2009.01.11 01:00 - Speaking about love

Fael Illyar: Hi Moon :)
Moon Fargis: hi fael hi star
Stargate Tone: hi Moon
Stargate Tone: hi Fael
Fael Illyar: Hi Susi :)
Moon Fargis: hi susi:)
Stargate Tone: Hi Fael, Moon, Star
Moon Fargis: oh
Moon Fargis: wrong one :)
Susi Alcott: ty Moon
Moon Fargis: ☻° "Everyone Loves Cookies!" ° ☻
Moon Fargis: ♫ * "Lots and Lots of Cookies!"* ♫
Moon Fargis: ☻ * "Oh, Everyone Loves Cookies!" * ☻
Moon Fargis: * ♥ "It's Cookies that We Love!!" ♥ *
Fael Illyar: cookies :)
Moon Fargis: Cookies!
Stargate Tone: ty Moon
Susi Alcott: brb
Moon Fargis: hmm
Moon Fargis: wb susi
Fael Illyar: wb Susi :)
Susi Alcott: ty
Moon Fargis: ^_^ *Nahm Nahm Nahm!* ^_^
Susi Alcott: did I interrupt something ?
Fael Illyar: no :)
Susi Alcott: Fael like's cows ?
Fael Illyar: well, this one looks funny :)
Moon Fargis: just when the cow dances:)
Fael Illyar: plus it can dance
Susi Alcott: yes
Fael Illyar: and moo
Moon Fargis purrrrrrsssssssss
Fael Illyar: Well, enough inanity for me :P
Moon Fargis: haha
Susi Alcott: it's ment for anybody to ask any topic here in the meetings ?
Moon Fargis: yep
Susi Alcott: dont know if there's been, but I have not been present if the topic has been love
Susi Alcott: but it's been mentioned many times
Fael Illyar: it doesn't matter if it's the same topic. It'll be talked about :)
Susi Alcott: yet not been a topic that I'de know
Fael Illyar: that is, if someone has something to say :)
Moon Fargis: hmm love... what kind of love?
Susi Alcott: good question
Susi Alcott: I know only one kind of
Fael Illyar: I think the topic tends to be avoided because there is so much ambiguity over what people mean or understand with the word.
Fael Illyar: or if it is talked about, different words are used.
Susi Alcott: agree
Moon Fargis: yes, for me there are different levels of love
Moon Fargis: love to a brother/sister, love to a pet, love to a friend, love to a beloved being, love that endures forever
Susi Alcott: ...there is this one book, to which I change the text adding one word
Moon Fargis: ah and a special one
Moon Fargis: love for candy
Susi Alcott: lol
Fael Illyar smiles.
Susi Alcott: the first text was this; "You do not know anything about love"
Susi Alcott: I felt must to add the word 'maybe'
Moon Fargis: hmhm
Moon Fargis: love is difficoult
Moon Fargis: when it comes to a special pont it can be hurting
Moon Fargis: and create suffering
Moon Fargis: like pepper in the soup
Susi Alcott: and that is why the first text said so
Fael Illyar: no, love doesn't do that. Other things do.
Susi Alcott: agree with that
Fael Illyar: other things that are about love but not love.
Fael Illyar: like beliefs about love.
Susi Alcott: there are many different cultures and religions which tells what kind of 'thing' love is
Moon Fargis: hmm
Susi Alcott: the best 'description' what I know is how love is told to be able to 'take' anything
Moon Fargis: well i think i dont understand enought of it so it seems
Susi Alcott: that love do forgive everything
Susi Alcott: and never even asks anything
Susi Alcott: yet; I dont know that I'de ever read how I think I know that love is
Susi Alcott: meaning imo
Susi Alcott: in SL it's happen that I've run into the same kind of situation
Susi Alcott: when people have been speaking about peace
Susi Alcott: but I have not felt peace, but love
Susi Alcott: in RL I have heared the word balance to been used in the same kind of situaton
Moon Fargis: hmm peace... i think true peace is something that is stable
Susi Alcott: is't love stabil ?
Moon Fargis: in sl they would more mean peacefully
Fael Illyar: Love isn't?
Susi Alcott: ah; it is not because it do grow :)*
Moon Fargis: hmm when i look at the count of divorces already her in germany... i begin to doubt
Susi Alcott: love is not enough to marriage
Fael Illyar: look at yourself, not others.
Susi Alcott: love is not enough to human life either, but without there is no life
Moon Fargis: hmhm
Fael Illyar: yes, without love, life would crush us in no time.
Susi Alcott: for some reasons I have lately been thinking much of Elvis Presley
Moon Fargis: ah?
Susi Alcott: he felt and shared pure love on the stage
Fael Illyar: My stepfather used to play his songs all day some years back.
Susi Alcott: so he must have felt it too
Susi Alcott: maybe he missed to 'hear' love
Susi Alcott: love that came through Elivis' voice only growed
Moon Fargis purrrrrrsssssssss
Moon Fargis: maybe also a purrrr can deliver love then
Moon Fargis: *giggles*
Susi Alcott: yes
Fael Illyar: Yes, it can :)
Susi Alcott: everything said, sand or written with love can deliver love
Susi Alcott: sang
Susi Alcott: touch can deliver love
Susi Alcott: thoughts can deliver love
Susi Alcott: a movement can deliver love
Susi Alcott: not to mention all kind of loving activity
Susi Alcott: but many people act based on belief of love
Susi Alcott: and such behavier hurts when there is something else but love 'involved'
Moon Fargis: what elsE?
Susi Alcott: that 'something' may be even the will to help
Susi Alcott: in case that will is stronger than love there is
Susi Alcott: also that can create the state that the person do forget the love itselt
Susi Alcott: itself
Susi Alcott: pls notice that I say 'can'
Susi Alcott: it happenes if one's ego is strong and the will within one is more strong than love on the moment of the help needed behavier
Moon Fargis: hmhm i see
Susi Alcott: not to mention if there is the need to be urgent
Moon Fargis: hmms i feel a bit foggy around my mind atm
Moon Fargis: might be the mate tea i am drinking
Fael Illyar: Hi Tarmel :)
Moon Fargis: hi ^^/
Susi Alcott: hi Tarmel
Tarmel Udimo: hi folks
Tarmel Udimo: hi moon
Tarmel Udimo: I've been locked out of Sl for a while
Moon Fargis: hmhm
Susi Alcott: nice to see you again
Fael Illyar: SL having problems again?
Tarmel Udimo: must be my server
Tarmel Udimo: hi susi
Moon Fargis: then eat a cookie
Tarmel Udimo: thanks moon
Moon Fargis: ☻° "Everyone Loves Cookies!" ° ☻
Fael Illyar: sometimes helps for logging in to login to another sim than normally
Moon Fargis: ♫ * "Lots and Lots of Cookies!"* ♫
Moon Fargis: ☻ * "Oh, Everyone Loves Cookies!" * ☻
Moon Fargis: * ♥ "It's Cookies that We Love!!" ♥ *
Tarmel Udimo: how do you do that?
Tarmel Udimo: btw hi fael long time no see...
Tarmel Udimo: byb
Fael Illyar: Yes, Tarmel, it's been a while :)
Moon Fargis: ^_^ *Nahm Nahm Nahm!* ^_^
Moon Fargis: we talked about love tamrel
Fael Illyar: How have you been Tarmel?
Moon Fargis: *meow meow*
Susi Alcott: I must go again
Fael Illyar waves 'See you later Susi.'
Moon Fargis: see you ^^/
Susi Alcott: _/!\_
Moon Fargis: aaahmm seems tamrel is away *giggles*
Fael Illyar: yes, she said byb a moment ago
Fael Illyar: I guess that was supposed to be brb
Tarmel Udimo: hello I'm back
Moon Fargis: i have to logout.. feeling
Moon Fargis: Welcome back!
Moon Fargis: feeling dizzy
Tarmel Udimo: ty
Tarmel Udimo: moon's sitting with me
Fael Illyar: Oh, ok, see you later Moon :)
Fael Illyar: try to get some rest.
Tarmel Udimo: is moon leaving?
Tarmel Udimo: ohhhhh
Tarmel Udimo: bye
Tarmel Udimo: what's wrong with moon?
Fael Illyar: Nothing really serious I think.
Tarmel Udimo: and how have you been?
Fael Illyar: I've had a bad flu that's starting to be over.
Fael Illyar: I have energy to spend some time in SL too now.
Tarmel Udimo: sorry to hear you have been sick
Fael Illyar: although, I'm still retiring earlier than usual.
Tarmel Udimo: yes nothing like a good sleep
Tarmel Udimo: I had a fabulous massage the other day
Fael Illyar: Ah, that's nice :)
Tarmel Udimo: meant I have been having good sleeps
Fael Illyar: Yes, good sleep helps quite a bit.
Tarmel Udimo: was it a gd PaB session?
Fael Illyar: sort of :)
Fael Illyar: well, it's still going in a way. autologger is still recording.
Tarmel Udimo: oh yeah
Fael Illyar: I was thinking I'd give Moon a link to the autologger version after we leave.
Tarmel Udimo: but we can stop it at any time?
Fael Illyar: sure
Tarmel Udimo: was moon Guardian
Fael Illyar: yep
Fael Illyar: Sunday 1AM has been Moon's session since when I first joined PaB
Tarmel Udimo: ahhh and you have been friends ever since :-)
Fael Illyar: pretty much, yes :)
Tarmel Udimo: is moon male or female?
Fael Illyar: You know, it's against SL ToS if I answer, strictly speaking ... unless you're asking for AV gender.
Tarmel Udimo: that's okay I can ask myself
Tarmel Udimo: I assumed male
Tarmel Udimo: but the teddy AV could be either
Fael Illyar: true, Moon uses quite a few AVs though
Tarmel Udimo: yes
Tarmel Udimo: I'll have to get a few myself
Fael Illyar: but no female AVs in the mix :)
Tarmel Udimo: don't I look like a girl?
Fael Illyar: I mean Moon
Tarmel Udimo: ahhh
Tarmel Udimo: so how do you log into another sim?
Tarmel Udimo: you mean tp?
Fael Illyar: you might first have to activate the selector to show in the login screen from the preferences.
Fael Illyar: Once it shows, you can just type in a name for the region to log in to.
Fael Illyar: it's not tp, strictly speaking. that chooses the sim you'll appear into when you log in
Fael Illyar: tp would kind of require you to be logged in :)
Tarmel Udimo: so how can you see preferences without being logged in?
Fael Illyar: oh, there's a button for that.
Tarmel Udimo: yes?
Fael Illyar: or if no button, it's in the menus
Fael Illyar: on the login screen
Fael Illyar: brb
Tarmel Udimo: oh
Tarmel Udimo: okay
Tarmel Udimo: my av keeps tping even after i have stopped
Fael Illyar: back
Tarmel Udimo: wb
Fael Illyar: keeps tping?
Tarmel Udimo: typing
Tarmel Udimo: its been jittery all day
Fael Illyar: ah yes, that happens sometimes and usually when you see it, it's just for you.
Fael Illyar: equally, if it happens for someone else that you keep typing even when not, it's usually just for that one person.
Tarmel Udimo: okay
Fael Illyar: in the preferences, general, you can choose a start location, where you log in by default. and below that is a checkbox "show start location on Login Screen" If it's checked, you can easily change that every login without opening preferences.
Tarmel Udimo: thanks
Tarmel Udimo: did you have a good holiday?
Fael Illyar: Mostly yes, even if most of the time was spent having a flu and sleeping most of the time :)
Fael Illyar: Strangely, I found even that kind of enjoyable this time.
Tarmel Udimo: yes its nice to be forced to lie still and sleep and think and rest
Tarmel Udimo: and just be
Fael Illyar: Yes, that's pretty much the effect :)
Tarmel Udimo: I spent about a week at a friend's house and just hung around and had lost to eat and read a book and went to the beach -
Tarmel Udimo: for the first time in a long time I felt like I actually has a holiday a rest
Tarmel Udimo: *lots
Tarmel Udimo: wol's back
Fael Illyar: Yes, I saw her online yesterday :)
Tarmel Udimo: well i'm off to have a lie down and read my book
Fael Illyar: Sure, see you later :)
Fael Illyar: It was nice to see you again :)
Tarmel Udimo: yes like wise
Tarmel Udimo: see you at Pab
Fael Illyar: You too :)