2011.02.05 01:00 - Children, and names, and selves

Wol Euler was guardian for this session.

Wol Euler: good morning cosmic
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Hiya Wol ;)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Good Morning ;)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: how Are You?
Wol Euler: prety well, thanks, and yourself?
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: okey, I guess ;)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: hehe
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: having cup of tea
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: saturday, resting
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I planned if going to skiing with kids today
Wol Euler: cool
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I wish sun would start to shine
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: its good weather, minus 10 celsius
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: not too cold
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and place where I planned, there is place for fire too
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: thought to take with hot chocolate cacao, and sausages also
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and make a fire there
Wol Euler: that sounds lovely.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: relaxing
Wol Euler smiles.
Wol Euler: that sounds like a wonderful way to spend a day
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yes, and this place is quite nearby, only 10 km drive
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and there is ups and downs, forest
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: trees
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: good environment
Wol Euler nods
Wol Euler: a great plan!
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yeah ;)
Wol Euler: I wish I could go along.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: hmm, maby You are with us ;)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: or I am sure You are
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: already there
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: smiling
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: sometimes travelling throught people's telling
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;)
Wol Euler smiles.
Wol Euler: yes, hearing your description and visualizing the scene changed my mood!
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: smiles too ;)))
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yes, its very nice place
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and at the same place at summers
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: there is a spring water place to swim
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: its quite big so that there is room to swim very well
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and there is done also some equipments for kids so that they can be like Tarzan
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and jump on water
Wol Euler: heheheheh
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I do not find words on english but
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: nice things
Wol Euler smiles and nods.
Wol Euler: that really sounds like a lovely day out.
Wol Euler: I hope you have good weather for it.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: at the moment its raining more snow
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Tomorrow is another free day also,
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: can go there tomorrow too
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Both days
Wol Euler: :)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: People is inside much at winters
Wol Euler refuses to think about what she'll be doing the next two days
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and when it comes a bit more "warm" then its possibility to go out
Wol Euler: yeah, it's a real problem. My father was stuck in my sister's house for over a week at christmas, he couldn't go out because of the cold
Wol Euler: he got very cranky :)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: lol
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: outside makes good to everyone and fresh air
Wol Euler: mmhmm
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: gives energy
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I feel geting tired
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: if not possible to go outside to play
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: or ski
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: or skating
Wol Euler: yes, it's true
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and when being eaven only one hour for walk outside
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: in winter sun shine
Wol Euler nods
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: feels like a different lady
Wol Euler: it really doesn't take much.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: One of boys have been visiting with his friend over night
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I think he is coming home after one and half an hour
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and then going outside
Wol Euler: :)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: it seems to be like a fashion with kids this over night time visiting
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: lol
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;D
Wol Euler: we didn't do that as much, I don't know if modern Canadian (or German) kids do it more often
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Here in Finland I think they do that

--BELL--

Cosmicflower Ushimawa: almost every week-end one is asking "can I go over night visit" Many NO`s they have got and sometimes Yes too. I think people might want to be with their families also at week-ends when no work to go.
Wol Euler: yeah :)
Wol Euler: do I really want somebody else's kid underfoot?
Wol Euler: but I suppose if you want yours to be able to go out some time, you have to reciprocate
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Yes
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and sometimes here comes Boys friends
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: But
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I think mostly people might think same way than I do
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and say No many times
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: day times here is sometimes 9 boys in the house
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: 3 scool aged of our own
Wol Euler: wow!
Wol Euler: the noise!!
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and they all bring 2 friends
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yeap
Wol Euler laughs.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and baby
Wol Euler: god, you must be busy.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: sometimes I have had to say to kids "no everyone outside to play"
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: if there have been time to sleep for baby
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: he could not sleep because of noice
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: lol
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yes,
Wol Euler nods.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: there is no problems what should I do on my "free time"
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: lol
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ah,
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: but its natural busy thing
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: with kids
Wol Euler smiles.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and Boys are that old already that friends are important
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: they play with them very much
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and visit to one and another
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: no need to watch after all the time
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: then I was hurry when boys were 3,2 and 0 year old
Wol Euler: yeah, I see that
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: all of them 3 at age to watch them up
Wol Euler: after a while kids start to take care of themselves and of each other
Wol Euler: entertaining each ohter
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: now they are 10,9 and 7 and new baby soon 1
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yeap
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and if mom comes to play with
Wol Euler: that's quite a gap
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: they look at a bit weird face and says "mooomm"
Wol Euler: :)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;D
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: thats the way it goes
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and soon they have their own life
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and then I might be wondering what on earth I will do
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;D
Wol Euler: mmhmm
Wol Euler: it's a real problem, rather like when working people retire
Wol Euler: suddenly a huge amount of time and space, and silence
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yes, I have heard people do not know how to be when kids move to own apartments and leave their childhood home
Wol Euler nods.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: then it is the time again just two of us
Wol Euler: mmhmm
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: if knows what it is anymore
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: lol
Wol Euler: right
Wol Euler: that's the thing
Wol Euler: it has been 20 years since you were alone together :)
Wol Euler: both of you have changed in that time
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: time to fall in love again
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;)
Wol Euler: that's the hope :)
Wol Euler: and many do.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: maby it would be easier if finding a common hobby
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: hmm, and some do not and get devorce
Wol Euler: yep
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: or it goes like one pair I know
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: they have raised up their kids
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and their daughter dyed
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and left 4 daughters
Wol Euler: O.O
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: 2 of them are with their father (2 for one man 2 for my brother)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: and these two who are relative to me
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: are living with grand mother and father
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: in this case
Wol Euler: wow
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: they thought now its retire time
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: but
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: no
Wol Euler: :)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: starting again
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: teenage time etc
Wol Euler: heheh
Wol Euler: that's tough.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yeap
Wol Euler: poor kids, too, it must be hard for them
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: they are pretty tired with girls, because they are fighting all the time
Wol Euler: all those changes, and losing their mother
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yes,
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I think now they have got over it a bit
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: its soon 2 years she continued her path

--BELL--

Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I think they was thinking they have this time for two and maby they waited it. And now its not coming. Sometimes I have wondered if the Universe have a bit weird sense of humour. Those who can not be, they stay to be together. Those who want it , something happens that it can not happen.
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: another case about this sense of humour of universe
Wol Euler: Woody Allen said "God writes a lot of comedy, but he's stuck with bad actors who take it seriously."
Lugh Fehr: hellow
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: One of my friend fighted with her-self one year if making one more baby. And then she gave up and became pregnant. She thought one baby. But what happened , there is coming twins. No twins in family , none with both families; gilr or boy
Lugh Fehr: :)
Wol Euler: hello lugh, nice to see you again
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Hi Lungh
Wol Euler smiles to cosmic
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: that was nice said
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I said to this friend of mine
Lugh Fehr: nice to see you guys too :)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: those two souls knew she would not make any more after this pregnancy and they thought to come at the same time ;))
Wol Euler: heh :)
Lugh Fehr: as they say two heads are etter then one :)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: she laughed and said maby so ;)
Wol Euler: :)
Lugh Fehr: hihi :)
Wol Euler: ah, that must be the famous expression "kit and caboodle" :)
Kit Ciaco: LOL!
Kit Ciaco: sorry
Wol Euler: :)
Kit Ciaco: I was trying to be discreet....
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Hi Kit ;))
Lugh Fehr: hey kit :)
Kit Ciaco: Hey ya';;!
Kit Ciaco: sorry - I was with a client...
Wol Euler: np
Kit Ciaco: sorry - I'm trying to detach him....
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I was wondering here about the sense of humour of Universe ;)
Kit Ciaco: apparently he doesn't want to go home....
Kit Ciaco: LOL!
Lugh Fehr: nice horse tough
Wol Euler: :)
Kit Ciaco: Well, it is the cosmic comediene!
Kit Ciaco: really????
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: hehe, I have noticed
Kit Ciaco: I made the little bugger....
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: made me laugh and wonder
Kit Ciaco: he's ugly but he rides real good
Kit Ciaco: and has such a nice disposition...
Wol Euler checks in her purse for a carrot ...
Kit Ciaco: LOL!
Kit Ciaco: don't spoil him
Kit Ciaco: there.
Kit Ciaco: he's spoiled....
Lugh Fehr: nahh hes cute
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: smiling ;)
Kit Ciaco: I don't know HOW he got that way!!!
Kit Ciaco: the mutt is even worse.
Kit Ciaco: whew!
Kit Ciaco: sorry....
Wol Euler smiles.
Kit Ciaco: at least the dog went home without a fuss....
Kit Ciaco: or not
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: LOL
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;D
Kit Ciaco: hush, boy...
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: maby he likes to be here ;)))
Kit Ciaco: I think so
Lugh Fehr: hehee
Wol Euler: heheheheh
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: he seems nice
Kit Ciaco: all day it was, "Can we go to Pab tonight, can we, can we, can we?????"
Kit Ciaco: sheesh
Kit Ciaco: oh, he's a big ol baby
Kit Ciaco: unless you pull his tail
Kit Ciaco: don't pull his tail....
Kit Ciaco: nah
Kit Ciaco: go ahead
Kit Ciaco: YANK it!
Wol Euler: hello tallin
Tallin Dezno: hi folks ! ... :-)
Kit Ciaco: LOL!!!!!
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Hi Tallin
Kit Ciaco: Hi!!!!
Lugh Fehr: kuclu
Lugh Fehr: hey tallin ..adn forks?
Tallin Dezno: adn forks ? what does that mean pls ?
Lugh Fehr: oh never mind i read hi folks though someone forks came but i coulnd see him
Wol Euler: :)
Lugh Fehr: ....i just woke up ok! :P
Kit Ciaco: LOL!
Kit Ciaco: what's a little typo among friends!
Wol Euler: tell us about your name?
Kit Ciaco: es!
Kit Ciaco: please!
Tallin Dezno: whose name ?
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: all?
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Rl avatar names?
Wol Euler: specifically Tallin
Wol Euler: whose display name is Fya'o Kame
Tallin Dezno: ah ! a friend of mine helped me finding it. i wanted to have a name which can be used for males and females. later i realized that it is also the name of the capital of ... estland i guess ? one of the baltic states ...
Wol Euler: :)

--BELL--

Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ah yes ;)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: main sity of Estonia
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: capital of Estonia
Tallin Dezno: tallinn, capital of estonia, yes ... looked it up on wikipedia now again ...
Kit Ciaco: It reminds me of an Irish word....
Tallin Dezno: one n more then my name has ;-)
Wol Euler: or an African language
Kit Ciaco: I meant the Fya part....
Lugh Fehr: thats intresting why are your avs named like ?
Wol Euler: well, Eule is "owl" in German, and Wol is the name of an owl in the children's book Winnie the Pooh
Lugh Fehr: :)
Tallin Dezno: nice ! :-)
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I have email as "kosmoskukka" its finnish and translated of cosmicflower
Kit Ciaco: you identify with Milne's Owl, Wol?
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: feel like a flower of Universe
Wol Euler: I do :)
Kit Ciaco: I love him!
Lugh Fehr: :)
Wol Euler: like me he is pompous and pedantic and very full of himself, imagines that he knows everything and understands everything, but gets a lot of it wrong.
Kit Ciaco: I wrote a book using the Milne characters loosely - only cast them all as women
Wol Euler: so the name is a reminder to take myself less seriously
Kit Ciaco: very cool!
Lugh Fehr: lugh is a cletic god hes master of all arts .. moor like jack of trad mabey
Kit Ciaco: WOW!
Kit Ciaco: I didn't know that, lugh!
Wol Euler: huh
Kit Ciaco: But I am a "bear of little brain"
Wol Euler smiles.
Wol Euler: another very good tag
Kit Ciaco: My name is self selected from rl
Kit Ciaco: I've worn it over 40 years
Kit Ciaco: in 6th grade there were 4 Kathy's in my class
Wol Euler: heh
Kit Ciaco: When we moved in 7th grade the first day I just introduced myself as Kit
Lugh Fehr: :)
Kit Ciaco: as an identity thing, I guess.
Kit Ciaco: it stuck
Wol Euler: we are teh same age, then :)
Kit Ciaco: my master's degree even has it on it - LOL!
Wol Euler: roughly
Wol Euler: hehehhe
Kit Ciaco: OH!
Tallin Dezno: strange : i miss my flip titler which says i.e "bertram" ... hmmm :o)
Lugh Fehr: hehe
Lugh Fehr: your bertram?
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: well, I thought when you asked when coming and ended "please"
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: ;)
Wol Euler: :)
Tallin Dezno: yes sry pls. some may know. it's not the first time that tallin is here ...
Wol Euler: :))
Wol Euler: very bertram
Tallin Dezno: lol
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: yeap ;)
Lugh Fehr: yes i though you where two poeple hehehe hey bert
Tallin Dezno: ty (?) :o)
Tallin Dezno: i think we are unnumbered persons, all of us (!) ... ;-)
Wol Euler: yes, in all worlds
Kit Ciaco: What does that mean???
Wol Euler: innumerable
Kit Ciaco squinting and leading forward.....
Kit Ciaco or leaning....
Wol Euler: call me legion for we are many
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: maby there is many me`s in this universe
Kit Ciaco: or one....
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: one in altair
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: one in andromeda
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: one in earth
Tallin Dezno: there are so many aspects and they get mixed again and again in new forms and structures and all that i mean kit. also a s baby we were not the same like we are nowadays and so on ...
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: one in well, where ever
Wol Euler: and all the parallel universes
Wol Euler: earth' and earth'' and earth''' and so on
Tallin Dezno: we are a different person in business perhaps, another character in our family and all that ...
Lugh Fehr: what ever happened to the me that i was a year sgo is it still aroun?
Kit Ciaco: yes
Kit Ciaco: yand wiser than your you today, I think....
Kit Ciaco: at least mine is
Kit Ciaco: I draw my many prior selves close to me from time to time for counsel
Tallin Dezno: it's also a matter of the view we put on it
Kit Ciaco: Our oldest selves are actual the infants that we were
Kit Ciaco: absolutely, Fya
Tallin Dezno: and a matter of words
Wol Euler nods.
Lugh Fehr: alan watts says we where the evil gleam in our fathers eye
Lugh Fehr: hehe
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Dears I need to go
Wol Euler: and I, sadly, work awaits
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Good to see You all
Wol Euler: bye cosmic, have a wonderful day!
Lugh Fehr: bye bye cosmic and wol
Kit Ciaco: ok
Kit Ciaco: bye everyone!
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: I will ***<3<3<3***
Kit Ciaco: see ya next time!
Wol Euler: bye kit, bye fya'o
Lugh Fehr: adios :)
Tallin Dezno: ah. only now i notice the mess with my name : where can i change the name in phoenix pls ? can somebody help me with that ? i see tallin because i set it like this ...
Wol Euler: bye lugh
Cosmicflower Ushimawa: Byeee
Wol Euler: your display name is fixed for a week, sadly
Tallin Dezno: bye every leaving beings ...
Wol Euler: you can only change (including remove) every 7 days
Tallin Dezno: i know but the week should be over already
Wol Euler: edit menu/display name
Wol Euler: near the bottom
Lugh Fehr: up up and away!!
Tallin Dezno: ty ! :-)
Wol Euler: bye lugh
Tallin Dezno: bye lugh :-)

--BELL--

Wol Euler: hello and goodbye, yaku, ich muss zur Arbeit
Wol Euler: ich lasse den recorder am laufen
Wol Euler waves a silent goodbye to Observerm
Tallin Dezno: dont find edit menu / display names ... :-/
Tallin Dezno: und huhu yaku
Yakuzza Lethecus: good morning