2011.10.04 07:00 - feeling loss of habituallity

 

Riddle Sideways: You're here early

Riddle Sideways: before the tuesday restart :)

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): hehe :)

 

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): ur a bit older and propably more experienced and used to travelling and possible even contemplation, i wonder have you been excited last week ?

Riddle Sideways: there were many excitment points last week

Riddle Sideways: some light moments too

Riddle Sideways: some chit-chat and 6 ppl on laptops in same room
 

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): somehow i always think about habituallity and how to get a perspecitve on these things for myself and how others handle that

Riddle Sideways: older=yes, more traveled=yes, experience=maybe

Riddle Sideways: habituality, hmmmm

Riddle Sideways: one of the first topics was traditions, rituals

Riddle Sideways: after having shown all around and placed them

Riddle Sideways: maybe that is the setting up of new habit areas

Riddle Sideways: mapped onto old habits

Riddle Sideways: old habituals need to quickly map to new opportunities

Riddle Sideways: e.g. where the tea cups are kept
 

Riddle Sideways: your tea cup is still growing

Riddle Sideways: a light cup

Lucinda Lavender: :)hmmm

Riddle Sideways: trouble sitting

Lucinda Lavender: yes

Lucinda Lavender: takes time these days to get the view right so that I can do it

Lucinda Lavender: anyway godd morning:)

Lucinda Lavender: good
 

Riddle Sideways: Yak was musing over traveling and being out of habituality

Riddle Sideways: a week in a new surround

Lucinda Lavender: creates a shift of view that is for sure for me

Riddle Sideways: personally had no problem because Luci made it so welcoming

Lucinda Lavender: :))

Lucinda Lavender: so glad to have the experience

Lucinda Lavender: I came home and my cats have been growling at each other...and a mouse is being chased around...finds places to hide in the kitchen at the edge of a cabinet

Lucinda Lavender: never have had a mouse in the house...

Lucinda Lavender: as the cats were chasing it last night it made noises..."Eek"

Riddle Sideways: cats are distracted by each other rather then paying attention to mouse

Lucinda Lavender: well I just noticed a new territoriaity

Lucinda Lavender: and then last night the mouse was part of the story

Lucinda Lavender: mouse in the house...while I was watching"House"!

Lucinda Lavender: Haha

Riddle Sideways: territory of kitchen and mouse is still disputed (no-cat zone)

Lucinda Lavender: ah!

Riddle Sideways: a few years ago the kitties brought a mouse into kitchen to play with

Lucinda Lavender: ah...that is what I think happened here...

Riddle Sideways: it ran behind the refrig and got caught in the fan

Riddle Sideways: stopped the fan

Lucinda Lavender: yikes

Riddle Sideways: burned up the heat pump

Lucinda Lavender: oh my gosh

Riddle Sideways: we got to buy a new refrigarator

Lucinda Lavender: :))

Riddle Sideways: what makes us stick in our habits so tightly?

Riddle Sideways: that a new adventure (or new refrig) is bothersome

Lucinda Lavender: nodding...Had to buy one during a heat wave once...

Riddle Sideways: ah, dead frozen food

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): fellings of insecurity can hold back, or the unablity to reflect upon made experiences is partially something i complain about to myself and use or abuse it as an excuse

Lucinda Lavender: brb...chicken opening...

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): the last year was pretty much ok, but old habits are still around

Riddle Sideways: good

Riddle Sideways: can you say more about "unablity to reflect upon made experiences"?

Riddle Sideways: not understanding that

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): well partially because i don´t have ppl whom are related to a set of experiences that i find bothersome

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): an example would be secondlife in itself, i have only 2 ppl in real life whom even use secondlife

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): so i can´t really talk about experiences or i feel in the way that i can´t talk about experiences i make in this virtual world in real life

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): or i don´t know anyone who is avalible for a quick rl chat to talk about contemplative subjects either

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): to wo might be able to bring structure in ones aproach

 

Riddle Sideways: oh dear, Region Restart just as the topic was getting really good

Lucinda Lavender: I better go...Luci is thinking that afater the retreats one has new realness feeling about2L

Lucinda Lavender: after

Lucinda Lavender: more discuss will come from that...

Yaku (yakuzza.lethecus): yes, i felt the same after being to those 2 retreats last year

Riddle Sideways: you can always chat about in here tho

Lucinda Lavender: we do continue to explore and with even more vitality

Lucinda Lavender: or so it seems to me

Lucinda Lavender: good maintainence to you all:)

druth Vlodovic: have fun luci

Riddle Sideways: this region is about to restart

Lucinda Lavender: :::) yes...

Riddle Sideways: nice to meet you

druth Vlodovic: we're waiting to see what happens when the world ends

Master Adamski: mee to

Riddle Sideways: do come back soon for we have not met?