliza Madrigal: something people daydream of their whole lives... families daydream of, etc
Korel Laloix: The chances of me finding a dress to fit me is about zero, but I am gong to look.

Uns Mistwalker: I was waiting to see if anyone would go abstract....for example, the significance of this ritualized presentation of self as bride.

Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
Korel Laloix: We did sort of brush that I guess.
Eliza Madrigal: would love to hear your thoughts on that Uns
Korel Laloix: It is sort of a strange thought set for me.
Korel Laloix: If I get "married" do I want to go into it as the butch-groom, or as another bride?
Korel Laloix: I have asked myself that question before.
Eliza Madrigal: such a puzzle!
Korel Laloix: I have been to weddings taht went both ways.
Uns Mistwalker: It is a presentation of how you see your "meaning", Korei.
Korel Laloix: And I do have to say this up front.. I dno't care if a gay man is very femme.. weddingdressed do not look good on guys... lol
Catrinamonblue Resident: who is me at the very core of being :)
Eliza Madrigal: :))
Korel Laloix: That is the question Uns.
szavanna Resident: sorry was RLing - but back °͜°
Eliza Madrigal considers
Korel Laloix: I am soft butch in a lot of ways... including how I see my self gender wise.
Xirana Oximoxi: wb Sunji :)
Uns Mistwalker: one ends up reflecting on who the wedding is really for....and in what proportions.....family, couple, self, larger community?
Korel Laloix: And I have been the femme in relationships before and thought if it went that direction, I woudl want a dress.
szavanna Resident: merci :)
Catrinamonblue Resident: I have to go :) RL stuff needing to get done
Xirana Oximoxi: de rien :)
Eliza Madrigal: nice to see you Cat
Catrinamonblue Resident: this has been a great conversation thank you all
Uns Mistwalker: (yes Sza....you are a Mercy!)
Uns Mistwalker: (and a welcome one!)
Eliza Madrigal: gorgeous dress
Xirana Oximoxi: bye bye Cat!! take care and see you soon! :-)
Catrinamonblue Resident: :)
szavanna Resident: take care Cat °͜°
Korel Laloix: But not sure in this relationship.. I dont feel a need in this relationshp to realy carve out who is which side.
Uns Mistwalker: goodbye Catrinamon
Korel Laloix: Take care.
Eliza Madrigal: when one has children and will remarry... it changes things too
Eliza Madrigal: I think the ritual becomes even more important
Korel Laloix: But how I want to present myself if I do get married.. or why I want to do it... that is a very good questions Uns.
Uns Mistwalker: Inwhich case, Korel....considerations of community and family gain weight in the decision-making process.
Xirana Oximoxi: in what sense Eliza?
Korel Laloix: Exactly.
Eliza Madrigal: I think about this a lot.. because adults can accept if there is an elopement... not easily...but kids need to be really included
Eliza Madrigal: to feel accepted into the couple
Eliza Madrigal: in a sense
Xirana Oximoxi: ah yes...I understand
Eliza Madrigal: parents too I know.. but some don't have easy relationships with parents
Korel Laloix: I have found a few that I know in plannign second weddings, that they pay very much attention to different priorities.
Eliza Madrigal nods
Uns Mistwalker: Yes, Eliza.....one of the first developmental tasks for newly-weds is drawing the boundaries between "nuclear" and "extended" families.
Korel Laloix: I also realize that weddings are more about families than the people getting married.
Eliza Madrigal: ah, yes exactly
Eliza Madrigal: I don't think I know anyone who had premarital counseling
Korel Laloix: I know a few.
Eliza Madrigal: maybe one couple... Catholic.. but they didn't end up walking down the aisle
Korel Laloix: It is trendy these days.
Eliza Madrigal: interesting
Korel Laloix: Sort of like having a shrink is trendy to some in a strange way.
Uns Mistwalker: There are so many unspoken assumptions the couple has......"in-love," after all, because of the massive amounts of oxytocin....is an altered state of consciousness.
Eliza Madrigal: or maybe everyone is accepting that these things can be really hard :)
Korel Laloix: And I have some very religious peergroups that tend to do that a lot as well.
Eliza Madrigal: yes, Uns!
--BELL--
szavanna Resident: ( tiptoes out to RL for a while )
Eliza Madrigal: (((Sun)))))
szavanna Resident: hugs all enjoy the Saturday :)
Xirana Oximoxi: bye bye Sun! thanks for coming!! take care:)
szavanna Resident: ;))
Korel Laloix: I guess from a cultural point of view, we tend to look at marriage as much about love as a good business/finacial move. Which is sadly why so many Native girls marry of the reservations and out of their tribes.
Eliza Madrigal: interesting to consider too, Kori
Xirana Oximoxi: I will also go now... have a nice weekend and see you soon! :-)
Eliza Madrigal: bye Xiri, hugs and thanks
Korel Laloix: Ciao
Korel Laloix: Thanks for the chats all.
Uns Mistwalker: goodbye Xira...
Eliza Madrigal: thanks Kori... it is interesting to think about... all these things
Korel Laloix: Had some of these thoughts on my heart and mind recently.
Korel Laloix: Good to chat about them here.
Eliza Madrigal nods... hope we help to sort a little
Uns Mistwalker: Yes, this is a very special kind of space.
Korel Laloix: I think the big think I need to do now is just have a frank conversation with Reeba.
Eliza Madrigal: it is wonderful you are in a relationship that lets you dream this way
Korel Laloix: I think so...
Eliza Madrigal: Uns... hope you'll return - thanks for your insights
Korel Laloix: Lots of dream space for sure.
Eliza Madrigal: MMM "dream space"
Korel Laloix: Ciao bella
Korel Laloix: Take care.
Eliza Madrigal: ciao friend
Eliza Madrigal: take care and see you again soon
Eliza Madrigal: bye Uns, you too :)
Eliza Madrigal waves
Uns Mistwalker: goodbey...to all.
Uns Mistwalker: it seems the nectar has been drunk from this blossom.
Korel Laloix: It goes in waves.. people are more chatty or argumentative at times.
Korel Laloix: We do have some really heated discussions from time to time.
Korel Laloix: How many times have you been here Uns?
Uns Mistwalker: Only a few.
Korel Laloix: Been comming here off and on for I think about three years now.
Korel Laloix: Helps me with some English I dont' touch in RL much.
Uns Mistwalker: What I notice about myself in discussions, is that i easily tip into wanting my participation to be valued.
Korel Laloix: And makes me think.. and free therapy... grins
Uns Mistwalker: No? What is your most-used tongue?
Korel Laloix: Tsalagi..
Korel Laloix: Also known as Cherokee.
Korel Laloix: I think most peopel want to be valued.
Uns Mistwalker: Long may it be preserved.
Uns Mistwalker: Of course...most people do....the key is not to seek that from others.
Korel Laloix: And I think this group is pretty good at bringing good comments out of people.
Uns Mistwalker: Yes, beautiful to see how that happens.
Korel Laloix: I am definitely a fringe voice here sometimes.
Uns Mistwalker: ah.... rl call....goodbye.
Korel Laloix: But they do take the time to listen.
Korel Laloix: Ciao
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