2013.07.12 07:00 - Contentment

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    The Guardian for this meeting was Lucinda Lavender. The comments are by Lucinda Lavender. Attending were DR42 and Santoshima.

     

    DR42 Resident: 's current display-name is "Chiff Chaff".
    Lucinda Lavender: good day and nice to see you DR42:)
    Santoshima Resident: 's current display-name is "San".
    Lucinda Lavender: HI Santoshima!
    Lucinda Lavender: I just have the feeling DR42 is away at the moment
    Lucinda Lavender: I arrived a bit late myself...
    --BELL--


    Lucinda Lavender: can you see the nearby chat San?
    Santoshima Resident: hi, yes, just rezzing
    Lucinda Lavender: was just wondering, thanks,...
    Santoshima Resident: was stuck in a blue field, strangely with bruce's fish Blub
    Lucinda Lavender: :))
    Santoshima Resident: how're you both?
    Lucinda Lavender: I am ok, kind of just awake, and trying out a new strategy for my ankle
    Santoshima Resident: to what purpose?
    Santoshima Resident: is your ankle injured?
    Lucinda Lavender: it has been taped:) to give more support i got tendonitus this summer while going up and down a ladder
    Lucinda Lavender: painting
    Lucinda Lavender: I am glad it is not arthritus
    Lucinda Lavender: and now I am getting pt
    Santoshima Resident: yes, sorry about the sore ankle
    Lucinda Lavender: I am learning alot
    Santoshima Resident: we can compare notes perhaps?
    Lucinda Lavender: how about you?
    Lucinda Lavender: sure...
    Santoshima Resident: i'm well, i'd be interested to hear
    Santoshima Resident: more but perhaps in an IM some time?
    Santoshima Resident: morning here: beautiful sunny day
    Lucinda Lavender: sure:)
    Santoshima Resident: have moved to this island
    Santoshima Resident: and am enjoying
    Lucinda Lavender: that sounds exciting!
    Santoshima Resident: hello ChiffChaff. have we met?
    Santoshima Resident: { maybe afk?)
    Lucinda Lavender: I was unaware of Chiffchaff:)
    Santoshima Resident: oh
    Santoshima Resident: doesn't seem to be home ...
    Lucinda Lavender: I see Dr42 but have had the thought that she is afk too
    Santoshima Resident: profile looks familiar
    Santoshima Resident: i don't see any doc42 ... are they at teh pool?
    Santoshima Resident: *the
    Lucinda Lavender: Chiff chaff is showing the name DR42 to my avatar...but the profile is Chiffchaff:)
    Santoshima Resident: hmm
    Lucinda Lavender: yes...she sits between us
    Lucinda Lavender: mysterious
    Santoshima Resident: yes, we have different settings for viewing names
    Lucinda Lavender: ah!
    DR42 Resident: b
    DR42 Resident: Geeting food.
    Lucinda Lavender: HI DR42:)
    Lucinda Lavender: glad to see you...
    Lucinda Lavender: I claimed this session but if anyone else was planning to or has a topic please just say...
    Santoshima Resident: hello Chiff
    Santoshima Resident: have we met before?
    --BELL--


    DR42 Resident: I think so. I have a calling card from when we met before.
    Santoshima Resident: your name has changed?
    Santoshima Resident: i do't recall this current name or avi.
    DR42 Resident: SAorry about the confusion over the class, it was from iTunes U, not Coursera.
    Santoshima Resident: pardon?
    Santoshima Resident: was asking about your avi name
    Santoshima Resident: and appearance
    Santoshima Resident: do you go by another name here?
    DR42 Resident: My name is Dame Marjorie Chardin, but please, call me Maude. All my friends do..
    Santoshima Resident: ah ok
    Santoshima Resident: what are your interests, Maude
    Santoshima Resident: ?
    Santoshima Resident: what brings you to PaB?
    DR42 Resident: My interests? Have you a few days?
    Santoshima Resident: a short version is fine
    Santoshima Resident: what is your interest in PaB?
    DR42 Resident thinking
    Lucinda Lavender: I was wondering if anyone would like to talk about the topic of contentment...
    DR42 Resident: Philosophy, religion, engineering, linguistics, cars, old movies,
    Santoshima Resident: sure, luci
    DR42 Resident: Music, and music.
    Lucinda Lavender: thanks for sharing Dr
    Santoshima Resident: yes, thank you
    DR42 Resident: How about yours?
    Santoshima Resident: lately, container gardening
    Lucinda Lavender: :))
    Santoshima Resident: and learning about US policy on drone strikes
    Lucinda Lavender: I bought two containers yesterday...
    Santoshima Resident: great!
    Santoshima Resident: what will you grow?
    Lucinda Lavender: and am wondering what to put in them
    DR42 Resident: Thai basil
    Lucinda Lavender: I want some flowers but herbs would be good too
    Santoshima Resident: good choice
    Santoshima Resident: mix it up. both!
    Lucinda Lavender: Thai Basil sounds great
    Lucinda Lavender: will look for it
    Lucinda Lavender: I put an olive tree in one container last week
    Lucinda Lavender: hoping for olives
    Santoshima Resident: wow
    Santoshima Resident: how ig are these: container/tree?
    Santoshima Resident: ig = big
    DR42 Resident: In the summer, the deck onthe house is a garden of pots, they move inside for the winter. We have fresh herbs most of the year.
    Lucinda Lavender: i know...the Pac NW is not what you would think of as olive growing territory
    Santoshima Resident: nice
    Santoshima Resident: well, it is a little grey and cold in winter, but otherwise probably ok
    Lucinda Lavender: about 3 feet
    Lucinda Lavender: it was made for this tep
    Santoshima Resident: i've seen a robust olive tree in a pot in vancouver, maybe 5' tall
    Lucinda Lavender: temp
    Lucinda Lavender: wow ok
    DR42 Resident: That is huge. We have a few (trees) that move in and out each year.
    Santoshima Resident: it is on wheels. i think they must put it indoors in the winter
    Lucinda Lavender: nods
    DR42 Resident: a 12' rubber tree.
    --BELL--


    Santoshima Resident: you seasnally wheel that 12' rubber tree?
    Santoshima Resident: seasonally
    DR42 Resident: It's on rollers :)
    Lucinda Lavender: I bet it is heavy
    DR42 Resident: The room right off the deck has arched ceilings. So, it doesn't move far.
    Lucinda Lavender: ah
    DR42 Resident: Are you content? Do you strive for change?
    Lucinda Lavender: I find I do strive for change some...and was thnking that contentment is kind of like happiness...in someways
    Lucinda Lavender: I am up and down...
    Lucinda Lavender: more up than down
    Lucinda Lavender: but I sense that contentment is very enriching
    Lucinda Lavender: it does not happen that often
    DR42 Resident: I guess it depends on what the base of that contentment is.
    Lucinda Lavender: it feels mysterious to me
    Lucinda Lavender: yes...it seems to need a base
    Lucinda Lavender: but when it happens almost of its own accord it seems mysterious
    DR42 Resident: For some, it is the amassing of material possessions, for others, the state of hopelessness. (e.g. not living based on hope.)
    Lucinda Lavender: it was introduced to me in a yoga class...
    Lucinda Lavender: and it is new as a topic to me
    Lucinda Lavender: not living based on hope..feels freeing in a sense
    DR42 Resident: Ah. In western culture, words like "hopelessness" have such a charged meaning.
    Lucinda Lavender: sort of points to the present moment
    Lucinda Lavender: taking off the trappings of achievement
    DR42 Resident: Yes, not living based on hoping to win that megabucks drawing, or getting some big settlement from a court case.
    DR42 Resident: The Bible says "Faith, Hope, and Charity..." I think living with the first two is a false life.
    Lucinda Lavender: I know someone who has an attitude of holding others as able...
    Lucinda Lavender: and since I work in the field of education there is a mood of that around me
    Lucinda Lavender: just a thought
    DR42 Resident: What do you mean by "holding others as able"?
    --BELL--


    Lucinda Lavender: it almost sounds like hope...but I do not know really...just thinking outloud
    Lucinda Lavender: i think it attempts to be an attitude of openess
    Lucinda Lavender: so that those who are unsure in life can go ahead and imagine new possibilities
    DR42 Resident: New possibilities, different than hoping for a change.
    Lucinda Lavender: yes...two different things:) nice to see that...
    Santoshima Resident: that mood and basic feeling about others ... what effect does it have, do you think? Luci?
    Lucinda Lavender: it inspires perhaps and encourages
    Santoshima Resident: and ChiffChaff?
    Lucinda Lavender: I can imagine that it is also used to suggest others not give up
    DR42 Resident: Not giving up conflicts with living inthe moment.
    Lucinda Lavender: sort of seems so...
    DR42 Resident: Accepting one's situation, and not hoping for change is a pillar of contentment.
    Santoshima Resident: pillar?
    DR42 Resident: When you can base your life on hopelessness, then you find contentment sneaking in the back door.
    Lucinda Lavender: perhaps it is used let go of doubt as to the outcome surrounding others
    DR42 Resident: Yes, pillar. Contentment irests on a foundation of many aspects, hopelessness is but one of the supports.
    Santoshima Resident: are you speaking from experience, Chiff?
    Santoshima Resident: care to give an example from your own experience?
    DR42 Resident: Mostly. I was a person who, in my much younger days, thought conenment was reached thru material psoetions.
    DR42 Resident: possessions.
    DR42 Resident: My fingers are a bit slow today. :(
    Santoshima Resident: NP
    Santoshima Resident: *NP
    Lucinda Lavender: :)
    Lucinda Lavender: I will have to go soon...
    Santoshima Resident: me too
    Lucinda Lavender: I have enjoyed this ...
    Santoshima Resident: now, really
    Santoshima Resident: thank you for this talk
    Santoshima Resident: good to see you both
    Lucinda Lavender: thank you for being here all:)
    DR42 Resident: Yes, it is rare that these chats got for 1 1/2 hours.
    DR42 Resident: *go
    Lucinda Lavender: so much to think about
    DR42 Resident: have a wonderful and safe day.
    Santoshima Resident: we are all typing slowly slowly ... great day, gals
    Santoshima Resident: bfn
    Lucinda Lavender: and may contentment reveal itself to you
    DR42 Resident: :)

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